The real death is that no one in the world remembers you. So you really disappear from this universe.
Something big happened at Yuan Hong's home.
That means his grandmother passed away.
Grandma passed away
Go along the way!
Yuan Hong's grandmother passed away. I hope Yuan Hong’s grandmother lives happily in another parallel world.
Due to the Wuhan epidemic, Yuan Hong was unable to go home to see his grandmother. This is what Yuan Hong felt the most uncomfortable. He really wanted to go back and take a look at his grandmother for the last time, but he couldn't do it.
When Yuan Hong was 5 years old, his grandfather passed away. It was the first time he was really facing death at a young age.
Yuan Hong, who was 5 years old at the time, even laughed with his cousin in his grandfather's mourning hall because he thought the adults' actions were funny.
At a young age, I naturally don’t know the sadness of adults.
My cousin was slapped by my aunt on the spot, and Yuan Hong and my cousin started crying on the spot.
This is the biggest impression that my grandfather left on Yuan Hong after his death.
once again mentioned the death of my grandfather, which gave Yuan Hong a deeper understanding of life. He believes that many people are living blindly without any goal.
In the past thirty years, Yuan Hong has been trying his best to do everything well. He is qualified about friends, husband, son, and father.
Back then, when my good friend Hu Ge had a car accident, Yuan Hong spent a year taking care of Hu Ge. How valuable this friendship is. So, when Hu Ge unconditionally supported Yuan Hong, he knew how pure their friendship was.
As a husband, Yuan Hong favors Zhang Xinyi and has never disliked Zhang Xinyi for being a second marriage. As long as you are at home, Yuan Hong will take the initiative to get up early to cook, then feed his son, and let his wife have a good rest. In order to make Zhang Xinyi happy, he will also take the initiative to hold a birthday party for Zhang Xinyi, which is the case every year.
As a father, Yuan Hong was alone at home when his wife was working outside.
In recent years, although Yuan Hong has not delivered a very satisfactory answer, in other aspects, Yuan Hong is definitely impeccable.
Now 35 years have passed, and the 40-year-old Yuan Hong has once again faced the proposition of death. The difference is that this time is the death of his beloved grandmother.
Yuan Hong and his grandmother have the closest relationship since childhood. During the past three years of epidemic, Yuan Hong’s biggest wish is to go home to visit his grandmother.
Every time I go back to Wuhan, the first thing Yuan Hong has to do is not to visit his parents, but to visit his grandmother. Grandma is the most difficult person he can give up.
Zhang Xinyi visits grandmother
Shortly after Zhang Xinyi gave birth to a son, Yuan Hong and Zhang Xinyi took their son, who was only a few months old, to visit their grandmother. Grandma held the hand of her great-grandson, her eyes full of hollowness.
At this time, my grandmother had already disregarded people.
Yuan Hong also walked hand in hand with his grandmother and put sunglasses on his grandmother. Yuan Hong specially filmed and recorded a lot of videos about his grandmother, so that he could leave many memories.
I want to praise Zhang Xinyi here. She is also a good granddaughter-in-law and often goes back to visit her husband Yuan Hong's grandmother. She never disliked the old man and was very close to her grandmother. At that time, my grandmother couldn't open her eyes.
Zhang Xinyi has a very good relationship with her mother-in-law. She goes home with her mother-in-law to visit Yuan Hong's grandmother every time. After marriage, Zhang Xinyi handed over all the money Yuan Hong earned to her mother-in-law for management.
In this marriage, Zhang Xinyi, who was married for the second time, had a hint of humility in her bones. Before marriage, her mother-in-law was in charge of all Yuan Hong's income, and she didn't want to make her mother-in-law unhappy after marriage.
So, after marriage, Yuan Hong's money was still handed over to his mother for his care.Yuan Hong is responsible for all the family expenses, and Zhang Xinyi takes care of the money himself.
There is no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, and there is no financial conflict. After marriage, Zhang Xinyi and her mother-in-law had a very harmonious relationship. The mother-in-law even treated Zhang Xinyi as her daughter.
Every time Zhang Xinyi returns to her husband's house in Wuhan, her mother-in-law will specially make a bowl of lotus root rib soup , which her daughter-in-law likes to eat.
Family should be like this, it is a palace of love, joy and laughter.
suffers from Alzheimer's disease
It turns out that Yuan Hong's grandmother has suffered from Alzheimer's disease for many years. From a little bit to absent from knowing Yuan Hong, she gradually stopped even from knowing her own children. In the end, she forgot everything and no longer had any worries.
Yuan Hong's grandmother left like this when she forgot everything.
Five or six years ago, Yuan Hong could teach his grandmother to take selfies on his mobile phone and teach him to memorize Zhang Xinyi and his name. In the past two years, my grandmother has gradually been unable to communicate anymore and rarely opens her heavy eyelids.
Every time, Yuan Hong went back to see my grandmother, he was actually afraid and worried inside, worried about which meeting would be the last time.
I didn't expect that what he was most worried about happened after all.
Yuan Hong also released a video of his grandmother's death. Yuan Hong's grandmother lived in a very ordinary suite. The house was very simple, the balcony was just like an ordinary family, and the furniture was also very simple.
Yuan Hong's grandmother is also a very blessed old man. She has filial children and a grandson who is so filial.
May Yuan Hong’s grandmother go well! ! !
