"When this woman is alive, marriage is just a scenery in life. Success and failure cannot be separated from the word "gain and loss". In the future, no matter what love, scenery or person you meet, don't give up yourself for a man. It's not worth it."
This is Sang's heartfelt words. This teaching can be said to be the best gift she gave to Shaoshang.
Once a woman chooses the wrong man, she will suffer a lot. However, after experiencing these hardships, how to live in the next life depends entirely on your own awareness.
The reason why Sang was able to say this was because she experienced a heart-wrenching love in the first half of her life.
Sang is the daughter of the owner of Bailu Mountain. She was born in a scholarly family and was well-educated since childhood. The only flaw is that it is mediocre.
She had been married to Huangfu Yi since she was a child.
Huangfu Yi is talented and has a look comparable to " Song Yu ". There are naturally many people around him who admire him. He is young and frivolous, and facing so many temptations, he is naturally dissatisfied with his fiancée's appearance. Although I don’t say it, the expression on my face naturally cannot deceive people.
But what happened later made him change his feelings for Sang.
When Huangfu Yi was 17 years old, an accident occurred at home and Huangfu Yi had to go far away.
At this time, many people advised Sang to break the engagement, but not only did Sang not break the engagement, but also took care of Huangfu Yi's family with his own strength.
After waiting for seven years, Huangfu Yi finally could return to his hometown. He promised Sang that he would come to the door to propose marriage on Sang's father's birthday.
, Sang waited for a day and a night, but Huangfu Yi did not show up, and Sang became a big joke.
A few days later, Huangfu Yi appeared at the Sang family. He knew that he had made Sang's heartbroken and disappointed, so he begged to explain to Sang, but Sang just refused to see him.
After a few more days, Sang finally agreed to see Huangfu Yi, but she did not give Huangfu Yi any chance to explain. She was determined to break the engagement. There is no room for recovery.
More than ten years have passed, and Sang has long lived a happy life with Cheng Zhi, but Huangfu Yi is still living in pain. He still cannot understand why Sang, who has been waiting for him for seven years, gave up this relationship so easily.
So he regrets, he is depressed.
Ke Sang's seven years of dedication, and for her, she has used time to prove her sincerity for Huangfu Yi.
But at a critical moment, Huangfu Yi would rather make her sad than protect another woman, accompany her to see her doctor, and see that she is safe, so she will be willing to return to her side.
Sang finally woke up. Huangfu Yi could not give her the sincerity she wanted, so it was the wisest way to withdraw in time.
If Sang is unwilling to give up on his efforts for those seven years and marry a man who doesn't care about himself, even if he gets married, he will not enjoy the happiness he wants. Instead, he also spent his whole life.
Silence is very expensive, but if you wake up early, get out of here, then reinstall and continue on the road, then everything will not be a waste.
Life is short, there is no need to give up the entire forest for a big tree.
It is precisely because of this soberness that Sang can live happily and happily in her marriage.
And she also hopes that Shaoshang, who is in love, can realize this earlier and prepare for the worst, so that he will not be at a loss when he is hurt by love one day, and even have to die, which will affect his life.
Sang is really good to Shaoshang. He not only cares about Shaoshang's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also cares about Shaoshang's feelings and teaches her how a woman should live in this life. No wonder Shaoshang likes her more.
and understand this passage of Sang, and you will understand how a woman should live in this life:
Don’t regard love as the only pursuit in this life, even for a woman, there are many things you can do.Having love is just the icing on the cake. Without love, you must also strive to live the way you want and become the person you want to be the most.
Life is long, but it is also wonderful. Under no circumstances should you live for a man, but for yourself.
Don’t think about the past, just look at the future, this is the sobering woman should be!
