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As we all know, singer Li Shuangjiang married a young wife 27 years younger than him Mengge . The two have a notorious son Li Tianyi .
What many people don’t know is that Li Shuangjiang actually does not have only one son.
Before marrying Meng Ge, Li Shuangjiang experienced a marriage and had a son named Li He.
is just compared to praise Meng Ge and Li Tianyi everywhere, he kept silent about his ex-wife and Li He, as if they did not exist.
As Li Shuangjiang's eldest son, Li He has never enjoyed fatherly love, which is really different from the love Li Tianyi received.
But it is such a child who lacks fatherly love. When Li Shuangjiang encountered a low point in his life, he accompanied him and helped him get out of the haze of life.
So, what kind of person is Li He?
What kind of story does he have with his father Li Shuangjiang?
It all starts with the beginning of the story.
01
Li Shuangjiang is from Dezhou, Shandong Province. He was born in Harbin in March 1939. He has 12 siblings and is ranked fourth at home.
Li Shuangjiang's parents are not rich people, but ordinary workers. Li Shuangjiang's mother Li Song even doesn't know a single word.
For Li Shuangjiang's parents, it is very hard to support 13 children.
Therefore, when he was a child, Li Shuangjiang often went to the Songhuajiang sidewalk field to scatter the bark to burn firewood during winter, and often climb trees to pick up elm money to help his family survive the food famine.
Although life was so difficult, Li Song tried his best to make the children have a happy childhood.
Because he can sing, Li Song often sings children's songs such as "Little Cabbage" and "Looking at Lanterns" to his children, and Li Shuangjiang likes to listen to them very much.
In addition, Harbin was known as the "Little Moscow of the East" at that time, and its music culture was very popular. Influenced by this general environment, Li Shuangjiang became more interested in music.
At the age of 7, Li Shuangjiang learned the first song in his life - "Song of the Goat".
He sang this song very well and got the attention of a propaganda team soldier. The soldier recorded his song and sent it to Harbin People's Radio Station to play.
At that time, Li Shuangjiang's family had no radio, so his father borrowed a radio from his neighbors. His father placed the radio in the highest place in the home so that everyone around the neighbors could hear Li Shuangjiang sing.
When Li Shuangjiang's singing came out of the radio, his family and neighbors were shocked. They didn't expect Li Shuangjiang to sing so well, and Li Song even secretly wiped his tears from the side.
After this, Li Shuangjiang's love for singing was even more out of control. He often won honors for the school and class in the art fairs.
Even when he was in Harbin No. 4 Middle School, Li Shuangjiang and alumni Jin Tielin and Chen Xinchang formed a small orchestra, and he served as the lead singer.
They participated in the first "Summer in Harbin" concert and often performed in the mass art museum. The amateur singers in Harbin are well-known.
Although Li Shuangjiang's father knew that his son was talented in singing, he did not want Li Shuangjiang to take the music path in the future. In his concept, singing work is ultimately " open-mouthed , the lowest level".
He hopes that Li Shuangjiang can study medicine and become a doctor in the future, respected and have no worries about food and clothing.
In order to let Li Shuangjiang study medicine, his father even said to him:
"I gave your life. If you dare to sing, you will break your legs!"
Li Shuangjiang's father was not joking. When Li Shuangjiang had a dispute with him about this, he kicked Li Shuangjiang. More than 0 years later, Li Shuangjiang recalled: "Kick me on the door panel and bounce back."
The pressure from his father still played a role. After graduating from high school, Li Shuangjiang was admitted to Harbin Medical University with excellent grades .
Just when his father thought he was studying medicine with peace of mind, an admissions news changed Li Shuangjiang's fate trajectory.
02
Li Shuangjiang entered Harbin Medical University for almost 3 months, Central Conservatory of Music went to Harbin to recruit students.
After hearing this news, his heart that wanted to walk the singing path was restless again.
He wanted to sign up, but when he thought of his father, he lost his courage again.
In the end, it was the mother who saw his worries. Li Song said to him:
"If you sign up bravely, you may be admitted. If you don't even register for your name, it will be zero."
With the encouragement of his mother, Li Shuangjiang signed up. Before the exam, my mother made him a black Lenin suit. Because her family was poor and could not afford leather shoes, she made him a pair of cloth shoes with a layered sole overnight.
On the day of the exam, because he was worried that the dirt road would stain his mother's newly made cloth shoes, Li Shuangjiang held the shoes in his arms and walked barefoot for more than ten miles to take the exam.
arrived at the examination room and sang more than a dozen songs in a row. The two professors Tang Xuegeng from the Central Conservatory of Music and Yu Yixuan were examined. The accompanying him was Liu Shikun , who later became a piano master.
Li Shuangjiang's performance satisfied the examiners, and he was admitted on the spot.
At that time, the examiner noticed that his foot was broken and asked him what was going on.
So, Li Shuangjiang told the examiner the story of how his mother, who was poor in his family, supported him, which moved the examiner to cry.
Then Li Shuangjiang was exempted from tuition due to family poverty, and the school also gave him a scholarship of 13.5 yuan a month.
1959, 20-year-old Li Shuangjiang walked into the Central Conservatory of Music, and he became the only candidate admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music in Harbin this year. More than 0 years later, Li Shuangjiang, who had become famous, talked about his mother. He said:
"It was my mother who led me into the path of singing and taught me to be a human being."
After entering the Central Conservatory of Music, Li Shuangjiang studied hard. Because there was no travel fee, he only returned home once in four years of college.
In 1963, Li Shuangjiang graduated from university. He did not immediately become a music worker, but was assigned to a cavalry regiment in Xinjiang.
After staying in the cavalry regiment for 2 years, he was transferred to a unit in Xinjiang. After that, he was transferred to the Xinjiang Military Region Art Troupe.
In the art troupe, Li Shuangjiang's musical talent was released and was loved by many soldiers, but also hostile to some people.
Once Li Shuangjiang was about to perform, and someone deliberately caused trouble for Li Shuangjiang and sprinkled tea on him.
Faced with this situation, Li Shuangjiang did not get angry. Instead, he smiled and went on stage to sing with tea leaves on his body.
In this process, Li Shuangjiang encountered love.
The dancer in the art troupe Ding Ying admires Li Shuangjiang's talent very much. The two of them have worked together many times. Ding Ying found that Li Shuangjiang is not only talented, but also very down-to-earth, serious and motivated.
Finally, after many contacts, the two became more and more familiar with each other, and finally entered the palace of marriage and held a simple wedding in Xinjiang.
After marriage, Ding Ying gave birth to a son Li He.
Seeing his son’s arrival, Li Shuangjiang was very happy and he worked harder.
After having a child, Ding Ying had to temporarily give up her dance career and take care of her children and her family at home.
In order to make Li Shuangjiang work without any worries, Ding Ying took good care of the children alone and kept the family in an orderly manner.
Sometimes Li Shuangjiang encounters difficulties in his creation, and Ding Ying can also give him some constructive suggestions.
In this process, Li Shuangjiang ushered in another opportunity to change the trajectory of his destiny.
03
1970, Li Shuangjiang had lived in Xinjiang for 7 years. Although he had gained some fame in Xinjiang, his singing career had never achieved greater development.
At this moment, the appearance of a man brought a turning point in his singing career.
In the winter of 1970, Sihanouk and his wife visited the northwest. At the welcome party of the Urumqi Camping State Hotel, Li Shuangjiang sang three songs.
Among them, one is an Cambodian song, and this song was created by Sihanouk.
At that time, Sihanouk was in exile in China. He was far away from his hometown and heard someone singing Cambodian songs he created in northwest China, and he felt a lot of feelings.
This time, Li Shuangjiang and Sihanouk established a friendship.
1973, Li Shuangjiang was transferred back to Beijing to work in the General Political Department Song and Dance Troupe.
The reason why Li Shuangjiang was transferred back to Beijing is rumored that it was the result of Sihanouk's help.
A year after returning to Beijing, Li Shuangjiang became famous all over the country with the song "Red Stars Shine Me Go to Fight".
became famous and his living conditions in Beijing have greatly improved, so he took his old mother from Harbin to Beijing, and his wife and children in Xinjiang to Beijing.
After Ding Ying arrived in Beijing, he took care of his children and Li Song at home, and taught folk dance in the Dance Team of the Art Department of the Central University for Nationalities.
Ding Ying still takes good care of her family as before. But he found that Li Shuangjiang had changed. Li Shuangjiang went home late and late, and sometimes he didn't even go home. The reason given by Li Shuangjiang was that he was busy with work.
Apart from this, Li Shuangjiang did not communicate much with Ding Ying.
Aware of these situations that are not conducive to marriage, Ding Ying specially found an opportunity to have a good heart-to-heart talk with Li Shuangjiang, but was blamed by Li Shuangjiang.
Ding Ying felt very wronged, and she said to Li Shuangjiang:
"Since marrying you, I have been a cattle and horse for this family, what is it for? Now you have achieved success and fame. I dislike me, a yellow-faced woman, and I think I am not worthy of you anymore, right?"
There is something wrong with their relationship.
After a long time like this, Li Shuangjiang filed for divorce.
Seeing his son so disrespectful to such a good daughter-in-law, Li Song persuaded Li Shuangjiang many times, but Li Shuangjiang still insisted on divorce.
Finally, around 1981, they divorced, their son Li He lived with Ding Ying, and Li Shuangjiang paid some monthly support.
04
Ding Ying and Li Shuangjiang divorced, but did not remarry. She trained her son with all her heart.
Ding Ying feels very heartwarming about his son's sensibility and filial piety.
At that time, Li He would take the initiative to do housework and tell his mother jokes to make her happy. Sometimes when his mother came home late from get off work, he would burn hot water for his mother to wash his feet.
Li He doesn’t have to worry about his studies. Li He is a top student and has always had excellent grades.
The year after graduating from university, Li He got the opportunity to study abroad.
Before going abroad, he said to his mother: "Mom, after I go abroad to study, I will support you, you don't need to work."
When he arrived abroad, in order to relieve his mother's pressure, Li He chose to work and study half-time.
After returning from his studies, Li He participated in the interview with the Beijing General Political Department Song and Dance Troupe and was successfully hired.
In such years of growth, Li Shuangjiang was absent from Li He's life. He had a little wife and another son.
In 1988, Li Shuangjiang, who was teaching at the Central Conservatory of Music, met Meng Ge.
This year, Meng Ge went to listen to Li Shuangjiang's class. After Li Shuangjiang finished his class, he said to Li Shuangjiang: "Teacher Li, I will sing a song for you."
After listening to Meng Ge's singing, Li Shuangjiang liked it very much. He said to Meng Ge: "You have such good conditions and sing so well, why didn't you come out!"
After that, the two established a connection and developed a couple relationship a year later. Two years later, Li Shuangjiang proposed the idea of getting married.
When Meng Ge told her father the idea of marrying Li Shuangjiang, her father strongly opposed it. He did not want his daughter to marry a man of the same age as him.
For this reason, Meng Ge's father also specially rushed from his hometown to Beijing to obstruct their marriage, but unfortunately the obstruction failed.
On October 20, 1990, Meng Ge still married Li Shuangjiang, who was 27 years older than him despite his parents' opposition and the surprised eyes of the outside world.
Marry a little wife, and Li Shuangjiang loves her in every way. Meng Ge sometimes gets angry, and he will think of ways to coax her, which is a "treatment" that Ding Ying has never enjoyed.
After marriage, Meng Ge felt that Li Shuangjiang was older and wanted to give him a child. Unfortunately, their first child had a miscarriage.
Fortunately, half a year after the first child had a miscarriage, Meng Ge became pregnant again. In April 1996, Meng Ge successfully gave birth to a son, and Li Shuangjiang named him: Li Tianyi.
When Li Tianyi was just born, his face turned purple and the doctor sent him to insulated box for observation.
Because he was worried that the nurse would accidentally kick off the wires of the insulated box, Li Shuangjiang stayed in front of his son's insulated box for three days and three nights.
Li Shuangjiang is extremely fond of Li Tianyi and has also trained it with great care.
Li Tianyi became the image ambassador of Chinese children's Olympic bid at the age of 4, and learned piano from the famous pianist Han Jianming.
html When he was 08 years old, Li Tianyi followed Zhiwen from Tsinghua University to learn calligraphy.10 years old, Li Tianyi was already a member of the Chinese youth ice hockey team and participated in domestic and foreign children's ice hockey competitions many times.
In addition to this, he also won many awards in piano competitions and calligraphy competitions, and became the youngest member of the Haidian District Calligraphy Association in 2009.
But it is such a star second generation who seems to have an unlimited future, but is a demon.
05
On September 6, 2011, Li Tianyi, who had no driver's license, appeared at the entrance of Huafu Community, Xishan, Yicheng, Haidian District, Beijing in the BMW car given to him by Meng Ge.
Because of driving problems, he beat Mr. Peng and his wife in the car in front of him for 3 minutes.
He shouted while beating: "Who dares to hit 110."
In the end, Mr. Peng and his wife were sent to the hospital and Li Tianyi was arrested.
Because he is underage, he was taken into custody for one year.
On September 19, 2012, Li Tianyi was discharged from education. Instead of restraining himself, he did something that both man and gods were angry and was scolded by the public.
On the evening of February 17, 2013, Li Tianyi and his four friends turned a young girl into a round.
Li Tianyi could not escape the legal sanctions and was sentenced to 10 years in prison.
Li Tianyi committed such a serious crime, which made Li Shuangjiang and Mengge very sad. Li Shuangjiang was once admitted to the hospital due to his critical illness.
Just when Li Shuangjiang was in a low point in his life, Li He took the initiative to contact Li Shuangjiang with his mother's consent.
He said to Li Shuangjiang and Meng Ge:
"Don't worry, I will be responsible for taking care of you."
He cooked for them and took them out for a relaxing time. When Li Shuangjiang was sick, Li He was also with him.
Once, Li He also made dumplings for Li Shuangjiang. Looking at the cooked dumplings placed in front of him, Li Shuangjiang's eyes suddenly became wet.
Finally, with Li He's company and care, Li Shuangjiang and Meng Ge's lives slowly returned to normal.
Li He, who lacks fatherly love, held back his father and stepmother's old age without grudges.
Now, Li Shuangjiang is waiting for his youngest son to be released from prison. In order to save some money for his youngest son, he participated in the commercial performance regardless of his age.
Li He continued to keep in touch with Li Shuangjiang and Meng Ge, and he would often call them to ask if they needed help.
On weekdays, Li He is extremely low-key and lives a simple and happy life.
are also Li Shuangjiang's sons, and Li He and Li Tianyi are really different.
I have to say that spoiling children is like harming children. Parents should pay more attention and not let their children become people who are harmful to society.
also hopes that some parents can truly understand the value of family affection.
