text/Zhang Xiaonuan
Wen Yanjing swore in front of Sheng Hong and the eldest lady: Even if seven or eight princesses look at me in the future, I will not be moved.
But the reality is that Wen Yanjing was restless just after she was released.
In the original work, Hualan said this:
Liu brother-in-law treats Liu sister as her eyes, and is afraid of melting when she holds it in her mouth, and is afraid of falling when she holds it in her hand, and refuses to separate for a moment. But my fifth brother-in-law has to beat him from time to time. A while ago, my fifth brother-in-law gave me a beautiful concubine to the top of the mountain. My fifth sister made a lot of noise and finally agreed.
Gu Tingye The oath he made in front of Minglan has come true. Gu Tingye is the old man among men, and Minglan is the old man among women. Gu Tingye said that he only loves Minglan in his life, and he has done it. The original work says that he gave the two beauties he gave to him by the vassal king to Wu Zu, who could not marry his wife, only Minglan was in his eyes.
Ke Wenyanjing's oath made in front of his father-in-law, and moved a place and threw it behind his mind.
Thinking about the fact that his love was stronger than Jin, he could not stand scrutiny. It was more like a scene directed and acted by himself. Only Rulan was fascinated and got involved.
Famous
When Minglan learned that the man Rulan had met privately at night was Wen Yanjing, which was the object Sheng Hong promised to Mo Lan, Minglan cursed on the spot: He is shameless and has lost the marriage of the fourth sister, so he will harass you.
Rulan retorted: Brother Jing is a real gentleman, and he saw me first. When my father chose him as his son-in-law for his fourth sister, he specially invited him to come to his house for tea. That time, I threw a veil in the garden. Brother Wen's family happened to pass by. He thought I was a little girl, so he picked up the veil for me. Later, he came a few more times. Every time I waited for him in the garden, I thought about saying a few more words to him. He said I looked nice and comfortable and bright.
In fact, when Rulan said these words to Minglan, Minglan was questioning, and Wen Yanjing's words were justified.
Wen Yanjing's words cannot stand scrutiny at all.
One of them, Rulan is the legitimate daughter of the Sheng family, and the eldest lady wishes to put the most expensive mink on her little daughter. Rulan's clothes must look precious in gold and jade. In terms of clothes, how could she look like a little girl?
Secondly, Ru Lan is a tough guy in the Sheng family. She loves to show off her daughter's style and uses her daughter's style to suppress Mo Lan's head. So, judging from the temperament she exudes, how could she be a little girl?
These two points are already in Wen Yanjing's mind. However, in order to show your admiration for Rulan, you will definitely say "I love you and have nothing to do with your identity". Who would be so stupid that you say "I love you because you are the daughter of the Sheng family."
Furthermore, from the conversation between Rulan and Minglan, it can also be seen that Wen Yanjing is really a master of love and is very cunning.
Rulan said to Minglan: Later he learned that I was the legitimate daughter of the Sheng family. My father asked him to marry a concubine daughter. He also wrote me a letter and would never see me again.
However, the day after Wen Yanjing and Mo Lan's marriage was finished, his love letter came to Rulan again, and he successfully grasped Rulan again, which shows how clever Wen Yanjing's methods of flirting with girls were.
Wen Yanjing rejected Rulan and said, "The orders of parents and the words of the matchmaker", which seemed to be aware of the general situation; when he gave up his marriage with Molan, he said, "I still love you, I can't let go", which seemed to be sincere.
This cunning emotional intelligence will take down Rulan, a silly girl.
Rulan really loves Wen Yanjing. Minglan once advised her to be mentally prepared. The eldest lady would not agree if she beat her to death. What's more, Wen Yanjing was chosen by Mo Lan.
Rulan said firmly: If my mother doesn’t agree, I will hit her head to death. If a person pretends to be another person in his heart, he can do anything.
This is not what happened yet, Rulan is going to live and die for him.Perhaps, Rulan looked at Wen Yanjing as aforementioned because she liked this person, but she didn't know that Wen Yanjing's love for her and love for her was not that pure.
: When he colluded with Gu Tingye, he deliberately found out about this when he met Rulan, he was just betting on Rulan's reputation. It was so ugly to spread it.
Have he ever thought about what if the Sheng family still doesn’t want Ru Lan to marry him once the matter is exposed? This ruins the girl's innocence for the rest of her life.
He colluded with Gu Tingye, isn’t it a bit overestimating his ability? Gu Tingye has the ability and ability to clean up the mess. Does he have it? If the Sheng family beat Rulan to death and refused to marry Rulan, then he would have harmed Rulan for the rest of his life.
Use Rulan’s reputation as a bargaining chip to bet on your own emotions and desires. Such love is too selfish.
Perhaps, Wen Yanjing had already grasped Sheng Hong's mind. Sheng Hong knew very well that this young daughter was not suitable to marry into a high-ranking courtyard, and she might be happy only if she married a small family. After
and Rulan got married, Wen Yanjing's quality of life has been greatly improved.
house, Qiancheng
Wang's family bought a two-in and three-in-three house for Rulan in the suburbs of Beijing. Now, it is a large flat floor, and some female envoys and mother-in-law have also been purchased.
Wen Yanjing naturally brought his mother and brother into the big house.
Molan once joked Rulan: Even if I have no future, I rely on my husband's family to live diligently. is not like some people, and they even raise a man with a dowry. No wonder people say that their daughter is a money-losing product.
For this big mansion, old lady Sheng also scolded the eldest lady. Even though he knew that Rulan's mother-in-law was not a sensible person, and even though he knew that Rulan was not together with this mother-in-law, he still insisted on buying a big house for Rulan. With such a spacious residence, the mother-in-law naturally brought her younger son in.
If the eldest lady really thinks about Rulan, she should buy a small house, which is enough for her and Wen Yan to live there. When the mother-in-law sees the small place, she will be embarrassed to squeeze in. This way, the couple will have a more comfortable life.
When the eldest lady heard this, she suddenly realized it, but she regretted it.
Sure enough, after my mother-in-law lived in the big house, she made things difficult for her everywhere.
is either a punishment for Rulan Station, or deliberately stuffing a room into his son's house, or deliberately taking advantage of Rulan's pregnancy and unable to serve Wen Yanjing, he deliberately took a concubine to Wen Yanjing.
Rulan once said to Minglan: I just thought that when I went to the Earl's Mansion to visit my elder sister and saw her evil mother-in-law, I said, if I live such a wronged life in the future, then I would rather be my sister-in-law for the rest of my life!
In order to live a comfortable life, Rulan is the only girl in the Sheng family who married, but she still hasn't escaped her mother-in-law's ugly face. Perhaps, things are contrary to their wishes and are the norm in life.
As Minglan said, If I am a lucky person, even if I climb high, I will live a comfortable life; if I am a lucky person, even if I marry low, my life will still be bumpy.
Rulan came to her anger and went home to complain to the eldest lady.
The old lady gave the eldest lady a tip: ask Brother Bai to talk to the fifth aunt and tell him to be smarter. If there is a conflict between my mother and wife, he has to distinguish right from wrong. There is no need to favor which side, and do whatever you should do... Humph, speaking of it, our Sheng family has had a divorced daughter!
The so-called "Let Wen Yan be wise" means asking him not to look to his own mother. After all, his mother never understands it.
Since then, no matter what rifts there are between Rulan and her mother-in-law, Wen Yanjing has always been hiding and no one can help. He felt that avoiding means not looking at his own mother, just helping Rulan? In this regard, we have to mention Changbai .
Wen Yanjing and Changbai are both pillars of the family. They both married high-ranking girls, and their own mothers are also difficult to deal with, but Changbai can protect Hai in front of the eldest lady, but Wen Yanjing can't do it.
What is truly loving a woman? It is to protect her all the time, and to make a difference between the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, rather than avoiding tranquility.
The big reason why the eldest lady was able to get along well with the Hai family in the end was that Changbai maintained the Hai family and the eldest lady did not dare to act rashly. Rulan's mother-in-law embarrassed Rulan repeatedly, a large part of the reason was that Wen Yanjing was in the middle and did nothing and always hid when encountering problems.
Rulan is born simple and doesn’t want much. She once showed off in front of Minglan like she had won. Whenever she had a conflict with her mother-in-law, Wen Yanjing would hide from the Hanlin Academy to work overtime, as if Wen Yanjing's evasion was already a great help to Rulan.
In the career of the government, Changbai and Sheng Hong also gave Wen Yanjing great help, of course this is inseparable from Wen Yanjing's own efforts.
But the reality is that there is no shortage of people working hard in this world. With the same opportunity, hundreds of people with equal qualifications will compete for it, but in the end, those who can win this opportunity are often those who work hard and have connections.
cannot be said that marriages with a goal are shameful. Wen Yanjing likes Ru Lan and loves Ru Lan, but if he can find something in this person he likes or loves, whether it is material or future, then wouldn’t it be the best of both worlds?
Jia Pingwa once said: Marriage is a cooperation, there is no need to make it look like love. Remember, love will disappear. In order to continue the incest, middle-level men are looking for help, and upper-level men are looking for strong teammates, scumbags are asking you to help the poor.
It is obvious that Wen Yanjing is a middle-level man who is looking for help, and Rulan's family background is the driving force in his life and career; while Gu Tingye is looking for strong teammates, he is fighting for his career outside, and Minglan is a huge family that is mixed inside, and he is very well-reasoned.
Concubine
In the original work, Wen Yanjing took a concubine twice.
The first time I took a concubine was because my mother-in-law forced Wen Yan to stuff a woman into the house in order to be so angry.
Rulan was pregnant at that time, and she didn't cry or make a fuss. Instead, she stood quietly in the rain and cried, like a jealous and confused little woman. Her husband who was deeply in love with her could not extricate herself because she was afraid that her husband would change his mind and didn't know what to do.
Although she felt very aggrieved at that time, thinking that Wen Yanjing's oath was so decisive that she only loved her, but now, because she was pregnant, she had to take a concubine. If she didn't stop her, the concubine would have been in Wen Yanjing's arms long ago.
Even though she was so angry in her heart, Rulan did not learn from her mother and forced her husband not to take a concubine, nor did she beat and scold her concubine, so that she could stay away from her husband. Instead, she thought of Aunt Lin. She learned to show weakness from Aunt Lin, only talk about feelings, and not talk about anything else.
Rulan's move completely made Wen Yanjing break his defense. He deeply felt that he could not bear such a woman who was deeply in love with him in this life.
At that time, I had just gotten married, and Rulan still loved Wen Yanjing very much, so when she thought of sharing her husband with other women, she couldn't accept it.
For men, they have finally lived a good life, have money to spend, have a house to live, and have officials to be the ones, so they should not be happy as soon as possible.
The second time I took a concubine was when Wen Yanjing posted Quanzhou as an official.
Shangfeng gave Wen Yanjing a beautiful concubine. Wen Yanjing naturally wanted it, otherwise he would not have had a big fight with Rulan for this.
It’s a quarrel, and it’s a quarrel. Rulan is not as tough as before this time. She took this beautiful concubine to Wen Yanjing and fulfilled Wen Yanjing’s beautiful dream.
As soon as Rulan had two children, her thoughts were no longer entirely on Wen Yanjing. She still loved Wen Yanjing, but she was not as devoted as before.
At the beginning, she married this person, hoping that he could be wholeheartedly devoted to her and not be as good as Molan's marriage financially. She must crush Molan to the level of emotional happiness, but in the end, she realized that if a man wants to change his mind, you can't stop him. Instead of keeping a stinky skin, it is better to keep two children.
How dishonest Wen Yanjing was after she was released? The original Chinese words had long exposed the truth. She said that Wen Yanjing needs to "knock at all times" when it comes to men and women.
Secondly, Rulan wanted to make the couple's relationship dissatisfaction because of a concubine, so that her children would live in an environment where their parents had a dissatisfaction since childhood.
Sometimes, if you turn a blind eye for your child, life will continue. Moreover, Wen Yanjing was very responsible to her.
To be said, Wen Yanjing is really the biggest winner among the four sons-in-laws of the Sheng family.
Through a marriage, I had a house and a career, and finally I did not leave a beautiful concubine.
, but Rulan did not get the pure love she wanted at the beginning. In the end, there was no material and no love, and she ended up being teased by Molan.
I remembered a passage from the original work:
The lifestyle of ancient women is the wisest. Manage your property well, ensure a good material foundation, and then love yourself, love your children, love your kind-hearted parents' home, and love a little man occasionally, don't have too many. You won't be sad if you find another woman at the upper limit, and you can show your affection to him just right without feeling disgusted.
Perhaps, if you are a little lighter at the beginning, you won’t be too sad later. After all, you don’t know whether the person you meet is worthy of your hard work.
Author: Zhang Xiaonuan, I hope you and I will meet in the warm and comfortable words and grow together!
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