said that she broke up with her ex-boyfriend for almost a year, but they still keep each other's WeChat accounts.
herself didn't delete it because she couldn't forget this relationship, and she couldn't get out of the shadow of the broken relationship. Thinking of the many good things in the past, she couldn't help but still secretly look at her ex's circle of friends.
She said, did the other person feel the same with herself, and she was reluctant to slip away from each other's lives.
However, after my friend showed me the men’s circle of friends, I realized that it was not what she said.
Although the hair circle of men is not frequent, the content still makes people feel very motivated. I can't detect the influence of the broken relationship. There are even a few photos of happy parties with girls.
is just a friend who thinks too much. When it comes to love, men will always be more sensible than women. In their opinion, breaking up means breaking up. It doesn’t have to be a formal sense of ritual. Blocking and deleting is just a flow. It's just about the form. After
broke up, men still keep your WeChat, mostly for these 4 reasons.
01 It doesn't matter if you delete it or not.
Men’s love is not the same as a woman. Once a woman falls in love, she feels that there is nothing more important than this. Many women like to show affection all over the world, I'm afraid others don't know how happy they are.
, but for men, the attitude is different. In their world, love is always the icing on the cake, not the whole life. The same is true after falling in love. It is time to go out for a drink and go out for a drink. The team should play games and play games.
doesn't mean that he doesn't care about the women he likes, it's just that men and women behave differently. They don't always take selfies in the circle of friends to show off love like women.
The difference between a man and a woman determines the way a man deals with having or broken love, and it will not be too high-profile.
After a woman is broken in love, she is blacked out and deleted, but most men may not do these things because they feel that they have been in love, and although they are sad and painful not to be together, they do not regard each other as an enemy. So deleting or not deleting
does not mean letting go or not letting go, but it is not necessary.
02 Too lazy to bother
There is no shortage of men in life who meet some heartless men, you put all your enthusiasm into, but he is neither lukewarm nor tepid. In the end, you were repulsed by his indifference and withdrawn from his life.
However, you can see that he still posted his circle of friends and didn't mean to avoid you at all.
You think he will feel sorry and sorry for losing, so you still keep your contact, but in fact, soon you may see him again in a relationship with others. A man like
is not about how nostalgic he is for the past. In his circle of friends, maybe his predecessor, former predecessor... both exist at the same time, so I don’t delete it, but I feel too lazy to do it.
Your existence or the existence of others has no influence on him at all, he has not put his heart into it, and you don't have to be too concerned about it.
If he really deletes or blacks you one day, he is willing to really put someone in his heart.
03 For reasons of politeness
most men don't entangle too much on the details, even if the love between you and him is a heart-wrenching memory for him.
but broke up, because of the man's tolerance and manners, he would not choose to take the initiative to delete and black out.
Although he no longer has you in his heart, at least he must maintain a gentleman's attitude. Such men usually rarely post any content in Moments, so it is not important to delete or delete.
does not delete you because he does not deny that you have appeared in his life, but it does not mean that he still holds you in his heart.
is just maintaining the acquaintance of a gentleman on the surface, maybe it has already blocked your information inside.
If he wants to publish some important information about personal issues, he will usually choose to block you because he is unwilling to stimulate you by his actions.
04 If you want to maintain an ordinary friendship,
is alive, and most of you cannot do without friends. The former lover started from the best friend at first.
are attracted to each other because of some of their strengths, and because ofThe other party broke up with some intolerable shortcomings. From different perspectives, lovers and friends have different requirements for each other.
Some people cannot be lovers, but they are still very qualified to be friends.
For most men, after their lovers break up, it would be the ideal choice if they can be converted into good friends.
After all, everyone knows the roots and understands each other deeply. It is good to chat together when you are in a bad mood.
However, after the breakup, there are only a handful of people who can really keep friends, because most of the breakups are not in a peaceful state, and some are even known to everyone.
Keeping friends after breaking up can only be an idealized state. Most men in this category are mature. They can accept both the good side and the bad ending when they look at problems.
05 I still have thoughts about you.
still does not delete a man who has a lover after breaking up. There is another kind of man who cannot forget his old love.
He keeps your contact information, the purpose is to seek reconciliation opportunities with you, so always pay attention to your circle of friends, and only wait for the most appropriate time.
If he still sends you some caring messages from time to time to remind you to pay attention to your body, if you are still unhappy with him, then you may wish to test for a period of time and make sure that his heart really can't let you go, so reconcile as before.
After all, it is not so easy to meet a person you like in a huge crowd. Don't lose the person easily.
However, such men also have a fatal flaw, that is, they are not very mature emotionally.
keep breaking up, and you will regret it after breaking up. If you decide to go back, you must consider this issue carefully.
The most beautiful thing in the world is love, but the most painful thing is the entangled love.
Love is an eternal topic, although there are so many unsatisfactory places such as breaking up. The emotional world is ever-changing, and you have to follow reality after all.
The past love, if there is no room for recovery, no matter how beautiful it is, it will be a thing of the past after all.
If there is still a chance to change, then you must not miss it easily, after all, it is not easy to meet true love.
Love and getting along is a science, you must learn to cherish it when you still have it, don't wait until everything is gone with the wind, you are still caught off guard.
hope to help you have a lifetime of happiness.
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