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Zhu Bailu once said in "The Family Instructions of Zhu Zi": Heavily wealth, thin parents, not adult children.
means that the emphasis on money and not being filial to your parents is not what you should do as offspring. Only by understanding your parents and taking care of your parents can you become a filial and responsible person.
It is true that children should consider their parents, but nowadays, it is not so much that children consider their parents, but parents are more concerned with their children. The "dilemma" of the elderly and the "high threshold" of the nursing home
is different from the traditional farming society. Nowadays, the economy is rapidly developing, and young people have careers and dreams, and even settle in places far away from home.
They are busy with work and small homes. In many cases, it is difficult to take care of the needs of their parents, or they have too much energy and are insufficient to take care of their parents' confusion after retirement.
And if the elderly move to live with the children, it is likely to aggravate family conflicts, or some elderly people are afraid of increasing the burden on the children and are unwilling to live with the children, but the elderly live alone, and the children will inevitably be afraid every day .
Gu Jia, who is only in his thirties, very much hopes that his father can move in and live with him, but his father can’t make it. The father thinks that it’s not easy for his daughter to have today, so he can’t make trouble for him. Besides, the father is here, and the young couple live together. Not so convenient.
However, because he was worried about his father living alone and because of fear in his heart, Gu Jia was awakened by the dream most of the night.
She dreamed of her father having a heart attack. She gritted her teeth in bed and covered her chest in pain. She tried to reach out to call her daughter on the phone on the bedside table, but the phone fell to the floor...
Gu Jia was frightened awake I was so panicked that I hurriedly called my father, but my father's cell phone couldn't get through. Fortunately, my father answered the landline at home and said that the cell phone was out of power and I was fine.
The next day, Gu Jia hurriedly bought something to see her father. Her father understood her worries and offered to live in a nursing home. Later, she found a cost-effective and good condition. His father started to make his daughter feel more at ease. life.
In reality, most of the children have Gu Jia’s concerns, but they do not have the conditions and abilities of Gu Jia. The surrounding areas do not have such a developed pension system, or even a suitable nursing home.
At this time, the pension contradiction suddenly emerged.
So, is there a way to provide for the elderly, which can either not go to a nursing home or live with children? Really, let us take a look at this emerging "new type of pension".
"New type of old-age care", the children can rest assured, the elderly are happy and worry-free
Long ago, there was news about girlfriends building a villa together in the beautiful countryside and holding a group for the elderly, but I always felt that we were too far away. Living in a villa like rich clothes and jade food is not something ordinary old people can get.
However, 63-year-old Aunt Fang has been living in her own home with two girlfriends for 4 years. Aunt Fang said: "Since we have lived together, my children can rest assured that our three elderly people also live happily and worry-free! "Z1z
things have to start when Aunt Fang was 59 years old. Aunt Fang had a bad temper and tolerated her husband for a lifetime. After Aunt Fang retired, she divorced her. Her sons and daughters were all living outside, and Aunt Fang couldn't bear it. People familiar with his hometown were reluctant to live with his children, and have lived alone since then.
Fortunately, not long after the divorce, Aunt Fang found her two like-minded girlfriends in an elderly dance troupe. From then on, she practiced dance with her girlfriends. She went out in the morning and arrived home at night. She had a very fulfilling life, and Aunt Fang was also very happy. Enjoy this kind of life.
However, in the course of a dance practice, Aunt Fang's feet were crippled, his son was on a business trip abroad, and his daughter had just given birth and was still in confinement. Aunt Fang was unwilling to trouble the ex-husband who had long been divorced. So after returning from the hospital, the two girlfriends took turns taking care of her, buying her vegetables, cooking, washing clothes, and eating and chatting with her every day. The days like
lasted for half a month. Aunt Fang suddenly felt that she used to face four walls every day when she came back from dancing. The house was deserted and deserted, but since her feet were cramped, her girlfriends came, and she felt that the whole house was angry. Much lively. The
house was bought by Aunt Fang and her ex-husband. It is 100 square meters of three bedrooms and one living room. When the divorce happened, the ex-husband only took some deposits.The children don’t come back very often, and both of the two girlfriends are single women, so Aunt Fang invites the two girlfriends to live in her home together, so that they will have a company sooner or later.
At first, the two girlfriends had concerns, but couldn't bear Aunt Fang's repeated pleadings, so they relaxed and said: "Well, let's move in first. When you want to be quiet, we will move out."
Who knows that this stay has been four years in a blink of an eye. Aunt Fang and her two girlfriends live in a room, cook together, buy groceries together in the morning, and share housework. Sometimes they can also play cards, read books, or chase dramas together. Time flies quickly.
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