"My girlfriend took me to see my parents and blocked me the next day"

Anonymous fan

I met her and I was introduced by others, but also in different places, and it has been very good.

My country celebrated when I went home to meet and she took me to meet her parents. I originally thought she was the woman I would take care of all my life.

, but everything changed the day after meeting her parents. At first, she said that her parents disagree, because her parents suggested that I was outside, afraid that I could not give her a good life.

All the gifts I gave her are discounted back to me. Sometimes I call her by phone but I can hear her in a bad mood.

I don't know if she really has no feelings for me, or if I should continue to work hard to love her, but I especially want to protect her.

Uncle Zhi

, my friend, hello, uncle don’t know how long you have known each other and how long have been together in different places.

But the uncle can be sure that the relationship between you may not be so deep, after all, you met through introductions by others.

Although you are together, you are in a long-distance relationship and lack the opportunity to learn more about each other.

use phone calls, send WeChat, occasionally chat, and ask each other a few words, you think this is enough, two people get along well. When

really wants to meet, I will definitely encounter new problems when I meet my parents.

You said that everything changed the day after you met your parents. Why did it change? In fact, if you don't tell me, you know that it must be the girl's parents who think you may not be able to give her daughter happiness.

They must have talked a lot about the family situation, about future plans, and your words and deeds will affect whether you meet the standards of their future son-in-law.

Actually confirmed this from your message. Your girlfriend's parents said that if you work outside, you are afraid that you will not be able to give their daughter a good life. Every parent of

actually hopes that their children can live happily. I hope you can consider this from the perspective of her parents.

first analyze the reasons why you did not get her parents’ approval:

first, the meeting is relatively hurried, you may not be fully prepared to meet her parents;

second, although you and this girl are men and women Friends, but it’s the first time to meet each other officially. Actually, it’s not suitable to see each other’s parents at this time;

Third, your parents are conservative and think that if you work in an outside company, you don’t have a stable job, so you can’t give it to him. Daughter is happy;

knows where the problem is, then the uncle would like to give you some suggestions:

first, a girl willing to stay at home and work and stay with her parents is more obedient and loves home.

Obviously, your girlfriend is such a girl. She chats with you privately and gets along very well. But the parents changed after meeting you, which shows that she was shaken by her parents.

Second, give each other a cooling-off period. Don't put too much pressure on her. Love is like sand in your hands. The tighter you hold the sand, the faster you will lose it. In the end, you will find that you get nothing.

In the world of love, you need to give each other more space and breathing opportunities. She wants to run away from you now, but you are chasing after you, which may make her want to run even more in the end.

Fourth, try to understand the true thoughts of the girl and her parents through your introducer, and see if there is still room for recovery. If the girl still likes you, then you have a chance to recover.

You can let their family know more about your strengths through the introducer, and dispel their worries about you. You are only meeting for the first time. It is normal to have thoughts about you, so don't be discouraged.

Fifth, even if you are destined to have no relationship in the end, then the uncle hopes that you will not entangle this relationship. After all, you have not started for a long time, nor have you reached the point of talking about marriage, just treat her as your life. Just a passer-by.

You may be really inappropriate, she may find a better person, and you will also find your own happiness, so you really don’t have to get lost in this relationship.

Finally, the uncle wants to say, it should be yours, after all, everything is yours, but it’s not. You can’t get it no matter how hard you ask.This is fate.

Tell your story, your doubts, and Uncle Chi will help you out. Here is Uncle Chi’s listening section. Welcome everyone to tease. Uncle is always there! Many fans of

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