Nowadays, late marriage and late childbirth is no longer a rare thing, not only for celebrities, but also for ordinary people. People who have not married after 30 years old are everywhere. On the Internet, a couple has raised 6 beautiful daughters. The couple were given very strict education when their children were young.
Under the education of their parents, the 6 daughters are all very good and have good results in their respective jobs. Moreover, it is not difficult to find from the pictures that several daughters have very good looks and great figures. What makes people feel surprised is that these children are unwilling to get married when they grow up. Only the eldest daughter is married. The other five daughters seem to have no plans to marry. One of the youngest daughters is still in school.
The daughters sighed after they said the reasons. The girls said that life is very happy now. They work hard at ordinary times. At the weekend, they can go shopping together and play together without worrying about family chores. Moreover, they are financially independent and there is no need to depend on men for their lives, so they do not want to get married. The progress of the
era originally allowed us to worry about food and clothing and have more energy to fall in love, but now many women would rather choose to be single than marry.
Why are so many women unwilling to get married now?
1, the divorce rate is too high
Now this society is becoming more and more incomprehensible, the marriage rate is decreasing, and the divorce rate is increasing substantially. It is precisely because of this situation that many single men and women are discouraged from marriage, and even feel afraid and fearful. In addition, as people grow older, everyone's thinking has become mature, and they can clearly know what they want, so they choose to be single.
2. High demands on love
After marriage, women’s lives will usher in many trivial things, and there is no quality in married life. Therefore, many women are very scared when they think of these and directly dispel the idea of marriage. In addition, modern women are generally more educated, so they have high requirements for love. Since there is no suitable person to marry, they are simply single.
3, the awakening of independent consciousness
For the vast majority of traditional women, there has never been so much consideration on the issue of marriage and childbirth. They always feel that this is something that must be experienced in life and will be completed at a certain age. But today's women's independence consciousness is slowly awakening, coupled with financial independence, do not need to depend on men, so men are not necessary for them.
is precisely these reasons that more or less lead to women's reluctance to marry. In fact, for these unmarried women, marriage is not necessarily wrong, and it is not necessarily a tomb.
Some suggestions for unmarried women:
One: Don’t take children as a burden
Many women are reluctant to get married because they are afraid that after they have children, they will take responsibility. There is indeed a certain amount of pressure in raising children. After all, everyone wants to give their children the best things, but for children, they don’t actually want much. Therefore, women should not regard children as a burden. Perhaps the appearance of children can give the husband and wife more motivation to move forward.
2: A good balance between work and marriage
Women are willing to devote time and energy to their careers. This is originally a good thing. Everyone has to work harder to lead a better life. But at the right age, women can't just have work in their lives. After all, people have a long life. Love is not the whole life, but it can at least polish our lives. Since
has financial strength, it is better to find a suitable spouse. After getting married, the two will work together to fight for a small family. In this way, I believe that the two will work more aggressively and their married life will be more fulfilling.
Single women have a certain fear of marriage and fear of the unknown married life. This feeling is understandable, but it should not be an obstacle to women's search for a new life. In fact, for women, whether they are single or getting married, they are all personal choices. As long as they live happily, they are the best to live out of themselves.
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