"When he is not cheating, he will talk less and less, and every day he is worried about what he is thinking; after he cheated, I forgave him, but he cheated again. What did I do wrong, why tortured me like this? "Z1z
apart from comforting her, I can understand her biggest fear:
cheating once is not terrible, but terrible is derailing repeatedly, because you don't know when this endless torture is a head, and what is the man who repeatedly cheated what? Before the cheating incident was exposed, many couples had obstacles or even no communication, but in many cases they were ignored. In fact, this is the beginning of the breakdown of the husband and wife relationship. This silent destruction breaks down the fragile intimacy between silence and silence:
hangs up when the phone rang. What does he mean?
He always says busy, what is he doing?
Why does he never want to discuss with me when it is difficult?
wants to get along with him more harmoniously, but can't get into his heart?
I don’t know how many feelings are wrong or misunderstood, because he doesn’t say it, and you don’t know how to read his heart through his eyes, his tone, and his actions.
Women live with men, and they spend most of their lives under the same roof with men.
But in the face of a man who is so close to him, women often think he is far away from him: What kind of person is
?
Why does he do this?
What is he thinking?
What is he going to do?
Why doesn't he settle down all his life?
In fact, men cannot earn less financially. They should gain a firm foothold in society and satisfy their families and become their support. Because of this, men can only move forward in their lives, so the psychological, physical, and life pressures they endure far exceed women.
They use a strong shell to support all their responsibilities. They only remove their armor in front of you, revealing a soft, crystal clear heart that is broken at the touch of a touch.
Many times, the biggest problem in marriage is that we cannot understand each other's real needs and give each other things that they don't want.
When we cannot see the other person’s true thoughts and hear the other person’s true voice, it is easy to cause misjudgment, suspicion and even irreparable harm.
Therefore, love him, understand him, don't push him away with temptation, doubt and harshness.
accept him and understand the image of the fragile man in front of you, he will definitely be more! Plus! Love! you!
Sometimes, without what he said, his emotional language can reveal his heart faster, more accurately, and more intensely! And as long as you learn this, you can understand a man's heart!
When you understand a man's heart, you can control the happiness that belongs to yourself and others cannot take away!
cheating is exciting because a new partner has a lot of excitement, but it will not last. Many feelings are only once in a person's life, so they are especially precious.
is like everyone's first kiss. The feeling of tension and excitement, fear and anticipation is the first beauty of love, which cannot be repeated.
So, the stupidest thing for men who have repeatedly cheated is that they think they can repeat those happiness and seem to get double happiness with the new person again and again.
But they don't know, but they are irretrievably consuming and destroying their own happiness.
Once men have experienced apostasy, their physical and mental well-being threshold is raised. Unconsciously, they need more stimulation to make themselves feel the same happiness.
Some men change women again and again, and in the end they may not even feel like having sex with strangers, and forever lose the ability to make love and happiness.
Smart people will restrain their desires.
We need to remind ourselves that when our desires are quickly satisfied, we are less sensitive to happiness. The threshold of happiness will increase, and it will make us lose the ability to be happy.
If a person lacks intimacy in life, if there is no one to share the big and small things in life. Loneliness will appear. This sense of loneliness is precisely the main reason leading to extramarital love.
On the contrary, extramarital love provides many elements of adventure: flirting, chasing, danger, desire for release, and fear of being discovered.
It is not difficult for everyone to repair their marriage. Losing oneself or living forever in suspicion and quarrel is the real hell.
Everyone has heard a saying that the queen is stronger than the bitter, and the best revenge for cheating is your growth.
The biggest source of women's beauty lies in our inner self-confidence and self-nourishment. Where you fell, you should have the courage to stand up. I hope you can choose to overcome this problem instead of becoming an emotionally out of control person.
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