Introduction: As the age increases, more and more elderly people choose to find a wife to resolve their loneliness in their old age and improve their boring life in their old age. According to common sense, after the baptism of years, the elderly will be more tolerant of each other, and the two also have mature methods for building a family. However, in fact, many half-way couples in their later years have many problems, not only there are no Finding the happiness and ease of life in the old age will make the old age life jumpy. Next, let us look at the true story of this retired old man!
Ms. Li:
I retired when I was 55 years old. I divorced at an early age and started to live alone with my children. It is not easy for a woman to live with a child, and she never thought of finding another one. As the child gets older. I started to have a job and a family, and I was the only one left in the family with children. At the beginning, I felt quite comfortable. I worked longer and paid more for retirement. My son was still successful in starting a business. So in the few years I just retired, I lived very smartly. I often reported group travel and went out to dance, eat and drink. what. Later, every time I came back, I only had an empty room. I still felt very lonely and wanted to find someone to accompany me. So I moved the idea of finding a wife.
My wife and I met at an elderly event in the community. At that time, our community was going to organize a square dance competition. My wife and I were the objects of ballroom dancing. I usually heard the name of my wife. My wife danced well, and she was very good at talking. Over time, everyone in the community knew him. Because it’s the first time for me to dance this ballroom dance, I often forget the movements, but I didn’t expect my wife to have a good temper. Not only didn’t blame me, but kept accompany me to practice slowly. Because my wife was a little shorter than me, I often stepped faster than him. Big, stepping on his wife's feet, he just smiled and said, I have long legs that young people admire.
Frankly speaking, I was really moved when I heard this sentence. Although I am getting older, who doesn't want to be young again? In short, this compliment from my wife made me feel good about him. With this activity, our feelings gradually heated up.
Women always love fantasy creatures. At that time, I still felt that I had been suffering for a lifetime. In my later years, I could still meet someone who really understood me, and hoped to live with my wife every day. So I immediately told my son about this matter, and his son understood me very well. Tell him if you have anything to support. I thought to myself, what other requirements do we two elderly people have, it would be nice to live a steady life. When I told my husband about my son's approval of my marriage, I asked him what the child thinks, and he immediately said that his child also agreed very much. Later, I understood why his son would "very" agree. After
got married, the two of us started discussing whose house we should live in, and things went wrong from this moment. He first hesitated and refused to talk about the situation of his house. I didn't doubt it at first, but I thought it was in a community and the difference would not be very big. Later I found out that his house was rented at all, and he and he were not married yet. Two of his sons live there. Both he and his son wanted to move to my house and live with me! After he knew I had discovered this, he immediately explained that his son had already bought a house in another location and would move out soon. I have no choice but to compromise and ask his son to move out soon.
But I did not expect that they moved here is the beginning of the nightmare. First, the two of them never do housework, do not cook, or even wash their own clothes. Once I couldn't help but yelled at them that I had hands and feet, why I couldn't wash clothes by myself. His son yelled at me on the spot: "What's the matter! To marry my dad, you have to be a cow and a horse for our family!" When I heard this, my forehead burst into blood. You live in my house and eat my house and wear my house. Still so arrogant. I thought my wife would shut up his son, but I didn't expect him to stare at me without saying a word. I went back to my room, crying and regretting it. The more I thought about it, the more angry I got. I immediately packed up my wife and son's things and threw them out. Seeing my behavior, my wife's son planned to hit me with his fists. Fortunately, at this time, my wife blocked his son back. I threatened to call the police. My wife and son began to subdue. My wife immediately changed his attitude and spoke softly to me. But by this time I was sober and forced his son to move out, otherwise I would call the police. His son had no choice but to move out of my house.
After a few days, my sister in the community pulled me aside and said, I am oldBan and his son kept telling the outside that I looked down on them and wanted to torture them at home. They also said that I forced his son to move, causing his son to live in no settlement. My heart sank. It turned out that the harmony in the past few days was pretended. In fact, they spread rumors outside every day. The sisters went on to say that my wife and his son have always been raised by women. The reason why he married me , I also found out that my retirement salary is high, and I have a room to travel every day. At that time, I was blown away by this incident. I went home and meditated for a while, called my son and told him what had happened. After hearing this, my son was very angry and said that he wanted to come over and make trouble with them. Don't worry, I will come back from the field immediately and help me with the divorce.
I saw my son’s reaction and tears fell. I even had to worry about myself when I was too old. Even so naively believing the words of the unconscionable father and son, I regret it and lose sleep every day. The divorce also caused a lot of twists and turns, so I won’t mention it, but fortunately, I finally got rid of the disgusting father and son!
Concluding remarks:
women are often blinded by love. Whether it is a first or second marriage, everyone should open their eyes to see the character of the other person and the character of the other person’s family. Think about this relationship rationally. Step into marriage quickly. In short, I wish you all meet your belated true love in your old age and live your old life together!
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