I found my grandma cheated and told my grandpa, but I was scolded

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My grandma has been working hard when she was young, saved some money, founded a small company, and then her father took over.

Then he became bothered and divorced my mother when I was two and a half years old. I admit that I have no liking for my mother. Maybe she was young at that time and she didn't care about me, so she threw me to my dad and went to find someone else.

My dad is totally disregarding my existence. As far as I know, now has eight people out there, , I don’t know what this means.

A few years ago, my grandfather had cheated on him. If he was found out, he had to ask the family for money , and he broke the security door of my house. I said I was not afraid that it was fake. At that time, I really thought that grandma was a normal person in my family.

A few months ago, at , I accidentally saw my grandma’s WeChat chat history, calling with a man, husband and wife.

may be curious, or too disappointed. I used my computer to log in to her WeChat account and saw a lot of things that were difficult to tell.

I am disappointed and shocked, but I really don't know who I can talk to, because I am too aggrieved.

I chose my dad, and people in their forties should be more mature than me.

I sent him some chat records and a photo, but I didn't dare to post too much. Then my dad was fine at that time, told me to be silent, , and I specifically asked him not to tell my grandma.

Then time passed for a long time, and the two of them were getting more and more excessive, I turned my face and had a showdown with her , she promised never to contact her again.

But trust is a one-time thing, once it is destroyed, it will no longer exist. I think they are still in contact, but I really don't care about it.

Two days have passed since my birthday, and no one in the family remembers my birthday. I bought myself a small cake, lit candles and sang birthday songs, wishing to leave this "home" and never come back.

My grandma said that I had a showdown with her two days ago, and said that I wanted to break this family apart.

Dad blamed her for this, and they scolded each other. But she never felt that she did something wrong, she just accused me ignorantly, complained that I read her chat records, mother, I have the desire to "voyeur", said that I am not good, the city is too deep , and said let her and My dad turned his head against each other is my goal. Grandpa

was also furious when he learned about it, but not because he wore a green hat, but because I told my dad about it, and I became a sinner forever.

They think I betrayed them, a traitor or a white-eyed wolf.

On my birthday, my grandma cursed and forced me to show her everything on the phone, and I blocked and deleted WeChat. So I became a white-eyed wolf on both sides. There really is no place for me in this home. I just want to leave here after the college entrance examination is over, the farther the exam is, the better.

Brother Kai, what should I do. I haven't laughed for half a year, and I am really disappointed with everyone.

Kai Zi replied: Hello, little sister

, I can understand your pain. Growing up in an unsound family, the close relationship at home is all shattered. This is really not what a young girl who is just in high school should face. It is not what you can afford.

Therefore, for you, the best way for is to stay away from right and wrong, read your own books well, and don't care about adults.

The relationship between adults involves property, interests, children, etc. There are too many, not as simple as you seem, they will use their own way to maintain the balance between them.

is just that you are too young, you can't understand the implications.

However, since you have written to me, I will analyze with you why they will complain about you in the end.

first look at the first point. When your grandma worked hard and earned some money when she was young, we can see that , your grandma is a strong woman and a hero of your family.

Come to see your grandpa again. You said that your grandpa cheated and asked for money when he was caught, and even kicked the security door of the house. Z1z can tell that your grandpa is not only bad for your grandma, but also has a more temperamental personality. not good.

So it’s not difficult to understand why your grandma cheated, such a powerful woman, and a hopelessWho can not feel wronged with men who are still tempered?

Not to mention that your grandfather did something to sorry her first.

Of course, why doesn't your grandma divorce, I don't know the reason.

But one thing is certain, there is basically no relationship between them, and since your grandfather apologized to her first, then why couldn't she find her own relationship?

So the question is, why do you think it is abnormal for your grandma to do this?

Why are you going to peek at your grandma's phone?

is because in your opinion, as an elderly woman, should not have an emotional life, should she bear all this for you?

And your father confessed that you don't want to tell this, you have to know, your father doesn't understand, but doesn't want to control, then why do you want to break it?

More importantly, you have been peeping at your grandma's phone.

That's why you said, time has passed, and they are getting more and more exaggerated.

You are a teenage girl. You don't understand the world of adults, and you don't understand the grudges between adults. You can only judge right from wrong and right from wrong based on your own subjective judgment.

Of course, even if you don’t understand, it’s okay and you will be forgiven, but I think you can at least understand that is wrong to peek at other people’s phones.

and you also know that your grandpa has done extraordinary things, he is a person who hurt his family.

At this time, not only did you fail to understand your grandma, on the contrary, you exposed your grandma's secrets. Can your grandma not be angry?

But you said that your grandma "never thought she did something wrong."

What's wrong with your grandma? In order to protect the family, an elderly woman has to bear everything silently. She wants to have a normal emotional life, but she wants to be sneaky. Is this wrong?

There are only a few people in your family. What is your grandma doing this for and for whom?

As for your grandpa being angry, you tell your father what happened, shows that there is a tacit understanding between him and your grandma, and now you have destroyed it.

So I want to tell you, little sister, this family doesn't have your place, but you do this, which broke grandma's heart and destroyed the original balance of the family.

hope you can understand that grandma is not easy, and can also understand grandma's good intentions.