I have a friend who changed his mobile phone number immediately after graduating from university and went to a big city. He lost contact with many friends, including her boyfriend who had been talking with him for five years.
She broke up with him on the phone, although he refused to agree, but she never contacted him again.
I asked her why she was so decisive, five years of love! She said that she really couldn't let it go and could only choose this way to force herself to let go. She loved him very much, but he didn't love her, he was just used to being with her.
During the five years of being together, she rarely saw his friends, even if she knew he had many friends, she also recognized several goddesses.
He is a sentimental person. Basically, there are several dynamics in the circle of friends every day: what you see today, what you do, tomorrow you will see a close friend whom you haven’t seen for many years, and each dynamic will be accompanied by pictures and displayed one by one. There is no picture of her.
She was still a student at that time, with a simple mind and a thin face. Even if she was upset, she was not embarrassed to say it. But after a long time, the resentment in her heart swelled a little, and she became anxious and irritable.
One day, she quarreled with him about a little thing, she lost her temper, and he calmly said to her: Can you be good, don’t get so angry because of a little thing, you know what my good brother said about me ? They wanted me to find a decent girlfriend...
At that moment, she completely muffled her voice, and her heart felt like a needle pierced, and she was shocked in a cold sweat. She is inferior, because she left a small scar on her injured face when she was a child. Although some people still praise her for her good-looking appearance, she never dared to take it seriously.
She thinks carefully, he looks handsome, and he is with herself, maybe because his family is poor and he is not easy to find someone.
That was when they were together for more than a year. She was stuck in the vortex of love and couldn't bear to quit, so she chose to ignore the hurtful words. In the years after
, she watched him naturally basking in the photos of everyone's life, but she didn't have herself, and only her back appeared occasionally. She felt uncomfortable, but embarrassed.
Sophomore, he had an ambiguous object in his university. It was a girl with a boyfriend. He took a lot of pictures of that girl. He took very good photos. She was jealous and no longer tolerated. She had a big fight with him. She said that it was just because he liked photography and did not betray her. In the end, she couldn't help but break up.
just broke up for a few days, she was very uncomfortable, insomnia, alcoholism, skipping class, she did not know how long it would take to get out of the shadow of broken love. Until one day early in the morning, it was just dark, she was woken up by the phone, and he said he was downstairs.
She was surprised to go downstairs and saw him holding a large bouquet of roses and a bear doll. He said that he had been in the hard seat for several hours, and arrived at around 4 in the morning, and waited until dawn before calling her down.
was in early winter, and the night was very cold. She didn't say anything, but her heart was as soft as cotton candy. They get back together.
Later, quarrel, reconciliation, reconciliation, quarrel. In her senior year, others were thinking about finding a job, and she was plotting one thing: to leave him.
She knows that he will not give up after five years of feelings, but she must do so. She doesn't want the feelings without dignity to become her home. Afterwards, they never contacted each other again. They were in the same big city and never met again. Occasionally they only learned about each other from their friends. Z1z
’s friends’ emotional experience made me feel a lot of emotion, and I paid special attention to other people’s circle of friends. I find that people who generally refuse to publish photos of the other half have these types:
1. They want to pretend to be single. The circle of friends has various daily routines, even groaning without illness, taking a selfie of himself from time to time, but never having an object, which only proves that he wants to create the illusion of being single.
2. Senior slag. Moments not only does not have photos of objects, but also groups friends and posts different content. Moments are only visible for 3 days, and he even has hunting objects, so the phone never lets objects touch.
3. I feel that the subject cannot get his hands. doesn't like the subject's appearance and feels that the subject is not worthy of him. Even if he admits that he is not single, he is not reconciled.
4. Privacy awareness. Some people seldom post to Moments. They don’t have a few updates throughout the year. They basically don’t post photos. This is normal. He doesn’t like outsiders to explore his privacy, and he doesn’t want his life to be treated as a post-dinner conversation.
can be said that, except for those who disdain to post in Moments, other people who never publish photos of the subject are all scum of varying degrees.
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