Life is very long, no one can say whether two people can be with each other to grow old. Although many people have promised not to leave, they can't withstand the test of reality. After walking with them, they are completely scattered in the crowd.
You must know that long-term company is not just love. It is more about mutual support, experiencing wind and rain together, and holding on to the ordinary. Therefore, most people who can accompany you to the end have these three characteristics, and you will know by observing them carefully.
Knowing respect is the basis of love. A good marriage must be when the husband loves his wife and the wife respects her husband.
all say whether the marriage is good or not, you can tell by the look of your wife. Looking at Cai Shaofen in the entertainment industry today, it is not difficult to imagine that after more than ten years of marriage, she and Zhang Jin have become immortal partners. She and Zhang Jin have been married for many years, and they still hold hands naturally when they are out or resting. Such a marriage is really envious of others.
Cai Shaofen once said: “Men must respect and women must love. First learn to respect men, and then he will know how to love you.”
Looking at those happy and unhappy marriages, what really affects the quality of marriage is not derailed domestic violence. , But can’t see each other’s efforts and don’t respect each other’s feelings. In marriage, it is more difficult and more important for husband and wife to respect each other than how much money they make and how many gifts they buy.
Marriage is difficult to say. Two people who relied on passion to unite have to face the trivial grind of life; simple and simple, as long as they know how to respect each other’s ideas and choices, give each other space for self-existence, plus The nourishment of love gives the power to cope with everything together.
Whether it is love or marriage, we cannot ask each other to make changes for ourselves. The only thing we should do is to learn to tolerate and respect each other through mutual communication. Only in this way can our love and marriage be as beautiful and smooth as ever. The true love of
is to know how to feel bad.
In fact, the greatest comfort in a relationship is to find someone who can love you and care for you, so that your efforts will become meaningful. It is said that in this life, we will meet love and sex. It is not rare to meet understanding.
The highest state of love is distressed, and only when a person feels distressed for you, can love truly live in the heart. If you feel distressed, you will be willing to pay for his happiness and joy, without any regrets. Just like "He doesn't like you so much" said: "If a man treats you like he doesn't care, then he really doesn't care about you at all."
Gentleness can be disguised, vows can be fabricated, Beauty can be modified, only distress is the real emotion from the heart, which can neither deceive others nor self!
In feelings, many loves are not always able to get the corresponding response from the other party, and only those who really care about you and love you will not make you wronged in love. And the people who really know how to love you, know your contribution, understand your intentions, and can cherish this beauty.
For those who can accompany you to the old age, naturally, they understand you in all aspects and know your heart, so that they will know how to love you more. Therefore,
said that the relationship that can come to the end depends on the persistence and care of both parties. They feel sorry for each other and put each other in their hearts. This kind of relationship is meaningful.
knows how to tolerate and share pressure
You must know that feelings are never a person's business, but more about mutual commitment and mutual sharing. In a relationship, a person who can accompany you to the end is more willing to share, and will not let you bear the pressure of life alone.
is like those couples who can't go on. They are more selfish, they don't know how to consider and share for each other, and only consider their own feelings. The long-term relationship will experience the trivialities of life, and the first good will be polished by the trivialities of life. At this time, what is needed most is someone who can stand in front of oneself and help share.
The contribution of the other party will make this feeling more warm. The sharing of the lover will make this relationship more warm, and the two will be more motivated to join hands in life. After all, the long-term relationship and life depend not on one person's contribution, but on each other's business and mutual understanding of sharing and sharing, and such a relationship will last.
For a good marriage, you must pay to your partner and learn to sayThank you. Nothing is for nothing, even "I love you". I love you and I am your wife. I have done so much for you, and it has a price and conditions. Know how to be grateful for your partner's contribution, this is a return of love.
The person who really accompanies you to the end is someone who can't bear to see you suffer alone, and willingly give and share.
In this world, there does not exist a once-for-all, smooth-sailing relationship.
Qian Zhongshu compares marriage to a besieged city in the novel "The Besieged City", saying that people in the city want to escape and people outside the city want to rush in. Marriage is actually two imperfect people, piled together to form a small world, in which there are crying and laughing, joy and sorrow.
Life is full of hopes and surprises. There is always someone who knows you, understands you, and is willing to accompany you until you grow old. If you do, don't let go.
Responsible Editor | Xing Xiuping
Picture Editor | Xing Xiuping
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