When in a relationship, if your girlfriend keeps mentioning about her ex, it might be crazy, right? And when girlfriends talk about things ahead of schedule, they often can’t continue their feelings, so many people find it hard to understand why their girlfriends keep on doing things in advance.
If you want to understand why your girlfriend keeps mentioning your ex, you must first see whether the girlfriend says the ex is good or not.
If your girlfriend keeps talking about how good your ex is when you are in love with yourself, then there are three things. On the one hand, is that she may be dissatisfied with you; the second is that she may have low EQ; the third is that It may be that she has a problem with the way she chooses a mate, and she doesn't know how to cherish it.
Because she has always said that her ex is good, she naturally wants to show that you are not good through the comparison between you and her ex, that is, she is dissatisfied with some of your conditions or certain things you did. Then by expressing dissatisfaction with you, you are asked to do better and become better, so as to meet your own needs.
is just that she uses this kind of exciting method to stimulate you, and she often fails to get the results she wants. Instead, the trust between you is getting lower and lower. In the end, this relationship will definitely be in crisis. She often mentions the goodness of her ex, so in your heart it is easy to feel that she has not let go of your ex, or that she dislikes you, then if things go on like this, the relationship between the two people will be difficult to maintain for a long time.
She is dissatisfied with you, but there is no problem. After all, no one is perfect. She has opinions on what you did not well, but it is normal. People with high emotional intelligence, when faced with such things, either because of your strengths, so tolerate your shortcomings; or they will use non-violent communication to express her own feelings and guide you to do it willingly Change, not hurt you. So her current performance is indeed a very low EQ performance, which is almost harmless to no benefit.
Her performance may indicate that she is currently riding a donkey looking for a horse. On the one hand, she is not satisfied with you, but besides you, she may not find a better choice than you, so she can only go with you temporarily Together, by the way, to stimulate and stimulate you, see if you can get better, and then see if there is a better choice, if she finds that she has a better choice, she will probably abandon you, and then choose one. Your better choice is probably like this.
If she keeps mentioning her predecessor, she is saying that her ex is not good, and she keeps complaining about her predecessor, then on the one hand it is because of her low EQ, on the other hand, it may be because she is relatively insecure. The reason why
would say that her EQ is low is that even though she is saying that her ex is not good, but in the process of speaking, she is actually expressing that she has not let go of her predecessor, whether it is good or not to let go of her predecessor. Not good, it is a kind of harm to the incumbent.
Secondly, the girl keeps saying that her ex is not good, maybe because she is afraid that you will treat her badly like her predecessor, so she wants to remind you by doing things in advance and hope you can treat her well.
Although her behavior is undesirable, if you can understand her mind, then you should cherish her and give her a sense of security. After she has enough security in her heart, it is estimated that she will not be so lacking. A sense of security. good wishes
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