British writer Ellis said "Marriage is certainly the best way, but it is also a road that must be overcome." In the eyes of the world, marriage is the best way for two people who love each other. But many people have forgotten that it is easy to fall in love with each other and it is difficult to stay together. That’s why Qian Zhongshu’s sentence "marriage is like a besieged city, people in the city want to come out, people outside want to go in".
There is a saying in China, For marriage, we must stress "mendanghu" . When you are in love, you feel that you love each other too much. But when you really walk into marriage, you know that the words of the ancestors are still full of truth. Through the ancient and modern times, most of the wealthy daughters The end result of marrying a poor boy is very tragic. If you don’t believe it, you can see the ending of Li Ka-shing’s wife, Gambling King’s wife, and Jin Yong’s wife.
Suddenly died and the cause of death is unknown
There are so many promises in this world that are just talking, especially the promises of men to women. Compared to Li Zekai and the female celebrities in the circle of dog-blood drama, the relationship between his parents is even more confusing because of the mystery of his mother's death. Li Ka-shing was born in Chaozhou, Guangdong in 1928. In 1939, 11-year-old Li Ka-shing came to Hong Kong with his parents and went to his uncle Zhuang Jing'an. also got to know his cousin Zhuang Yueming .
Li Ka-shing’s family is poor, his father died young, and he left school early to make a living and went to work. Zhuang Yueming’s father was the founder of Hong Kong Zhongnan Watch Company. He had a good family background. He was also a high-achieving student from the University of Hong Kong. There is a huge gap between but Zhuang Yueming still loves Li Ka-shing.
During those hard days of being an apprentice, Li Ka-shing survived through Zhuang Yueming’s careful enlightenment and meticulous care, but because of the big difference in family background, plus the two people’s watch For the relationship between brother and sister, Zhuang Yueming's parents were very opposed to the two being together. But in the tug-of-war between parents and children, it was destined to win or lose from the very beginning. could not hold her daughter's pleading, and the two elders finally agreed to marriage . In 1963, the little accomplished Li Ka-shing and Zhuang Yueming married in Hong Kong.
After marriage, Zhuang Yueming was a good wife and gave birth to two sons for the Li family. He took care of the family in an orderly manner. He was also a good partner and made great contributions to Li's business empire. But no one thought that on the first day of 1990, Zhuang Yueming suddenly passed away at home, just the day before, she and her husband attended the banquet held at the Grand Hyatt Hotel.
Zhuang Yueming’s death was too sudden. Regarding the cause of her death, there are different opinions on the market. The official news stated that she died of a heart attack, died of ineffective rescue, and there are rumours that it was because of Li Ka-shing. Some peach-colored rumors , and then chose to take medicine to commit suicide. This rumor became even more widespread after Li Ka-shing donated Mingyue Tower to the University of Hong Kong.
We don’t know exactly how Zhuang Yueming died, but it’s worth mentioning that after Zhuang Yueming’s death, Li Ka-shing made a vow not to marry his dead wife in order to express his love for his dead wife. But a few years later, Another woman, Zhou Kaixuan, appeared next to him, which shows that he had forgotten the original vows a long time ago.
Wife is sick and husband marries again
A few days ago, Macau’s gambling king Ho Hongshen passed away, but his original wife, Lai Wanhua, was on the hot search. The tragic lady. 黎婉华 was born in 显赫世家, her father is a well-known lawyer in Macau, she is also beautiful and talented, and she was known as "Macao's first beauty" when she was young.
But Stanley Ho, who was born in Hong Kong in 1921, was a poor boy in the family. In 1942 Stanley Ho came to Macau with only 10 Hong Kong dollars. He met Lai Wanhua by chance at work. Stanley Ho fell in love with him at first sight. Following a fierce pursuit, Li Wanhua could not resist the handsome and talkative Ho Hongshen, and the two were together. Although the two have a family background in the sky and the other in the underground , it is unexpected that Li Wanhua’s father is very optimistic about He Hongshen and did not oppose them. In 1947, He Hongshen embraced the beauty.The two are married.
Whether you admit it or not, men and women in marriage are not equal after all. After marriage, Li Wanhua dedicated himself to helping her husband start a business, using her personal connections to help the gambling king build his own business empire step by step. It can be said that the gambling king's subsequent achievements are inseparable from his original wife Li Wanhua, but Lai Wanhua’s selfless dedication is still Wrong paying the beloved.
In 1957, Li Wanhua was diagnosed with colitis. While she was fighting the illness in the hospital bed, He Hongshen married the second room, Lan Qiongying. Regarding this, Li Wanhua was deeply saddened. But she The sorrow is far from over. In 1973, Li Wanhua suffered a car accident in Portugal. This car accident made her bad health worse. In 1981, she and the eldest son of the gambling king, He Youguang, died in a car accident with his wife when they were out. The body was getting worse and finally passed away in 2004. This tragic fate is embarrassing.
家散子死郁郁 lifetime
"The literati and the writers are more affectionate, but the pitiful beauties are more lifeless". You should be familiar with the contemporary master of martial arts novels, Jin Yong, although he has created a book. The classic works have fulfilled the martial arts dream in the hearts of a generation, but it is undeniable that he himself is also a low-hearted person. Jin Yong was born in Haining, Zhejiang in 1924.
In 1947, 23-year-old Jin Yong met 17-year-old Du Zhifen by fate. The two soon fell in love and got married the following year, but they got together and divorced a lot after marriage. In addition, Jin Yonggang went to Hong Kong and was busy with work. , After a long time, the two felt a rift, and finally ended in divorce. It can be seen that marriage is like a career, which cannot be sustained by love alone.
It didn’t take long for Jin Yong to get acquainted with the journalist Zhu Mei. The two also fell in love quickly and got married in 1956. At that time, Jin Yong founded the "Min Bao", and the life of the family was extremely difficult, But his wife vowed to advance and retreat with Jin Yong. It was difficult to maintain at the time of the "Min Bao". When it was about to close down, it was Zhu Mei who sold jewelry to support Jin Yong's career. She not only had to take care of the children at home, but also manage the newspaper.
But at this time, Jin Yong is madly pursuing the female star Xia Meng. He is unable to court but hooks up with the waitress in the coffee shop. For this reason, he will not hesitate to abandon her son. In fact, Zhu Mei has tried to save this relationship. Yes, but Jin Yong decided to leave, and Zhu Mei divorced Jin Yong in the end.
In 1976, Zhu Mei and Jin Yong’s eldest son committed suicide. The family was broken and the son died. Zhu Mei suffered a huge blow and her body became weaker. After divorcing Jin Yong, she was alone. She spent the rest of her life in poverty. In 1998, Zhu Mei died of cancer in Hong Kong. It is said that it was not Jin Yong or her children who obtained her death certificate at the time, but hospital staff. The bleakness of Zhu Mei's later years is in sharp contrast with the scenery of Jin Yong's later years. It can be seen that in a relationship, most of the injured are women.
The beginning of every love story is always brilliant as a flower, but at the end it is always silent as the earth. The original wives of these three celebrities use facts to provide everyone with a lesson of blood and tears, 富家女婚卫Boy, accompany him to fight the world , but may not be able to accompany him to appreciate the world . Examples of "predecessors planting trees and then people enjoying the shade" are numerous in real life.
Maybe not all men in the world are like this, and not all feelings will deteriorate due to wealth, but we should be kind to ourselves, especially women, and don’t take temporary sympathy as a person. Love, if it is entrusted to be non-human, should also have the courage and determination to break and break. If you leave the scumbag, you can achieve a better self.
San Mao once said, "Sometimes marriage can make a woman lose herself, otherwise, there should be many more outstanding women in the world." It can be seen that women are also in marriage. You should stick to yourself, Learn to love yourself when you are devoted to your family. After all, a good marriage requires two people to operate together.
文/文史旺旺
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