We all say that relationships are easy to follow, and forceful ones are not sweet, but it is difficult to let go of a relationship that has been devoted immediately.
After all, not everyone can afford to let it go, especially those who have devoted themselves wholeheartedly.
Especially when I was young, I always felt that I must ask for clarification and ask him to give me a chance, and he would definitely agree.
But if they really want to save this relationship, most people make the wrong first step.
Because at this time, many people are thinking that I should do something for him to move him, but it is precisely at this time that I should not do too much.
First of all, the other party has clearly told you that he wants to break up at this time, which means that his negative emotions towards you have reached the peak. If you continue to pester him, it will only increase his dislike of you.
Because when she likes someone, she does everything right, and when she doesn't like someone, she does everything wrong.
At this time, your high emotional demand for him will only make him want to run away and feel that he is right to leave.
So even if you feel like the sky is falling when you leave him, you should retreat to the position of a friend for the time being to prevent him from being disgusted. After all, keeping your contact information will give you a chance and a future with her.
During this period, don't express how much you like him, how reluctant you are to let him go, and how much you want to be with him, because he doesn't want to waste time.
It will be more troublesome to wait until he is so disgusted that he deletes you.
Secondly, during this period, focus on yourself.
Everyone wants to do things for each other, but nothing you do can move him. It is better to develop yourself first, let him get to know you again, feel your charm, and be attracted to you.
As you develop yourself, his negative impression of you is also slowly disappearing.
When he calms down and sees the excellent you, he will naturally sigh, you are not bad, you have really changed.
If you pursue and fight fiercely, the essence is that he feels that your value is not high enough to attract him.
Of course, you can meet occasionally for the time being, but every time you meet, you must show your most glorious side, instead of looking down and worse than before.
When you reduce your emotional needs for him, it will increase your value.
Of course, because you still have contact information, it’s okay to show your life and profession on the side of your circle of friends, but don’t do it too frequently. Every time you show it, it’s a state of wonder. If you don’t reach the level of wonder, at least it will make the other person think that this person is okay.
There is a tug of war between people emotionally. It is difficult to achieve a balance in the beginning. When you are too humble, your value is gone. It is still your charm that attracts her. Purely pleasing her will not use your own strengths.
Everyone has shortcomings. If you do something that you are not good at in order to cater to him, it will be difficult to succeed.
Let him appreciate you as a person, not as he ideally looks like, and his changes may change at any time, and you will never be able to keep up.
Instead of doing this, it is better to be yourself and just be attractive. If not, you have better choices.
Instead of wasting yourself and ending up with nothing.
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