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Everyone has glorious moments in his life experience, and he will also meet people who are good to him. And when all these are lost with the passage of time, many people will worry about gains and losses, or even fall into sadness and regret, thus losing confidence in life.
In fact, people cannot be resurrected after death, and life cannot be repeated. We cannot be immersed in the past and cannot extricate ourselves. Instead, we should bid farewell to the past, face the future, and live our current life seriously.
We must understand that whether it is lost or missed, it has become history. Things change and people change. We cannot use the standards of the past to demand the present, nor can we apply the past experiences to the present. Otherwise, it will only put heavy mental shackles on ourselves and affect our happy life now.
Especially in terms of emotions, it is a lifelong blessing to be able to hold hands with someone until the end, but more often the ending is that there is someone who can only accompany us for a certain journey. Therefore, we should respect time, respect fate, respect God's arrangements, look ahead, and actively face the future life.
Recently, I saw a video in which a beautiful 48-year-old sister came on a blind date and made every request based on her ex-husband. In the end, she missed her fate, which made people sigh.
48-year-old beautiful elder sister’s blind date experience
The sky is thunderous, the beautiful elder sister comes to visit, don’t ask whether the blind date can be successful, just look at her harsh words and deeds.
Sister Wang is now in her forties. Everyone praises her for her fair skin and beauty. Although she is a mother of two children, she never looks bad in her clothes.
The actual conditions of the eldest sister are not bad. The 120-square-meter house has been tidied up and is very warm. The eldest son has already established a career and started a family. The younger son is about to graduate from college and has a job.
The eldest sister is a person who understands life. She prepares everything for a rainy day. The refrigerator is filled with a variety of dishes and the freezer stores hundreds of kilograms of pork. Even if she does not go out to buy food for a year and a half, the life of the family will not be disordered.
The eldest sister said that this kind of living habit was formed by serving her husband all year round. And when she mentioned her husband, the eldest sister couldn't help but burst into tears. She said that her husband was a middle-level leader who not only had a high level of education, was smart, and had a good handle on people and the world, but most importantly, he was kind to her and was considerate and caring for her at all times. They usually spend time together whether shopping, buying groceries or cooking. They go in and out together and are inseparable. Even when they go out, they accompany each other.
But something unexpected happened. A year ago, Sister Wang’s husband left her due to illness. This made her instantly lose her backbone and she fell into sadness. In the next year, her family continued to enlighten her, so that she could get over her grief as soon as possible and face her future life positively. Only then did the eldest sister decide to bid farewell to the past and find someone to accompany her again.
Regarding her future partner, Sister Wang said: "First, he must have good character and be a decent person; second, he must be good to me, take care of me, love me, and be tolerant to me."
After listening to Sister Wang's requirements for choosing a mate, it was obvious that she was comparing them with a ruler according to her late husband's standards.
According to Sister Wang’s mate selection criteria, the matchmaker thought of 55-year-old Brother Ding.
Brother Ding is fifty-five years old, tall and reliable. He has recently retired from the company and his retirement salary is two thousand five thousand. Brother
is a smart man. When he saw that the efficiency of his unit was not very good, he relied on his unique vision to sell shoes, hats, clothes and other small commodities between China and Russia. With his intelligence, he just bought himself two houses in the city and the suburbs. Although the house is not too big, it is enough for the family to shelter from wind and rain and live in peace.
As the saying goes, every gain must come with a loss. Because he was busy with business all year round, he neglected to take care of his family and his wife, which caused his wife to be strongly dissatisfied. In the end, the two of them separated and separated eighteen years ago.
Although my eldest brother is living a good life now, with a house, a car and savings, every time late at night comes, I always feel lonely and unbearable, so I decided to find a new wife to spend the rest of my boring time with.
Brother Ding does not have high requirements for his future wife. As long as he is around 50 years old and from this province, it will be fine. As for other things, we will add them up later.
After understanding the basic situation of both parties, the matchmaker immediately arranged for the two people to meet in the park.
As soon as the two parties met, Brother Ding had a good impression of Sister Wang. He felt that she was good-looking and tall, and she looked like a person who knew how to live a good life.
But Sister Wang told the matchmaker that Brother Ding was of good height and looked quite down-to-earth and an honest person, but the two of them were not suitable.
The matchmaker was very puzzled and said, Sister, aren't you looking for someone with good character who is willing to protect you from wind and rain and take care of you for life? Brother Ding has good conditions, is down-to-earth, and doesn’t like flowers and plants. Doesn’t he just meet your requirements?
Seeing that the matchmaker was puzzled, Sister Wang hesitated and said, "How can I say this? I just didn't like it."
Seeing that Sister Wang was hesitant, the matchmaker advised her to sit down and have a chat with Brother Ding since she was here, which might change the first impression of the meeting. The eldest sister reluctantly agreed.
After sitting down, Sister Wang said to Brother Ding: "I have two sons. The eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law have already bought a house. They are not living with us now. They are getting married soon. They will not put more pressure on me. They said that I can pay 30,000 yuan for the banquet. The younger son will grow up soon. After graduating from school, do you mind if you live with me now?"
After hearing this, Brother Ding said that he would not mind, and said that if the two of them live together, they will treat her son as their own son, and he will do his best to treat them well, no matter whether he is the eldest son or the younger son.
Sister Wang originally wanted Brother Ding to retreat when faced with difficulties, but she did not expect that he would actually love the whole house and say such touching and true words, which made Sister Wang unexpected.
The matchmaker asked Sister Wang how she felt about Brother Ding’s reply and whether it felt heart-warming. Sister Wang felt that she didn't want to hide him any more, so as not to waste time. She said, "What you said is very thoughtful, but I don't like him as a person."
Brother Ding was hit hard when he heard what the elder sister said. He had no choice but to smile awkwardly and said that there was nothing he could do if he didn't like him.
Later, Sister Wang told the matchmaker what she was thinking. She said: "To be honest, I have been in contact with leaders since I started working, and I especially like people who are officials. So I want to find someone who is now an official." Anyone who is an official, or even someone who is about to retire or has already retired."
After hearing Sister Wang say what she really thought, the matchmaker felt very wronged. If she had said this earlier, it would not have wasted everyone's time, and it would not have caused harm to Brother Ding.
Seeing Sister Wang’s persistence, the matchmaker had no choice but to announce that the blind date had failed.
Author's opinion
There is a saying in the world: "We are all foxes for thousands of years, so don't play with us!"
Many single men and women have experienced different forms of blind dates, and they all understand that the essence of blind dates is a transaction exchange, such as exchanging beauty for wealth, youth for chips, and body for eyesight. In short, all quantifiable conditions can constitute trading chips.
Therefore, when dating, they all pay attention to being straight to the point, and they all like to open their hearts and open their windows to speak frankly. As long as the other party can accept the offer, the deal will be completed.
Of course, we do not deny that love will occur during blind dates, but this possibility is extremely slim. More often than not, after reaching an agreement, feelings develop because of getting along, or moving forward with a heavy burden for the sake of the family.
Therefore, if you go on a blind date, don't hide your true thoughts, let alone make calculations. This is a sign of respect for others and open-mindedness for yourself.
Sister Wang in the article clearly wants to use her good looks and age to find an official leader and live a life of wealth and wealth, but she has to be secretive, saying that she wants to find someone with good character, who will actually care for her and love her. But when such a person appears in front of him, he dislikes it in every possible way and doesn't even want to say a word.
's approach not only wastes the column team's time, but also shows extreme disrespect for the person he is dating. It also exposes his bad face to the majority of netizens.
When communicating with others, what is needed is sincerity and respect, understanding and consideration. Otherwise, if you ride a donkey and look for a horse, you will end up in vain.
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About the author: Brother Hui, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to wake up those drowsy people with his clumsy words.
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