We have been married for three years and have a good relationship, but my husband insists on divorce. I refuse to do so. Everyone says he is a real man!
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I am Sister Yi. I am 36 years old. I am the financial person in charge of a company. My annual salary is about 100,000. Everyone says my life is good. After living for more than 30 years, life has always been relatively smooth.
Although my family is an ordinary worker, my parents have a very good relationship and take good care of my brother and me. Although I was not an outstanding student when I was studying, I was admitted to college, graduated successfully and started working. After I started working, I also did a steady job.
In fact, I am very grateful to my parents. They gave me not very superior material conditions, but they ensured that I had no worries about food and clothing, received a good education, went to college, and had the basic conditions to settle down in society.
Coupled with the traditional education my parents gave me since I was a child, it gave me a greater understanding and respect for life, and also created my character of being kind and generous to others. It is precisely with such a character that I get good feedback from my interactions with people and interpersonal relationships. I would like to specially mention my husband here.
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My husband Dajun, I think is the best man to me in the world besides my father. He loves me very much. I feel like I saved the galaxy in my previous life to get such a man.
We met at a friend’s gathering. Although he was not very handsome, his face had the resoluteness of a man, and his upright posture exuded a manly aura. It should be said that I was attracted to him at that moment, but what I didn't expect was that he would take the initiative to pursue me later.
I accepted his pursuit, and from then on we began a sweet journey of love. He takes great care of me and often creates a lot of romance for me. Not only that, when I encountered difficulties at work or in life, he always stayed by my side and faced them with me without hesitation.
After half a year of dating, he proposed to me. I still remember that during his carefully prepared proposal ceremony, I burst into tears, and I was not only touched but moved. I feel very happy to entrust it to this man. Friends and family say I have found true happiness.
In addition to a lot of trivial things like daily necessities, what I didn’t expect was that this was the beginning of true happiness.
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I got pregnant soon after my marriage, and the violent reaction made me very uncomfortable. At this time, my husband not only stayed with me to take care of me, but also called my mother-in-law to take care of me throughout the whole process. In order for me to better absorb nutrients, my mother-in-law also bought a lot of native chicken and nutritional supplements to make soup for me.
Later, I successfully gave birth to a fat boy weighing nearly seven pounds. The whole family was very happy, and my mother-in-law even gave me a big red envelope worth tens of thousands of yuan.
I don’t know if God thinks that I am living such a happy life and needs to give me some hardships. Half a year after the birth of the child, my mother unfortunately suffered from cancer. My father has been taking care of her, and then continued chemotherapy. I kept spending money there, and spent more than 300,000 yuan in less than half a year, almost all my parents’ savings.
The treatment continued and my savings were depleted. Later, my husband successively took out hundreds of thousands of dollars from his own pocket for my mother to receive treatment. I am very grateful for this. At that time, I was in confinement, physically and mentally exhausted, and had no ability to help them anymore.
Just when I thought this ordeal was already severe, bad luck still came one after another. My doting husband actually filed for divorce.
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When the child was almost 2 years old, my mother's treatment was still continuing. She had already invested six to seven hundred thousand, emptied the family's fortune, and still owed debt. There was no bottom line on how much money would be needed in the future. We almost lost hope.
At this time, my mother-in-law also unfortunately fell seriously ill and was hospitalized for more than a month, which cost another hundreds of thousands. Faced with the situation of the elderly on both sides and the lack of money, we have tried every means.
The pressure makes us breathless, and we feel sad every day at home. At this time, my husband suddenly filed for divorce from me, saying that he no longer wanted the children, and he also no longer wanted the house we paid for together.
I cried and asked him why? My husband said to me: "I can't see the end, I don't know how much money I have to fill... I have a place for my children to live in the house, but I really can't do anything else. I no longer have the ability to take care of my mother-in-law, so I can only take care of my mother."
I refuse to divorce, but my husband is very determined, and it seems that this is the only way.
I told my friends about this matter, and some of them said that my husband was too heartless! Some friends said that he was not heartless. He paid the down payment of more than 100,000 yuan for the house, and he also spent a lot of money on me as a gift for marrying me.
He also paid the hundreds of thousands that my mother-in-law had to pay for her illness. Now he has no money and still has to pay for his mother’s medical expenses, but he still left the house to me. He is not heartless!
Do you think he is heartless?
It’s so difficult. I didn’t expect that my happy life would be dragged down by the treatment expenses of two old people. None of us are rich and wealthy, which sounds very helpless and sad. Everyone will make their own choices. Don’t dare to empathize with others’ sufferings. Real problems still need to be solved. I don't know what to say, I can only express my sympathy.
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