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Marriage is not as beautiful as expected. Right or wrong, love or hate, request or give, all have answers over the years. In this world, no one can give you all the time for you, and no one has always spoiled you in his heart...
01
Confident me, after all, never escaped the curse of marriage.
7 years of itch, it seems so scary to others.
but me, just a joke.
Because my husband and I Zhou Zixiang , we are not only our first love, but also our playmates who grow up naked, but also classmates and deskmates.
The two adults also got involved in some relatives, and my uncle married his aunt.
The emotion of being a little kid, in my opinion, is an indestructible fortress.
But who knew that Zhou Zixiang, who obeyed my words and loved me, would have hidden his heart.
02
Our marriage is unbiased, and it happened to be quietly changed in the seventh year of marriage.
seems to be happy and perfect, you and I love each other,
but it is no longer a true expression. A hug or a kiss can betray him in minutes.
outsiders can’t see any clues at all.
can be used as a person in the game, but you can feel the attack of emotional fission every minute.
We are all second-generation soldiers and all come from the regiment.
From childhood to adulthood, I was his follower.
When we grew up, we became lovers, and our eyes were full of that "lover"
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We took the college entrance examination together, entered Beijing from the tour group,
studied together, and moved to Beijing together.
Those years were really happy and really dared to fight.
For Zhou Zixiang, I really regarded myself as a tomboy.
03
When Zhou Zixiang wanted to start a business, I got 100,000 yuan from my home in a slap.
When Zhou Zixiang's company was at its most difficult time, he went everywhere to attract sponsorships, and even stood on the streets of Beijing to send him leaflets.
When I made my first pot of gold in my life, Zhou Zixiang hugged me tightly in front of all the employees of the company, and said with tears in my eyes:
"In this life, my greatest noble person is my lover Xiaoyu."
At that time, I wonder how many people envy our innocent love.
The year the company was on track, we got married.
We have three rules. No matter how busy we are, we must have a meal together every day.
No matter how late or far Zhou Zixiang is in the social event, he must go home,
and I will definitely illuminate the light for him to return home.
Later, my daughter Guoguo was born.
In order not to distract Zhou Zixiang, I became a full-time mother.
At that time, many people advised me that women should not lose their careers and circles.
thought I was too risky. After all, in a metropolis like Beijing, any situation could happen.
I also laughed and said that all men in the world have cheated, and my Zhou Zixiang will not do it either.
My eyes are full of Zhou Zixiang's goodness, just that confidence.
For cheating, mistresses, etc., in my opinion, it has nothing to do with me, and it has nothing to do with my family.
04
Not only do I think, even Zhou Zixiang thinks that couples all over the world can turn against each other, and we will never.
But, it's too full, there are always those unexpected moments.
After all, people are emotional animals. After being together for a long time, they can have feelings and be disgusted.
Sometimes, it will give you a blow every minute.
One night, I hummed a little song and came out of the bathroom, and
also got into the bed like before.
But when I put my head on his shoulder as usual.
But he only let me lean on it for less than ten seconds, and blurted out: "I have been having a meeting for one day today, so I'm so tired."
Before I could react, he turned sideways and gave me a cold back.
snores a few minutes later.
th time, although I felt it was inappropriate, I didn’t take it too seriously.
just feel that some of the "intimacy" and ways of getting along with each other are changing unknowingly.
05
That night, I had insomnia.
In the morning, I got up as usual to make breakfast.
Zhou Zixiang suddenly sat on the dining table, squinting his eyes, looking sleepy.
I stopped the work and looked at him.
"Why did you get up so early?"
"You are so sweet, how can I not get up."
with a complaint on his face, muttering, and he didn't forget to pick up all my breakfast.
A moment the eggs are too old, and the steak is too hard...
My heart suddenly became cold, and my face was sunk again and again.
Because he was not so picky and emotional man before.
Our conversations are never so regular and full of gunpowder.
I know him too much, and I know our past better.
stoops out a memory at will, and I can tell you for three days and three nights.
Whether it is in love or after marriage, we have too much nonsense to say.
日0Zhou Zixiang follows me most of the time and never gets bored.
He would call me because he wanted to know what I was eating, and he would laugh with me because he saw a ridiculous slogan.
I said casually that I wanted to eat stinky tofu, and he would definitely drive a car to buy it for me.
But now, when Zhou Zixiang returns home, he always looks very tired.
No matter what I said, he was not interested in taking over the topic, and he would not share it with me for a ridiculous slogan.
Sometimes I talked for a long time, and he was still ummy, and he was not on the same channel as me at all.
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On the contrary, he became more and more picky about me.
You can see the clues from a breakfast.
and this is just the beginning.
I endured it again and again, trying my best to calm the war, and never "challenge" him head-on.
But he became more and more excited and started talking about his children again.
said that other people’s children are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but I only know that I can travel around with my children and consume without restraint.
I just had to record it. It was clearly what he said at the beginning. What's the use of learning so much? It's said that reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles.
said that we were born in the group farm, without that condition, and have never seen the world. It's stupid.
must not let the children follow our old path.
But now it is all my fault.
Because of the resentment in the heart, the emotions will naturally be greatly reduced.
Home and wife's life is getting worse and worse.
is really as others say. Over time, you will become roommates in seconds.
07
I have also tried to squeeze into his bed with a thick face, or deliberately put my legs in his arms.
In this regard, Zhou Zixiang explained that the work pressure was too great, and
also said that I would be more considerate of him, saying that he would take time to exercise.
How could I believe this?
But later, as Zhou Zixiang said, he really applied for a fitness card and also got me one.
However, he was too busy and gave up without sticking for a few days.
And I, a sports novice, became more and more fascinated by fitness with the encouragement and help of that little coach.
wished to develop a vest line immediately, and even kicked the legs behind the cooking.
Without Zhou Zixiang, I have indeed been lazy, but the young coach is not willing to let me go.
Hit bombarded with phone calls, text messages, and WeChat.
All previous efforts were wasted, such as bucket waist, big belly, elephant legs, wealthy bag...
How dare I be negligent, I rushed to the gym in minutes.
That little coach is very caring to me.
How can I not feel it? The treatment is more dedicated than a personal trainer.
If you are hot, give a towel, give water when you are thirsty, and if you are injured, you will also accompany you to the doctor.
I thought my charm was as foolish as I was thinking that I was still as charming as before.
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And when I was injured, Zhou Zixiang just said lightly: "It's not a little girl, why do you do that so hard? Just just have a moment of meaning."
My tears fell down instantly.
He also told me coldly that he had social engagements at night and told me not to show off and take a taxi home by myself.
I also care a little about it, but I don’t look like the one he used to be.
That day, I invited the young coach to have a big meal for the first time. Thank you.
That day, I told him that I would not go to the gym again.
He immediately said ambiguous words:
"Without you, I don't have any motivation to work, and I'm not in the state at all."
My heart immediately beat faster and my face turned red.
The pleasure of the deer slamming made me relive the years of youth.
But after all, I am a woman with children, and I know my sensibility.
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I still went to the gym, but it was not as frequent as before.
From that day on, this little coach looked at me with a weird look, and there was always a confusion and expectation.
He often sends me messages in the middle of the night saying that he misses me.
even sent a bunch of stingy words.
This is his extreme action that made me determined to stay away from that gym and stay away from this uneasy and kind coach.
But the last time I went to the VIP locker to get my clothes.
But he hugged my waist from behind.
His passionate breath shocked me instantly.
I also learn the escape scene on TV.
tell him that it is not romantic there, we can change places.
He actually smiled at me, and this smile made me sweat.
He immediately stopped all movements and quickly let go of me.
My mind was spinning rapidly, and I didn't understand his intention at all.
It was not until later that I was swept out that I realized this ridiculous scene.
was more exciting than in the TV series.
10
During the days when I was working out.
Zhou Zixiang went there five times in total.
is the reason why he often talks about it.
I don’t ask him too much, men have to give him a certain amount of space,
is just too trusting, which may not be a good thing.
As his career grew bigger and bigger, he went home later and later.
no longer had the three rules he had in the past.
I won’t leave a light for him, nor will he rush home against the stars.
Not returning home at night, which has become common for him.
At the age of thirties, it is logically the peak period of physiological desire.
But we both couldn't even mention the sexual interest at all.
I tried to create the atmosphere, light a candle, and put on sexy pajamas.
But he plunged into the study and stayed all night.
Sometimes, I am shameless and take the opportunity to send midnight snacks to get into his arms.
But his body was hard and I didn't touch him at all.
This embarrassment can be endured once or twice, but more times will hurt your self-esteem.
Slowly, we really became roommates, and they were still silent roommates.
1 1
The intuition of a woman has long told me that Zhou Zixiang has someone outside.
But this suspicion is evidence-based.
I checked his mobile phone, his WeChat, his QQ, and his bank statements ,
even checked his daily tracks. What's even more ridiculous is that I turned his pocket and briefcase upside down, and sniffed it and sniffed it like hunting dog .
However, it is suspiciously clean.
I was unwilling to accept it, so I had to advise myself,
As long as he is not short of money, he will still take care of me and my daughter and let him go to the rest.
I never thought that my marriage would be like this and would never live a life.
12
I can even feel the cold wave coming, and Zhou Zixiang is not able to compare.
But all this is not as simple as I thought, and it does not follow my wish.
is not something I pretend to be confused, I can be safe if I turn a blind eye. Everything that happened to
is long ago beyond my control.
, on the contrary, is a big game of chess set up by Zhou Zixiang.
Each of us is his pawn, and we can't go beyond our means or jump blindly.
This man who grew up with me, said he wanted to love me for the rest of his life,
instantly made me feel strange, even terrible...
I never thought of it.
Zhou Zixiang will take the initiative to file for divorce from me.
The day before, our family of three went to Ocean World , and he also accompanied his daughter to watch Dolphin .
can turn around and change your face.
with a serious face, he took out the divorce agreement he had already planned.
reason even crashed me.
Although I had doubts for a long time, I admitted it in front of me, and it was somewhat unacceptable to me.
He told me that he fell in love with another woman,
In order to show respect for each other, he must first restore his freedom to be single.
I was completely confused when I heard this bloody plot.
"Who have you fallen in love with? Who is she? Do I know you?"
Zhou Zixiang snorted and said that it doesn't matter who he falls in love with. He just wants to tell me that he is innocent and has not done anything to sorry for me.
My eyes were on fire: "Don't forget, you are a man with a wife and children. Isn't it a cheating if you fall in love with other women?"
"No physical cheating is already the greatest respect for marriage."
13
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He answered me coldly, as if these lines were thought of,
He promised me that as long as I sign the divorce agreement , he will compensate us mother and daughter financially to the greatest extent.
days, he had no intention of wanting his daughter at all.
At that moment, I felt like I was about to explode.
The man who kept calling his daughter a baby egg was so cruel.
Although I would not give him my daughter, he gave up on his own initiative, which made me unable to accept it.
Seeing that I was excited, he came up with another plan.
He said he didn't want his daughter to suffer with him, and said he flew around all day long.
The best way is to follow me, but if I don't want it, he would be happy to take his daughter with me.
He also told me that the divorce has been delayed for too long, which is both harmful to the relationship, money, and the most harmful to the child.
I looked at him, feeling mixed feelings.
The two people who once loved each other so much have actually reached such a realistic and cold state.
Too many memories appear in my mind.
For Zhou Zixiang, I coaxed and cheated him from home to ask for 100,000 yuan. In order to make him have no worries, I gave up my career and returned to my family.
But now, he is so ruthless.
I am not a generous woman. Even without love, I will not let him succeed easily.
1 4
But I underestimated Zhou Zixiang's determination to divorce.
He has been waiting for this day and has been waiting for a long time. He carefully set up the game.
may be more exciting than him to earn money.
When I was talking to him, he talked to me about money in business.
also boasted that he was considering me and my daughter.
said that he could transfer assets without any trace, let me take debts with him, let me get nothing after divorce, and become a traitor.
said he was not that kind of man, and said that even if he divorced, he would still take care of us.
His eyes were red, and I almost believed it.
But his performance over the past year is incompatible with these, and I don’t think there is enough reason to believe it.
I don’t agree to sign the divorce agreement,
I told him that this was too sudden and I have to think about it carefully.
15
Actually, I want to drag him on, if the agreement doesn’t work, I have to go through the process.
It cannot be over for less than a year or two. Even if he succeeds in the end, he missed his excitement.
In my opinion, this is also a small revenge.
But what I didn't expect was that if a plan failed, Zhou Zixiang used another plan, and
mercilessly removed his disguise this time.
Zhou Zixiang had a dark face and suddenly pulled out a stack of photos from his briefcase and threw them in front of me.
"Look at the good things you did, you are so embarrassed to be a mother."
I was shocked and leaned over to look.
days, it turned out to be a photo of the little coach hugging me and kissing me.
that horizontal snapshot is really a coincidence.
None of the struggled scenes were taken, and we were all enjoying it under the camera.
In just one minute, he was actually shot into a 360-degree lust blockbuster.
I woke up all of a sudden. No wonder the little coach sneered and stopped.
turned out to be all traps, they designed the trap.
Zhou Zixiang was surprised when he saw me and threw a heavy bullet.
That was the coach’s WeChat message, all of which were stingy words. Although I did not reply one, I could add these photos.
is enough to make people believe that I am the woman who cheats on the erotic.
At that moment, I was really awake.
16
Because of all those chat records, I deleted them. I don’t want to affect my mood, and I don’t want to cause unnecessary trouble.
But Zhou Zixiang really has the evidence in his hands.
The data were not from my phone at all, but were handed over to Zhou Zixiang by the coach.
plus the shooting of private space without blind spots, which is for sure that they are in the same group.
I have become smarter, but it's too late.
I yelled at Zhou Zixiang: "You are a despicable villain."
Zhou Zixiang sneered: "Everyone, I just fell in love with others, and you almost agreed with me, but I still have a piece of tender flesh."
I was trembling all over when I heard it, and I felt bad habits.
Even if I explain, he won’t believe it, let alone whether I cheated or not, he knows better than anyone else.
At that moment, I really had the heart to kill him.
Zhou Zixiang is worthy of studying psychology, and he then came up with another plan.
"Think about it carefully. These evidences are enough to prove that you cheat first. It will be of no benefit to you when you go to court. Who can believe it if you don't cheat? Even if I believe it, the judge may not believe it. When things spread, what will our relatives and friends in the yard think of you? Can your family still stay in the yard? How do you let our daughter be a human being in the future? How do you let her think of you as a mom?"
Zhou Zixiang's words made me dizzy, he knew my weakness.
that is face, especially value family affection and care about parents and children.
17
Zhou Zixiang's words are a naked threat and indeed work.
I have to admit that he has been struggling in the shopping mall over the years and is really outdated.
is just that this kind of trick is used on my wife, which seems too vulgar.
I am a woman who has been out of society for almost ten years, so I am not his opponent.
He thought about the showdown and was not ready to look back.
And I, being forced to this extent, have to be separated, and even if I don’t leave, I have to be separated.
Playing emotional cards with such a villain will only hurt your self-esteem and make him look down upon.
That day, I still didn't sign it and asked him to give me a week to consider it.
He hesitated for a moment, but finally agreed.
The moment he stepped out of the house, my unscrupulous tears still flowed all over the floor...
1 8
thought all night, and I felt unwilling.
The next day, I went to the gym,
As I guessed, the little coach resigned and left in a hurry.
mobile phone empty number, WeChat is gone, as if there is no such person in this world.
I was sitting in the gym hall howling and crying. No one knew what I was crying.
I got into the car in a daze and drove out with a kick in the accelerator.
sprinted past without a destination.
And it was my indulgence that reversed my destiny...
I couldn't see the traffic light in my eyes, and I was full of the little coach who was killed by thousands of swords.
At that moment, I knew nothing.
When I woke up, there were already four white walls.
I thought I had gone to heaven, and at that moment, I felt extremely relaxed.
feel that I don’t have to be so painful anymore,
no longer have to be so cautious,
no longer have to be afraid of Zhou Zixiang’s threat...
19
"You are awake."
A strange face came into my eyes.
His kind smile brought me back to reality in an instant.
He told me that I rear-ended his car and had a brief coma, and it was no longer a serious problem.
I am a little sorry, but I think of getting up but I feel weak.
He saw what I meant and signaled me to lie down and leave when my body recovered.
His phone suddenly rang.
From the content of his conversation, I heard that he was a lawyer or a lawyer who was engaged in divorce lawsuits.
At that moment, I seemed to have grabbed the straw that saved my life.
I got out of bed despite my physical discomfort.
almost kneeled down to him.
At that time, I didn’t care about my face.
tells his own experience in a 11-11 way.
He gritted his teeth when he heard it.
"There is actually such a man, and you can think of such dirty things."
2 0
He promised to help me fight this lawsuit.
At that moment, I realized that he was Bai Chengxi, a famous lawyer in the capital.
I was in tears, I don’t know how many times I said thank you.
It is this lawsuit that has led to an indissoluble bond between me and this man. There is no suspense about what happened later in
.
He used some invisible means to find out the little coach.
found evidence of their financial transactions and calls.
even grasped the evidence of Zhou Zixiang's cheating.
What I can’t believe is that Zhou Zixiang was carrying me on his back and actually hid a charming house three years ago.
also gave birth to a son.
It was precisely because of the birth of this son that he anxiously wanted to sweep me out.
will only come up with such a vicious plan.
is really worse than God’s calculations.
He thought no one could break his seamless plan.
He thought I, a housewife, would surrender as soon as I threatened.
But unexpectedly, God let me meet a noble person.
A man who can conquer him.
21
Lawyer Bai told me that Zhou Zixiang's behavior is not just a "scheme".
From a legal perspective, it has become a crime.
and that little coach can't escape.
This tough battle won, but I couldn't be happy.
The moment Zhou Zixiang received the lawyer's letter, he was shocked.
Lawyer Bai has mastered all his criminal records and warned him not to maliciously spread the photos, otherwise prison disaster will definitely be inevitable.
Zhou Zixiang no longer arrogant. He beg me not to make a big deal for my daughter's sake.
He also promised that he would solve the problem of the woman and the child, and that he would not divorce me and let me let him go.
At that moment, his image was so vulgar and embarrassed.
I can't imagine how I loved him for so many years.
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As a farce ended, I also woke up a lot.
What kind of bullshit relationships are fake. Only money is the most affordable and what makes my daughter and I the safest.
I put forward my conditions, let Zhou Zixiang go, and left a "dad" for my daughter.
all the properties belong to me, and he also compensated me with a large amount of cash.
That is the hard-earned money he earned from selling some equity .
Although it is not considered a clean exit, it also hurts his vitality.
On the day of divorce, Zhou Zixiang was disheveled and no longer had the boss style he used to be.
Lawyer Bai drove to pick me up, and Zhou Zixiang complained sourly: "You are really capable, the young ones come, and the old ones come."
I looked at him fiercely: "Please respect yourself."
At that moment, I felt relieved and really relieved myself...
This is an online story of emotional convexation...
This woman is unfortunate and lucky.
met two men, one sent him to hell and the other saved her in the sky.
Everyone says that the relationship between two young people is the most sincere,
But this relationship made me worry all day long.
This story tells the sorrow of how many marriages are.
You want to go to the other party, but the other party is thinking of another woman.
No matter how deep the feelings are, they are not unchanging.
No matter how trusted your husband, there is another dark side.
No one can trust, no one can believe it. Only by becoming strong can
not become a pawn on others' plate...
Author: Xiaofeng
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