It is hard to imagine that this is what a mother said to her children. It is said that children are the flesh of their parents. After having children, even very weak women will gradually become stronger and bear the wind, frost, rain and snow for their families.

"My children, you have voted for the wrong family in this life."

It is hard to imagine that this is what a mother said to her children. It is said that children are the flesh of parents' hearts. After having children, even very weak women will gradually become stronger and bear the wind, frost, rain and snow for their families.

Appropriate pressure may make a person work hard, but the pressure exceeds a person's limit and life cannot see hope, it is easy to crush a person.

There is a very popular saying on the Internet now that if you can’t get married for the first time, you will get married for the second time. The next one is better and the next one is better. In fact, there are only a few people who can get married for the second time. Most of them will get more and more difficult after divorce.

For example, a mother in Liupanshui, Guizhou, expressed a lot of feelings because she was under too much pressure after the divorce, and said that whoever helped her pay back the money could marry him. What's going on?

In fact, the relationship between husband and wife was quite good when they first got married, but as time went by, with the arrival of several children, the conflicts between husband and wife became more and more. The husband was eating and drinking outside, regardless of whether he or she was alive or dead, or anything about the child.

In the end, due to many reasons, the couple finally chose to divorce. The woman couldn't bear to leave her child, so she found a way to take the child over. She didn't think that the unreliable ex-husband could treat her child well.

It would be fine if you are single after divorce, but after divorce, you have three children. Even if you live in the countryside, you can farm on your own, and life will be getting harder and harder. A divorced woman lives with her three children. Just thinking about it is enough to make many people breathless.

Sometimes grievances come to your heart, and women will collapse and cry, but women are also backbone people. They admit that even if they don’t have a husband, they can live a good life and take good care of their children.

Now my husband is dispensable to me. In fact, this can only be said that the woman still has no thorough direction. Thinking about it, not everyone can quickly get out of a failed relationship.

In fact, in the countryside, if you don’t ask for a good life, it can barely be maintained by one person, but a woman not only has three children, but also has 200,000 foreign debts after the divorce.

It is this 200,000 foreign debt that has become the last straw that crushes women. They have to take care of several children and think of ways to pay back the money. They have no income in the countryside and cannot see any hope in life.

So, as long as anyone is willing to help me repay the 200,000 yuan debt, I can marry him immediately. Not only will I take care of his family, but I will also let him be a ready-made father. All three children will recognize him as their biological father in the future.

In fact, the woman has posted several videos before, and the comments are almost all sympathetic and encouragement messages. However, as soon as these remarks were made, many netizens began to mock her, and some netizens even said bluntly that she was whimsical.

can actually understand it. After the divorce, I have to pay back 200,000 yuan in debt. If I have the conditions, I will definitely not want to find such a wife. If I don’t have the conditions, I will probably not be able to give 200,000 yuan.

Even if this woman can keep her family in an orderly manner, as a man, who doesn’t want to marry a first marriage? Even if both parties are taking care of their children, the pressure will probably be scared to death.

Even if three children recognize their fathers, who don’t want to have their own children? Some people with physical defects may not be willing to raise three children. It’s really too much pressure in life now.

Just the name of second marriage and three children have already given this woman a very narrow range of choices, let alone asking the other party to help pay off the 200,000 yuan debt.

In fact, the best way now is to find a reliable man who is willing to accept himself and three children. As for the debt problem, you can pay it back slowly. After all, it is more important to stabilize first.

As long as you help yourself pay 200,000 yuan, you will be your wife for free and give three children to you. It sounds very profitable, but in fact it is a big burden.

And the child is basically a few years old, and it is also very important to deal with the relationship between the child and the stepfather. If the child does not recognize it, what should no one cares about when he gets old? These are very realistic questions.

Of course, no one wants to get to this point, but now that we have already done this, we must face it actively and solve problems actively, and the path is also your own choice.

In fact, there are also those divorced mothers who live with a few children. Although they won’t live well, they are barely OK. It is the best choice to choose a mate until they have a suitable partner. Now, it is easy to be looked down upon by people like this, and it is difficult to be happy even if they remarry. After all, there is a big difference between pitiful sympathy and love.