My colleague, I recently had a grandson, and his wife took a plane to see the children in a big city in the south. He said that a "bachelor" who is alone is good and free.
My colleagues are cheerful and lively, good at socializing, and there are "fox friends" everywhere, including men and women, old and young, many. Therefore, barbecue is indispensable. You go out to restaurants almost every day and rarely have a reunion dinner with your wife at home. For this reason, the old couple must quarrel.
My friend knows that although the couple quarreled, that was not hatred, that was not hatred. On the contrary, that is love, that is love, that is the true love and true love between the two.
Couple and wife are in love and accompanying you in old age
This colleague has many "illegal problems". He loves smoking, drinking, playing cards, and is interested in almost everything and is proficient in everything. He said that his wife always talks at home, and told him not to drink tomorrow, because he stayed up late to play cards and had many wars, and sometimes even had a divorce. He also said that it would be fine to quarrel at home, but sometimes when he is with friends outside, he would even be dissatisfied with his friends and complain about the world, which made him feel embarrassed and unhappy.
After graduating from university, his son stayed in a big city in the south to work, and the journey was smooth and the whole family was extremely happy. Now, I like to add a servant and bring a handful of them. The whole family is so happy. Even if they are happy, their son and daughter-in-law have to work, and someone still has to watch the child. This job falls on grandma. I was happy to have my own grandson and grandma. After the whole family decided to pack up her luggage and boarded the plane to find her grandson, leaving her husband alone at home and "ignored" her.
At home, only colleagues were left, starting a short "bachelor" career. He said he was very uncomfortable at the beginning, no one cooked or cleaned, and he was messed up inside and out, kicking and stomping, all in a mess. He also said that no one is talking in his ears and no one is with him, it is like there is no world. From then on, I feel what loneliness is, what boredom is, and what loneliness is.
Recently, my colleague has completely changed, with a red face and a happy face. When he asked him, he said that everything was adapted and no worries were gone. He said, "It's good to be alone." He said that life is really worry-free and trouble-free, and there is no need to be too troublesome. It is very happy to eat and drink casually. Sometimes it is good to eat a piece of cold steamed bun and eat some salty claws. He said that such a single life may take many years. He said that for the sake of his children, he must adapt to a lonely life without anyone to accompany him and no one talks about.
In fact, in today's society, life is fast pace and life pressure is high. Young people are fighting for life and work. Grandparents look at grandchildren and children, and their children make money from work. This situation is not just his family, but everywhere. There are many such situations around me. Some even grandfathers look at grandsons in the south and grandmothers take care of nephews in the north. Even though he is happy, the elderly will suffer from the trouble of being alone.
"Bachelor" life is a kind of helplessness, but when you adapt and think about it, you will have less worries. If you are "free", it's great.
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