Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
Parents' beloved son, so they have far-reaching plans. Parents’ love for their children is the most selfless. From the moment they bring their children to this world, parents have been working hard. Parents are strictly checking every level of growth, education, and marriage.
Marriage is a lifelong event. When talking about marriage, many people will ask their parents for advice. I once saw this saying: Those whose parents ask you to marry may not have to marry, but those whose parents don’t want you to marry may not be able to marry.
As a experienced person, the opinions given by parents are still very valuable for reference. A truly visionary parent will reject three types of in-laws for the sake of his children.
The first type: the in-laws who are heavily in debt
Marriage is a ladder to the palace of happiness, not a carefully planned poverty alleviation project. Although it is difficult to share the same blessings, families who are heavily in debt should not seek relatives.
Poor and humble couples are mourning. Parents know the truth that "a penny cannot kill a hero". Every expense of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea may become the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
To put it bluntly, combining with a family that is heavily in debt is equivalent to targeted poverty alleviation . Poverty alleviation marriage can only encourage the other party's greed, and no parents will push their children into the fire pit.
The second type: In-laws with incorrect views
Marriage emphasizes equality, not just material equality, but more deeply, it depends on ideological and spiritual harmony.
If the other party shows disrespect for others, love to take advantage of others, and always love to slander others behind their backs, when they meet such a family, parents with truly vision will know how to stop losses in time, cut off contact immediately, and will not become in-laws at all.
Compared with economic abundance, ideological fit is the most important thing. A family with a bad view of the situation will only pull you back when encountering difficult things and will not overcome difficulties with you. What's more, they take the initiative to make trouble in the family without waiting for outsiders to intervene, fearing that your life will be easy after marriage.
The third type: the original family is too complex
The original family is too complex, and parents will also clearly refuse for the sake of their children. In
" The Law of 28 of Love ", Tao Junhui's mother decisively forced her son to break up with her because Qin Shi came from a complex reorganized family. Many people accused Tao Junhui of his mother of being too domineering, and some people even put Tao Junhui as a "mama's boy".
In fact, there is nothing wrong with Tao Junhui's mother's behavior. As a mother, she just wants her son to find a woman with a simple family background as her wife. Her starting point is that she just wants her son to live a simple and relaxed and happy life.
Qin Shi's father has been married three times, and his third marriage with Qin Shi's mother is also suspected of "in-marital cheating". Parents are the mirror of the children. Tao Junhui's mother looks down on Qin Shi's parents' character, so naturally she will not look down on Qin Shi.
Above, parents are the people in the world who think about us the most. Sometimes, their words and deeds may be a bit extreme. When facing a relationship, we always act impulsively, while parents will wisely hold us back. Details show character, and marriage matters, we should listen to our parents' advice more.
A family with heavy debt, incorrect values and too complicated original families, parents will definitely not want their children to be related to these families. However, some puddles will only be known after stepping on them. Some loves will always hit the wall to understand. If you don’t listen to your parents, then you will love them boldly. When you reach , Yellow River , you will give up.
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