For the pregnant mistress who came to the door, the original wife must be able to calm down.
Don’t be confused by the mistress’s mentality. Remember, there is no extramarital affair that cannot be solved. As long as the original wife can be stable and analyze the situation, she can find the correct way to solve the problem.
This cheating case is a real case that Blue Party successfully helped the original wife solve last year.
The original wife and her husband have been married for thirteen years and have a son. The couple has always had a good relationship.
Two people are just ordinary families. Her husband works as an programmer in a private company and , and she works in finance in the same company.
The child is usually taken care of by parents-in-law, and the house at home is bought when they get married.
needs to pay a mortgage of about 8,000 yuan every month, and the salary of two people is more than 20,000 yuan.
paid back the loan, and paid extracurricular tutoring fees to the children, as well as the expenses for the family of five.
didn't have much savings, and she never thought that her husband would cheat.
It was when the mistress came to her house that she learned about this extramarital affair and the mistress was still pregnant.
What she just knew was out of control and she shouted and asked the mistress to get out of her house.
The mistress kept saying that she would let her original wife get divorced, saying that a marriage without love would be meaningful to continue.
Her parents-in-law helped her scold the cheating man. The cheating man kept saying that he was wrong,
However, he had no clear attitude towards how to deal with the mistress and the illegitimate child.
She can't sleep every night and is anxious to solve the problem of the mistress getting pregnant, and is worried that it will be more difficult to solve the problem of having an illegitimate child if she delays.
But there was no way to solve it. The mistress kept saying that she would divorce, and the cheating man was always hesitant.
In this case, the original wife sent a private message to the blue party for help through the article shared by the blue party.
When faced with the situation where the mistress came to her home when she was pregnant, the original wife must understand two things.
First point, why doesn’t the mistress force a cheating man to divorce, but instead directly find the original wife?
is obvious, because it is useless to force a cheating man to divorce, and the cheating man has no intention of divorce.
or the cheating man acted too hesitant, but the mistress couldn't wait.
The mistress is pregnant and forced to divorce, so there is not much time left for the original wife, because once it reaches a certain month.
The mistress's child cannot induce abortion, so he must have a child.
It is completely different for having an illegitimate child and a mistress to get pregnant, and it is even worse for having an illegitimate child.
Even if a cheating man is willing to break up with the mistress, the mistress can still use his illegitimate child to find the child support for the cheating man.
But don’t ignore it. The mistress is pregnant, so there is not much time left for the mistress.
Mississes should also make a choice before they cannot induce labor and whether to give birth to a child.
If a cheating man does not divorce, what should the mistress do? The mistress is also in a dilemma.
So the mistress is also anxious, and many mistresses are even more anxious than the original wife.
The mistress is very anxious about the attitude of a cheating man, or he refuses to divorce.
She has no time to convince the cheating man, and she is anxious to get to the top, so she will directly find her original wife to force her to divorce.
So the original wife, the mistress came to you when she was pregnant, because she was anxious.
The reason why she was anxious was because she was worried that the man who cheated on her would not marry her, and she did not want to have an illegitimate child.
This is very important and is a key point for the original wife to resolve extramarital affairs.
Second point, many cheating men do not realize what it means to him if the mistress has an illegitimate child left.
Because even if a cheating man has a child with his original wife, he doesn’t know what he needs to pay for to have a child.
In most families, children are the mother’s own affairs, and men give less.
In addition to making money to raise children when you go to work, you can occasionally take some time to accompany your children.
The life of a cheating man will not be affected too much by the birth of his child.
Even they don’t feel much financial pressure because they don’t know how much it costs to raise children.
So many men do not object to the mistress having children because they don’t know what illegitimate child means.
The original wife must grasp this point, and you have to make a calculation for the cheating man.
If the mistress gives birth to an illegitimate child, even if the cheating man does not want to divorce and marry the mistress.
But he and the mistress are also bound, because the law stipulates that a cheating man must pay the child support.
This child support is not only about living expenses for mistresses, but also involves the education expenses for the illegitimate child later.
The man who cheated on him doesn’t know how much money it is, but he knows that his original wife has raised a child.
The original wife can calculate the cheating man and tell the cheating man with his financial strength.
and another illegitimate child, he might not be able to smoke a box of cigarettes in his thirty years.
You must consider driving and refueling. You cannot just fill the box with it. The illegitimate child will affect the life of a cheating man.
A man who cheats on him will not be willing to have a child with a mistress. The attitude of a man who cheats on him is very important.
The previous analysis showed that the mistress was originally because of the unclear attitude of the man.
I am not sure if a cheating man will divorce and marry a mistress, so the mistress becomes anxious.
The original wife helped the cheating man analyze the cost of parenting, and the cheating man's attitude was clear.
Not only do I not want to divorce and marry a mistress, but I also don’t want to have an illegitimate child. Will the mistress still have a child?
Misses are all very smart. After giving birth, no one will raise them, so they are unwilling to ask for a "restrained bottle".
At this time, the mistress may still negotiate with the original partner and ask for some money.
Blue Party recommends that the original wife sign an agreement with the mistress, give the mistress money, and solve the problem of the mistress getting pregnant first.
Then wait until the problem is solved, the original wife can take the agreement to sue, which has no legal effect.
And the mistress threatened the original wife to ask for money with the child in her belly. The mistress may also be involved in illegal crimes.
The original wife not only solved the problem, but also got the money back, and she could also teach the mistress a lesson.
The mistress found that she could not fight the original wife, and the cheating man did not pay attention to her, so she naturally would not continue to have an extramarital affair.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that the reason why many original wives cannot solve the situation where a man cheats and the mistress becomes pregnant.
is not necessarily difficult to solve this situation, but the original partner panicked first when facing this situation.
did not analyze the specific situation at all, nor did he consider how to solve the problem.
is controlled by the collapsed emotions, and has a fight with the cheating man and a mistress.
cannot solve the problem, and the mistress will also be caught by the weak point. When the illegitimate child is born, it will be too late for the original wife to become rational.
So the original partners, in any situation, you must first stabilize yourself, analyze the situation, and find solutions.
If you encounter a marriage problem and don’t know how to solve it, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
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