The traditional concept is to raise children to prevent old age. If you have only daughters at home, you will naturally rely on your daughter to support you. The daughter is his own, but the son-in-law belongs to someone else. Will the son-in-law be willing to support his father-in-law in the old age?
The following is Mr. Guo’s self-reporter:
My name is Guo Deming, and I am a retired teacher in a county in northern Anhui. I am 75 years old this year. My wife has died of lung cancer for many years. Last year, I accidentally broke my right leg. My daughter suggested that I go to the provincial capital to live with her. At that time, I specifically told my daughter to discuss with her son-in-law. My daughter told me that everything was fine. The next day, my daughter drove me to the provincial capital.
After living in my daughter's house, my daughter cooked for me before going to work and served me after get off work. My son-in-law didn't say anything at the beginning, but after living for two months, the son-in-law began to find fault and quarreled with her daughter. From the content of the conversation, the son-in-law said something insincere and people with a little self-esteem could hear that the son-in-law obviously mocked me for dragging him down.
In fact, the son-in-law's father is still my good friend. He has been loyal and honest since childhood. Who would have thought that he would become so mean after getting married? Several times I heard my daughter quarrel between her husband and wife. The content of the quarrel was all because of me. Although I couldn't hear the specific content clearly, I could hear that my son-in-law wanted to drive me away. But my daughter tried her best to argue. In order to prevent my daughter from being angry, I limped out of the door while my daughter was at work, stopped a taxi and returned to my hometown in the county. After I got home, I called my daughter to tell her. On the phone, my daughter cried bitterly, saying that she was not capable, which implicated the old father in his life alone. After hearing my daughter's words, I quickly comforted her and told her to live a good life and not to worry about me.
The next day, my daughter came over by a nanny. The nanny was named Zheng Yinlan. My daughter told me that she would forward the nanny's salary on WeChat, so that I could rest assured to recuperate. To be honest, I have a pension of 5,000 yuan and I can't afford to hire a nanny at all, but in order to make up for her debt, my daughter insisted on hiring a nanny for me, so I could only let it go. It is rare for my daughter to be so filial. I heard Zheng Yinlan tell me that my daughter is preparing to divorce her son-in-law. After hearing this, I remained silent. Young people have the idea of young people. As a father, I certainly hope that my daughter lives a happy life, but when she meets such a sarcastic son-in-law, can her daughter be happy?
Zheng Yinlan has been widowed for many years and is 15 years younger than me. My daughter helped me marry Zheng Yinlan. I used to resist remarrying, but since I came into contact with Zheng Yinlan, I was moved by her hard work and kindness. After three months of getting along, I registered for marriage with Zheng Yinlan, and my daughter later divorced.
Now, my daughter has found a boyfriend again. This boyfriend said that he could take me to the provincial capital for retirement and would serve me like his biological father. I was deeply relieved after listening to my daughter’s expression.
Conclusion
From Mr. Guo’s experience, it can be seen that his daughter is quite inspiring. Her husband cannot adopt a father and can divorce without hesitation. In the end, she still finds her other half. As a junior, it is natural to support the elderly. Are you still young this year, ten years or twenty years later?
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