Will you choose to be friends with your ex? Many men choose to be friends with their ex. People are greedy for feelings, especially love. Since you have been together, your inexplicable possessiveness will make you hope that the other person will always belong to you.
There are only the following reasons for men to be friends with their ex. Have you been hit?
1. Want to eat in the bowl and look at the
Even though he already has a beautiful family and a wife and children who love him, his resistance to his ex is still zero. I have a friend who is thirty-four years old and has never done anything out of the ordinary in six years of marriage, but when his ex sent him a message telling him that he was divorced, he seemed to be a different person.
no longer only has family and work like before, but instead gave birth to some of his own little thoughts. Later, he divorced and his ex didn't return to him. We asked him what he was thinking. His answer was:
When his ex appeared, his dead heart seemed to come alive again. He felt that this was his true love. He had been married to his wife for so long, and he couldn't bear to leave like this, and there were children.
He thinks this is his favorite, and the other is the responsibility he should bear. He doesn't want to give up, and eats in the bowl and looks in the pot. How could all the good things in the world be occupied by one person?
In fact, no one loves people like this. They only love themselves.
2. Still have love for her. If you want to make up for it, you are a lot of men who value friendship. They always miss the woman who will accompany them when they are young or in the most difficult times. He is grateful to such women.
At her best age, when he was the most helpless, he met and fell in love, but most of the time, she taught him to grow up, he made her sad, and finally returned to the crowd.
And she has become the eternal white moonlight in his heart. When he is developed, he will never forget the person who once accompanied him when he has nothing. He will give money and gift compensation, and will try his best to make up for the regrets he had back then.
But he also knew that they could never go back to the past, and they were destined to be both of them. He only had regrets and compensation for her, but no love. On the contrary, this type of men is the most suitable for marriage. They have their own boundaries and will be grateful.
3. Want to develop into an underground relationship
People often have a certain purpose when doing something, and the idea of men's desire to develop the other party into an underground relationship is the most shameful. He clearly knows that he can't give the other party a marriage.
always wants to tie her to her side in some shameful ways. Even after breaking up, he wants to take the other party for himself, and restrict the other party through various sweet words "I will divorce. You are my favorite. I can't do without you" and so on.
Women are often more emotional and prone to soft-heartedness. They often fall into traps for the other party's PUA and are trapped by the other party. By the time they finally find out, it may be too late.
Conclusion: How to deal with an ex-family relationship is also a standard for judging a man’s good or bad. Not contacting him at all does not mean that he is a good man. On the contrary, it may show from another perspective that this man is more heartless, and a man who can contact his ex sometimes cannot prove that he is a half-hearted person.
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