Regarding marriage Irish playwright Shaw said this:
The relationship between a couple after marriage is not a unilateral requirement and gift. Each must do its best and get what it wants to achieve in order to achieve the ultimate.
. A husband and wife need to work together and contribute to this family with a selfless heart in order to get long-lasting happiness.
But not all men in marriage know how to give. They think that if they marry a woman into the house, they will have one more person to serve themselves, and they only need to enjoy the efforts of their partner.
These men are often not satisfied. They obviously have a partner who is outstanding in all aspects, but because of a slight temptation, they find a lover outside of marriage.
Before getting married, the man tried every means to dispel the woman's concerns and let her marry herself.
But after marriage, the first one to change one's heart and one who betrays the family is also the man.
This is a real man. It is always the best when he doesn't get it, and he won't cherish it after he gets it.
The three readers are deeply touched by this. Based on their experiences in marriage, they gave a reminder: Don’t overestimate your pillow, especially in a special period of women, when men have extramarital affairs, be more careful.
My boyfriend and I started dating in college. After graduation, we were assigned to teach in different places and in different counties.
Although our distance is not particularly long, it only takes a few hours to ride EMU , but it is inconvenient to not be around.
I teach art. I usually have fewer classes, not very long preparation time, and have more free time.
My boyfriend teaches mathematics, and he has more classes every day and has less free time.
So, every day is almost the time for me to cooperate with him, and make video calls with him when he has nothing to do.
It was fine at the beginning, but every time I called the video, he would answer it quickly. But later, he answered the video longer and longer, and sometimes he didn't even answer it, and only told me afterwards that he was busy.
But the sixth sense of a woman tells me that this matter is definitely not simple, it must be something else.
After inquiring from multiple sources, a friend learned that he had a development partner in school, and the two were in ambiguous relationship and had a hot fight on weekdays.
It’s like this. He won’t even tell you if he changes his mind, but will not explain until he can’t hide it.
Long-distance relationship is really easy to have problems, especially after both of them started working, they faced too many temptations, and few men could withstand it.
Women's body is not very convenient during pregnancy, and men's physiological needs are not met, so they are prone to drooping.
If a man has a little conscience, he just plays outside and will not have real feelings.
But some men have a very enjoyable time this time, and even have feelings for a third party and plan to divorce.
plays small moves behind their backs, and doesn’t say anything about transferring assets, and even pushes the mistakes on the woman’s people, making the woman think it’s her fault. Men like
are the most shameful. They have no conscience to speak of and are unwilling to admit their mistakes.
My real sister was betrayed when she was pregnant. The man hooked up with a woman in her twenties when my sister was pregnant.
He saw that the woman was young and beautiful, and he became serious while playing. He conspired with that woman and wanted to ask my sister to file for divorce without spending money.
Later, my sister learned about this and was so angry that she was hospitalized. My little niece also had premature birth to .
Although I divorced the scumbag, the harm my sister suffered cannot be compensated and she has never been in a very good mood.
I think that if a man cheats during pregnancy, he is not a man. His wife works hard to give birth to children, but he is doing something wrong outside, which is simply morally corrupt.
During the wife's pregnancy, men who cannot control their lower body should pay the price.
As soon as I reached the age of marriage, I got married with my boyfriend, but I didn’t have children in the past two years.
The elders in the family began to urge us to have children, and then we put the children on the agenda and began to actively prepare for pregnancy.
I am also worried that my figure will not recover after giving birth to my child and the relationship between husband and wife will fade.
But my husband assured me that he would never dislike me for this and would not do anything that would be sorry for me.
Indeed, during my pregnancy, my husband was meticulous and would drive a few hours to the suburbs to pick strawberry because I was greedy.
After work, he rushed home quickly, burned mugwort water to soak my feet and pinched my legs.
I once thought that I was the happiest woman in the world, and I didn’t have many mothers during pregnancy.
Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long. After I gave birth to the child, his attitude changed.
After giving birth, I left many sequelae. Sneezing will cause to leak urine and , and my figure will not recover for a long time.
My husband was not interested in me and refused to have an intimate relationship with me. The relationship between husband and wife deteriorated rapidly.
Even, he found a woman outside and rented a house for her to make it easier for them to have a love relationship.
I really can't imagine that a man who is so considerate to me during pregnancy changes after I gave birth to a baby.
is in a different place with a man, and it is easy to give him space to cheat. You don’t know if he does something that he is sorry for you.
During the pregnancy period of a woman and the one or two years after giving birth, it is also the peak period for men to cheat. We must prevent problems before they happen.
In fact, the reason why men focus on extramarital and looking for lovers is not because of how charming the lovers outside of marriage are, but because they are tired of marriage or because some of the current needs are not met.
These can be avoided. In several stages when men are prone to extramarital affairs, guide them well and let them focus on their family, and they can effectively avoid it.