A master's girl who worked hard in Dongguan for 16 years
Author: Mr. Xiao Han
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Many people can't believe that I am a master's student who graduated from a 985 university. Maybe it's too mediocre, or my beautiful appearance makes everyone feel that I should be a vase and enjoy the admiration of men and the attentive look. In fact, this is not the case. From entering the workplace after graduation to starting a business, all the experiences are gifts from God.
I love beauty, like reading, and want to have a refined life.
So, I have worked harder than the people around me since I was a child, and for nothing else, I just have to live a superior life than everyone around me.
Actually, my family is quite good. My mother is a middle school teacher. My father left the system to do business. When I was in high school, we already had two cars in our family. In the eyes of people around us, we are the kind of people who live a well-off life early. My parents are very loving, but this kind of love is only based on a default basis, because my father cheated on him and had an illegitimate child, who is my current younger brother, who is 17 years younger than me.
None of my parents thought about divorce. Even though my mother was very angry at the time, she finally chose to endure because she didn't want me to have a complete family.
These things were only known later.
I have been a very well-behaved girl since I was a child and worked very hard. My parents love me very much. Every day when I go to school, my mother will dress me up beautifully and study with a beautiful mood. When I arrived at school, I also studied hard and my grades were always among the top three in the class. From childhood to adulthood, I was the "child of other people's families" mentioned by my neighbors.
From elementary school to high school, it went smoothly. Later, I was admitted to a 985 university with excellent grades. I finished my college seriously and was admitted to a postgraduate degree. It seemed that my life was all in a smooth and stable manner. After graduating from the master's degree in
, I went to Dongguan to work as the president's assistant. I had no experience, learned, had no experience, and had experience. Everything was carried out step by step.
But at that time, because of my appearance and education, I was pursued by many people in the opposite sex, including my boss. However, in my thinking, love is sacred and pure, and it is impossible to fall in love casually. Therefore, I have never fallen in love from college to graduate school, which is also the reason.
used to be in my hometown and felt that I had a very superior life, but when I arrived in Dongguan, I saw many lights and wine, and there were many rich people around me. Seeing my colleague carrying a brand-name bag worth tens of thousands of yuan and a pair of sandals that cost tens of thousands of yuan, the gap in my heart can be imagined.
But I am just a worker and cannot have such a life. Even among my peers, my salary of about 20,000 yuan a month is considered high, but my friends around me seem to live more clearly than me and feel free.
Unconsciously, I changed, worship luxury goods and want to live a wealthy life.
In 2010, I dated a boyfriend who was 6 years older than me. He is a native of Shenzhen and is very nice to me. In fact, from the appearance, it is not the type I like at all, but his sincerity and money-first consumption concept ultimately touched me.
0 I have been in love for 4 years. I am in my thirties. My parents are very anxious, but my boyfriend neither married me nor went to see my parents. What's more, he has never taken me to see his family. In his words, "Isn't it good for us to live a two-person world? Why do we involve others?"
I had a best friend in college, and she also saw that our relationship was very deformed. With the help of my best friend, I realized that he was a family. He has been hiding it from me in recent years. After knowing the truth, he no longer concealed it. He told the facts frankly and broke up on his own initiative.
But what about my four years of youth? Is it in vain?
However, I did not wait for the result, only grievances and being intimidated. After experiencing this, I have grown a lot and taken a lot of disdain.
A person's life is always hard to move forward in various hardships. I understand that destiny is in my own hands, and all my dreams can only be relied on myself. After four years with him, I saved some money and opened a company with my best friend in Dongguan. I had no experience, so I slowly explored it. But the shopping mall is like a battlefield, so it is not that easy. Sometimes, for the sake of business, I will drink with customers until late. Of course, it is common to be taken advantage of.
But isn’t this what life is like? When you get used to it, you will deal with it calmly.
Sometimes I envy my best friend. She got married after graduating from college. Now that the children are in high school, I am still single.
There is no "easy" to work hard in Dongguan. No matter what kind of career you do, you need to devote yourself to it. Sometimes you feel that your parents' marriage is a happy one, because at least they will be together until old age.
But now at the age of 40, I am no longer young. What can make me satisfied may be looking back on the past.
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