"Marriage Events" tells the story of a male teacher in a village and town who got married four times and almost got into marriage with two other women.
Chapter Zhihao experienced 6 emotional collisions in total, and he deeply realized that the common and trivialities of marriage have all the same characteristics. Whoever I live with, I actually live with myself.
He originally only needed to divorce once, but he didn't understand marriage enough. After going around, he realized that marriage life was similar. The key was what mentality he used to face it.
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Chapter Zhihao's first wife was a rural woman. She got married less than 10 days after she met her. A teacher matches a rural woman who can't read a big word, just like a scholar meeting a soldier.
After marriage, his wife spoke loudly and beat him and the children at any time. Once, Zhang Zhihao was beaten to the point of bleeding from the head.
Later, Zhang Zhihao was transferred to the county town to teach, and he immediately filed for divorce. The woman refused and made trouble in various ways, so she went to the classroom to block the door, which made him unable to even attend classes.
These actions of his wife further strengthened his heart for divorce. His wife was uneducated and pestered her. It took him a full 8 years to restore his freedom. I didn't want to teach the book anymore, so I was dug up by the county theater troupe because I played the violin well.
Chapter Zhihao's first marriage was obviously inappropriate. The two people's ideological level was not on the same channel. When they talked to the duck, they blamed him for being too anxious and playing a flash marriage, but they ended up being covered in bruises.
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With the lesson of the first marriage, Zhang Zhihao was very eager to find a graceful lady.
Hard work pays off. He picked the left and right and chose a woman who works in the library for a second marriage.
This woman is beautiful, has a good temperament, has lost her husband, and has only a daughter who is less than 10 years old. The woman treats him well and the two of them are very good at chatting. This is his ideal marriage partner, and his colleagues envy him for being very lucky.
I just didn't expect that their marriage lasted only one and a half years and was defeated by a small thing.
On New Year’s Eve, the three of them watched TV together. While watching, the woman cut her horse's hooves for her daughter to eat. After slicing 5 pieces in a row, the wife stuffed them into her daughter's mouth, and she didn't ask Zhang Zhihao whether to eat them. The scene of
made Zhang Zhihao feel very frustrated. He thought that his wife had no self in her heart and only had a daughter, and she would not care about him if she had anything in the future.
The idea of lingering around him. He couldn't eat well and couldn't sleep well, but he was embarrassed to say it, and he seemed too petty. Until the eighth day of the Chinese New Year, he proposed to separate with his wife.
The wife was inexplicably confused, but he decided to separate. After half a year of separation, he would officially divorce.
Chapter Zhihao doesn’t understand a woman’s heart. Who will she remarry? The first condition she considers is whether she is good to the child. This is the nature of a woman as a mother.
If Zhang Zhihao's rural ex-wife is like this to the child, he will definitely have no idea.
Change to a child who is not his, and he minds. It is said that couples are thieves halfway through the journey, so Zhang Zhihao had this thief in his heart, which made him spy on the heart of his second-marriage wife all the time, which eventually led to the breakdown of his marriage.
03
Chapter Zhihao ended his second marriage and came to the provincial capital to develop. He soon met a female accountant, divorced, took care of a child, and had a house.
A woman treats him very well and will balance his relationship with her children. The key is to have a house. After living together for 4 months, they get married.
After marriage, the female accountant's occupational illness was offended and she kept the books every night. He couldn't stand the female accountant's daily settlement, and he had to talk about him in a long and long way. He felt that as long as the money was not spent randomly, it would be there naturally and there was no need to calculate it every day.
The female accountant said that he was not in charge of the family and did not know that the food, food, oil and salt were expensive.
The two started quarreling from this matter, and then it became unstoppable and the marriage was unsustainable. The marriage lasted for only 3 months and 10 days.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said: People should not divorce easily, divorce will become a habit. As long as you divorce once, as long as you encounter a little dissatisfaction in your marriage, you will use divorce to escape.
Chapter Zhihao is like this. If he is dissatisfied, he will use divorce to escape.
Chapter Zhihao's marriage is getting shorter and shorter, but he still yearns for a comfortable life with a woman he loves.
The idea leads this to him briefly summarize the failure of remarriage in the first two paragraphs and re-determines the standard: at least look like a librarian, it is best to have no children, and continue to go to the blind date corner to dabble in women.
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The fourth woman, divorced, the child and the ex-husband, looked like a librarian, hit Zhang Zhihao's heart in one go. God treats him well.
Chapter Zhihao likes to play the violin, and even the first three women don’t appreciate it. This person likes to listen to him play the violin very much. He simply meets a soulmate and a soulmate, and the two are inseparable.
After dating for 6 months, Zhang Zhihao proposed to get married. I thought it was natural, but the woman made a request to transfer her to the provincial capital and get married.
Chapter Zhihao is just a worker in the provincial capital and has no ability to mobilize relationships at all.
She is the most satisfied woman Zhang Zhihao meets, and at the same time makes him deeply feel that loving someone requires ability.
After all, they are not young boys and girls. Zhang Zhihao was not blinded by love, nor did women. Since they couldn't do it, the two of them gradually became cold and gradually stopped contacting each other.
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The fifth woman, an elementary school teacher, widowed and childless, looks like a librarian, and Zhang Zhihao is very interested.
She is teaching nearby, and there is no problem of transfer. The last failure made Zhang Zhihao very afraid of encountering such a thing again, so he paid special attention to this point.
He had just met the primary school teacher and couldn't wait to take her to rent a house.
Elementary school teachers sat down, and they were both cold and chatted for a few words before leaving, without any enthusiasm for being in a blind date corner.
Chapter Zhihao felt something was wrong, so he called to ask, and it turned out that the primary school teacher thought he was the boss, and the rental house of more than ten square meters sold everything.
The man in the elementary school teacher left with uremia and still owed more than 100,000 foreign debts to be paid. After seeing where he lives, he was completely disappointed.
The fourth woman needs to be transferred, and the fifth woman needs money. These are things that Zhang Zhihao cannot achieve.
Marriage is so realistic. It must be implemented in terms of food, food, oil and salt, economic conditions, and ability. Without these support, just relying on the right feeling, I want to embrace the beauty, which is a castle in the air.
Men died of teenagers, and Zhang Zhihao is a representative.
06
Chapter Zhihao went on a blind date with the fourth and fifth woman, and compared the librarian who married the second marriage and the accountant who married the third marriage, he regretted it because he was too careless and could not live at home.
Reflect on yourself, you are old, have a garlic nose, a big mouth, don’t make much money, don’t have a broad mind, don’t like trouble, don’t cheerful, have nothing, and are very picky, I’m really ashamed.
Chapter Zhihao does not like to live a life alone and live alone. He has unbreakable belief in living a comfortable life with the woman he loves.
Even though he is old, he is still a regular visitor to the blind date corner, and he still will not give up until he achieves his goal.
The 6th woman, a professional worker, divorced, has a daughter, and a house. The ex-husband's gambling and playing with women broke her heart.
Women don’t need money and don’t need Zhang Zhihao to buy a house. They can live together after marriage. The only requirement for him is to live a peaceful life.
During the dating process, Zhang Zhihao discovered that the female worker also loved his daughter and would ignore him because of his daughter. He accepted this reality calmly and cooperated with her.
After marriage, she also likes to settle accounts. She calculates every night and requires Zhang Zhihao to pay all the wages.
The history of marriage life is repeating. Zhang Zhihao was not bored. Instead, he watched TV while listening to her patiently, and occasionally heard her miscalculated and reminded her.
Chapter Zhihao is still himself. The trivial marriage he hated so much in the past, but if he changed his mindset, triviality will become the warmth of the family.
After so many marriage explorations, he finally realized that the warmth of the family is composed of long-lasting oil, salt, firewood, rice, pots and pans.
Can’t swim by myself, so it’s the same if you change the swimming pool. Your mentality has changed, and you can feel the cuteness of the annoying things.
No matter what happens, the key is your own mentality, and you are the root of all problems.
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