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Chat is the beginning of a relationship and an important way to maintain relationships. What we have to say to each other also represents the end of the relationship. Adults will never answer questions when they fall in love. Everything is so efficient, and no one is willing to accompany you to grow up. It is normal for adults to care about gains, losses, pros and cons, so they will not chat with you during chatting, because in their opinion it is a waste of time. If you have any questions, just tell the matter directly and the other party will answer you quickly. As for greetings, it is a waste of time. If you send a statement, the other party will most likely not reply to you. They are only sensitive to questions, because in their perception, statements represent the end of the matter and there is no need to continue discussing and replying.
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A friend recently talked about an ambiguous object and even once suspected that boys were AI. Every time they chat, it is like a reporter interview, and the chat method is interview-style quotations, one question and one answer. In fact, this can only be considered a chat, not a truly effective communication. Communication should be a process of two-way interaction of the soul, rather than an irrelevant text input. Many people who have entered marriage think this way of getting along is quite happy, at least the other party responds to everything. Although they do not have too much emotional communication, it is mostly related to trivial matters in life and transfer records, this way of getting along lacks a lot of unnecessary emotional burden.
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Friends have also deliberately reduced their initiative and chatting with each other, but the other party reported his daily life like a robot, and his life is very regular, and he is doing similar things every day. This kind of defensive relationship makes it difficult for friends to understand each other in depth, and the other party seems to be dating in an adult way, without too much explanation and intimacy. He is the kind of down-to-earth man who can do practical things and is really suitable for life. Over time, my friends have adapted to this simple way of chatting and falling in love. After feeling the other person's firm choice and being loved, such getting along will make life fulfilling. Maybe this is living a life. Everyone is busy with their own things every day, and chat and share each other's lives when you have time. This kind of long-lost dullness is the norm in life, and it does not have to be earth-shaking. Their love experience reminded me of blind dates. It seemed that I had no time to get married and have children quickly, and lived a life that was always the same for several years. But who said this was not another way of happiness?
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