Lao Meng from my unit was born in 1965. When he was 46 years old, he married a 27-year-old second-marriage woman. After marriage, the two were extremely loving and enviable. Lao Meng is the only child in the family, because after his mother gave birth to him, she got a disease an

Lao Meng from my unit was born in 1965. When he was 46 years old, he married a 27-year-old second-marriage woman. After marriage, the two were extremely loving and enviable.

Lao Meng is the only child in the family, because after his mother gave birth to him, she got a disease and could no longer have children.

Lao Meng’s parents are also old employees of our unit. After graduating from college, he originally wanted to stay in another place, but his parents must have asked him to come back because his mother was already in serious condition at that time and needed him to come back to help his father take care of his mother.

But after he came back, the main task of taking care of his mother was still based on his father, because it was more convenient for him to take care of him.

At this time, his mother had already made it very difficult for her to turn over, and she even needed to feed her to eat. At that time, his parents were less than fifty years old, and his mother took sick leave, and his father was considered a nursing worker assigned to her by the unit.

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It may be because my father was well taken care of and my mother lived to be sixty-eight years old. At this time, Lao Meng was already in his forties and was still alone.

Because the family is not in good condition, there is a mother who is ill in bed, and there is no extra house, so Lao Meng has never gotten married, mainly because no woman is willing to marry him.

After his mother passed away, his father fell ill again. It turned out that my father had cancer for a long time, and he kept holding on to his wife. After his wife left, he felt relaxed and the cancer was exposed. Because the discovery was in the late stage, my father died soon.

Both parents died. Lao Meng, who is nearly fifty years old, no longer has any hope for marriage. He just wants to work hard and be a useful person to society.

At this time, a 27-year-old girl from a relative of her colleague had a family. She had no children after a year of marriage, but her husband died unexpectedly. Her colleague introduced the girl to Lao Meng.

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Lao Meng was 46 years old at the time, and he was 19 years older than the girl. But Lao Meng has never been married, and the girl is a second-married girl. Lao Meng had no objection. The girl felt that Lao Meng was in good condition, so she agreed.

Because Lao Meng worked for many years, he had been promoted to senior engineer at that time. In the past, it was because his mother was sick and delayed him. Now his parents died and there was no burden. The conditions should be considered good, but they were a little old.

After the two got engaged, Lao Meng renovated the house and got married soon.

As old as a woman, many colleagues say that Lao Meng has had good luck in love, and Lao Meng is also very happy and loves his wife in every way.

He thinks he is so much older than his wife and should give in to his wife everywhere. He did do that. Generally speaking, he would do whatever his wife said.

The two soon gave birth to a daughter. People say that Lao Meng has two daughters, his wife is his eldest daughter, and his daughter is his younger daughter, because he is equally kind to them.

According to insiders, one year, Lao Meng’s wife became pregnant unexpectedly again. At that time, she had not yet let go of having a second child and needed an abortion. After his wife was aborted, she was in great pain, so Lao Meng beat himself, saying that he had caused his wife to suffer.

In addition to being kind to his wife, Lao Meng is also very good to his mother-in-law and father-in-law. His wife has a younger brother. When he got married and bought a house, he asked his wife to give her family 100,000 yuan at a time. He did this mainly to reduce the burden on his mother-in-law and father-in-law, and also moved his wife very much.

But there are times when two people have a quarrel. In 2015, Lao Meng's cousin's son got married and Lao Meng wanted to give him 10,000 yuan in membership. His wife said too much and asked him to give him 2,000 yuan, but Lao Meng took his own initiative and sent the 10,000 yuan away. After her wife got angry, she returned to her parents' home.

Lao Meng went to call his wife back, but his wife asked him to write a guarantee letter, ensuring that he would listen to her in the future. Lao Meng said at that time that he would discuss with her if he had anything in the future, and he would not write the guarantee letter.

Because he did not write a guarantee letter, Lao Meng felt that he had not met his wife's requirements and was afraid that his wife would resent him. After his wife came back, he took the initiative to hand over his salary card, saying that all the family expenses would be passed through her in the future. This is actually similar to writing a guarantee letter.

My feeling is that no matter how old the couple is, their opinions will definitely not be completely consistent, and there will be conflicts, but as long as both of them treat each other rationally and sincerely, they will definitely be able to live a good life.

In 2018, Lao Meng often had a bad appetite. His wife was worried about what disease he would have and insisted on asking him to go to the hospital for examination. But Lao Meng felt it didn't matter and was unwilling to go to the hospital for treatment. His wife had to ask for leave by herself and accompanied him to the hospital for a comprehensive examination. The result was that he had common gastritis, so his wife felt relieved.

They came back from the doctor that day, and I happened to meet them at the entrance of the community. I said, Lao Meng, you are so lucky to marry such a good wife and care about you so much. His wife said: I don’t care about him, I’m for myself, I’m worried that he has a few things, what should we do if we two women!

In fact, his wife's worries are right. Once two people get married, they are a community. No matter who is a little bad, they will implicate the whole family.

So, if you find a wife who is twenty years younger than you, your marriage will be happy, but two people must respect and love each other and cherish each other.

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