Xiaoyuan and I met on blind dates through an acquaintance. At that time, I was 28 years old and I was one year older than Xiaoyuan. The main reason why Xiaoyuan has never had a boyfriend is that my father-in-law can't bear to leave her money tree and doesn't want her to get married early. Xiaoyuan herself listened too much to her father, which led to missing too many good boys.
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Before I met Xiaoyuan, I had an unforgettable love affair. I tried my best to catch my ex-girlfriend. I had a relationship with my ex-girlfriend for three years and was engaged. Until the two were about to get married, they broke up due to various reasons. Although my ex-girlfriend and I broke up peacefully, that love breakup hit me very hard, and it took me a whole year to get out.
Xiaoyuan and I went on a blind date, which went surprisingly smoothly. My father-in-law, who has always been very picky, actually looked at me very much that time and didn’t pick any problems with me. Xiaoyuan and I are alumni. When I was in school, I was always one year older than her. I knew her when I was in school, but I just didn’t talk much.
After I fell in love with Xiaoyuan, I went to her fried chicken restaurant in Wuxi and stayed there for two days. I witnessed her all the hard work she worked for a day. Before leaving, I told Xiaoyuan: When I return to Kunshan and settle down, you can go to my side. Your current work is really hard!
Two months later, Xiaoyuan came to me. In order to welcome her arrival, I rented a big house, bought simple furniture such as pots, pans, wardrobes, etc., and even went to the fals market to buy a second-hand color TV.
Xiaoyuan is a good girl who lives a down-to-earth life, and is not picky at all. I found her to work in an electronics factory and work two shifts every day. She is not tired at all and told me that it is much more comfortable than in a fried chicken shop.
Xiaoyuan and I have already lived together, and we know each other well, and we are both very old. When we returned to our hometown during the Chinese New Year, Xiaoyuan and I asked my father-in-law to get married. My father-in-law was very unhappy. He meant to wait for another year before talking.
I understand that in my father-in-law's heart, isn't he just expecting his daughter to help him make more money for another year? Xiaoyuan and I did not obey my father-in-law's arrangements and insisted on getting married after the New Year. This made him very dissatisfied. He took the opportunity to become a hand-off manager and ignored our marriage. He followed our own wishes and stopped participating!
Xiaoyuan and I had half a month's wedding leave, and coupled with the Spring Festival holiday, we had almost twenty days to prepare. Our house has been renovated and painted, and the furniture was bought in advance. Xiaoyuan and I went to the street to take a simple wedding photo, and then went to the county town to buy washing machines, color TVs and other home appliances. Even the small things in the pots, pots, and jars were all done by both of us and we bought them one by one.
Although my father-in-law didn't care about what we bought after marriage, pretended to be deaf and did not pay a penny, when it was our turn to ask for the bride price, he was not vague at all and asked for 18,888 yuan directly. This was definitely a very high bride price in rural northern Jiangsu in 2004, which was almost twice the bride price of others in the same period. In order to successfully marry Xiaoyuan, I didn't say a word of nonsense and did it directly according to my father-in-law's request.
When we are marrying our daughter in our hometown, most parents will use their daughter’s bride money and buy various large appliances as dowry. The unused money will be put in the suitcase for their daughter to take home when their daughter gets married, which is called a box of money. Some parents are afraid that their daughter will suffer from marriage and will add three to five thousand yuan and put it in the suitcase together.
The home appliances that Xiaoyuan and I got married were all bought by my family. All the dowry supplies of all sizes were paid by me. My father-in-law almost didn't pay a penny from beginning to end.Many years ago, in order to let Xiaoyuan make money for him, my father-in-law promised her more than once: You can help your family make money now. When you get married in the future, your father will never treat you badly. Then he will put a large passbook in your suitcase as your dowry.
On the day Xiaoyuan and I got married, my father-in-law never smiled from beginning to end. My mother-in-law told relatives and friends more than once: It’s not exciting to marry a daughter, but if my son gets married, it’s worth being happy.
What makes Xiaoyuan the most sad is that she worked hard at her parents' home for more than ten years, but the trunk of a Santana sedan was packed into it. The key is that I paid for these things. Xiaoyuan has seen her stingy parents' family and heard of shabby dowry. Unexpectedly, her own dowry is the shabby and dissatisfaction.
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That afternoon, Xiaoyuan kept crying and refused to get in the car. She even took off her wedding dress several times and went back to Kunshan to work with me. She didn't want to get married! Xiaoyuan's two aunts kept persuading her, and I repeatedly promised her: I would never talk about brides or dowry in the future. Her father didn't buy it for her, so I would definitely make up for it in the future! Xiaoyuan, who was crying and made up, got on the wedding car and followed me back to my house.
That afternoon, my father-in-law never showed up again. I don’t know if he had a conscience or felt that he was too outrageous and was afraid that others would blame him.
That night, after the wedding, I closed the door, Xiaoyuan and I opened the dowry suitcase, and only 666 yuan of full-box money was placed in it, and we didn’t see any large passbooks. I advised Xiaoyuan not to turn it over. Her father has always used this to deceive her and never thought about giving her a large passbook as a dowry.
Xiaoyuan didn't believe what I said, and carefully took every pocket of every piece of clothing in the box, but found nothing! It was not until this time that she believed what I said. At that moment, Xiaoyuan stood there blankly without saying a word for a long time. Her most trusted father not only treated her badly, but also deceived her.
Our wedding night should have been the happiest moment, but Xiaoyuan shed a lot of tears. That night, I not only comforted her, but also comforted her.
After breakfast the next morning, Xiaoyuan and I went back to my parents' home together. According to the rules where we were, the new son-in-law returned to the house and his father-in-law should at least pour a glass of water. As a result, my father-in-law directly chose to ignore it and pretended that he didn't see me. My father-in-law’s aunt was far away and did not return to her home yesterday. Seeing that no one paid attention to me, she reminded my father-in-law: Weiguo, the new son-in-law is back, hurry up and pour a glass of water for the newcomer!
My father-in-law had a twitch on his neck: What's wrong? Are you afraid that he won't come to the door in the future?
I smiled at my aunt and grandma awkwardly: I am not thirsty, I will fall down if I am thirsty.
I heard my aunt mutter in a low voice: This Weiguo, who is a man, I don’t know any etiquette at all!
After lunch, at two or three o'clock in the afternoon, Xiaoyuan and I were about to go back to our home. According to the customs of our hometown, our parents' home needs to set off firecrackers and send them off. My brother-in-law was playing cards with my aunt and the others at that time. Xiaoyuan's uncle urged him several times and asked him to set off firecrackers. My brother-in-law always asked him to wait a little longer.
At that time, I felt very uncomfortable. For Xiaoyuan and I, marriage was a major event in life. Although our family tried our best to strive for perfection, my father-in-law was too unfair to take it seriously. I said to Xiaoyuan: Don’t wait, let’s go, let’s go, they will not let go!
Xiaoyuan and I walked straight out of the house. Xiaoyuan’s uncle couldn’t stand it anymore, so he threw away my brother-in-law’s cards. My brother-in-law might be unlucky and lost money. He kept shouting to my uncle: What are you doing? What are you anxious about? What can I do if I ask them to wait for a while?
My uncle is also a bad temper and slapped my brother-in-law in the face: I have urged you several times, but haven’t you seen your sister and the others ready to go back?
My brother-in-law stopped saying a word and reluctantly set off firecrackers. Amid the crackling sound of firecrackers, Xiaoyuan and I went home. As we left, our uncle also returned to our home angrily.
This is what happened before and after Xiaoyuan and I got married. I am not a very petty person. I just want to say that my father-in-law really doesn’t pay attention to my wedding at all. Xiaoyuan has worked hard in her parents’ home for more than ten years, and at least helped my father-in-law earn more than 100,000 yuan. In the end, my father-in-law sent her daughter this way and gave her a wedding that was the most shabby and less like a wedding.
What makes Xiaoyuan and I feel most uncomfortable is that when we get married, we have nothing to do. When my brother-in-law gets married, my father-in-law thought so thoughtful and he has a lot of etiquette. My sister-in-law was allergic to gold and told my father-in-law not to buy gold. As a result, my father-in-law still bought all the same lots of things. The wedding was so grand and lively!
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When Xiaoyuan complained to my mother-in-law with a sour heart, my mother-in-law actually said to her daughter: Can it be the same for marrying a wife and marrying a daughter? No matter how much money it costs to marry a daughter-in-law, we are happy!
Alas, this is my best father-in-law and a weird mother-in-law. What else can I say when I have such parents?
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