Some people say: Whether it is a second marriage or a first marriage, it will not feel good if you don’t manage it well. In fact, these words are correct, but the most difficult and critical thing that happens to couples remarrying is the child's problem.

■Author: Uncle Nanshan

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01, volume beginning.

Some people say: Whether it is a second marriage or a first marriage, it will not feel good if you don’t manage it well. Once the remarried couples are fresh, they are still busy with food, rice, oil and salt... There are also happiness, but most of them just live together. In fact, these words are correct, but the most difficult and critical thing that happens to couples remarrying is the child's problem. In a family remarried, the most unignorable "gift" left by the last marriage is the child. Not only do two people who remarry have to face how to accept a child without blood relationship, but what is even more difficult is that underage children are not completely passive.

He (she) remains silent, and also has the problem of accepting or not accepting stepparents. Even adult children, when facing them, the stepfather or stepmother must grasp the right to be responsible, because the adult stepson or stepdaughter no longer has the right to inherit. In a sense, the distance between them is relatively far away. Especially for some matters related to property, you must know how to handle them carefully. Therefore, how to grasp the relationship with an adult stepson or stepdaughter is a question worth thinking about, otherwise, like Aunt Li’s approach below, it is worth discussing.

02, after retirement, my wife left me.

Dear friends, my name is Song Xiaofeng, I am a retired man . Although I retired from a small business, when I was a public unit, my pension was still more than 5,000 yuan. With this pension, I could have lived a free and easy retirement life, but my wife was gone two years ago. How sad I am when my wife left me, and when I retired, this feeling of sadness, coupled with loneliness, made my life even more sad.

I have two children. My son studied at 211 university and now works in Beijing. He hasn't been home several times a year. My daughter married in Jiangcheng and was very close to home. So, I often go to my daughter's house to help take care of the baby. My son-in-law is the boss of a company. He has money, status and status, so I am very proud of my daughter marrying him. However, the son-in-law rarely seems to go home, and my daughter is left with her children alone, which is also very lonely.

03, I spent my best years in the elderly university.

In order to get rid of loneliness and loneliness, I went to an elderly university not far from my home to study landscape painting. To be honest, when I was young, I studied landscape painting, but later because of my work and life, I stayed away from my interests and hobbies. When I entered the Senior Citizens University, my landscape painting skills were rapidly improved under the careful teaching of the teacher. I participated in several art exhibitions and all won rankings.

After my landscape painting won the award, I have a fan. My loyal fan is Li Xiaolian. She is also a retired worker. Like me, she is actually a single person. In this way, I, who was studying landscape painting in the senior citizen university and preparing to cultivate my nature and enjoy my youth, actually met the second woman in my life, Li Xiaolian, which opened my second spring.

04, I started to live together with Li Xiaolian and I.

It’s like this. In the senior college, I learned to draw while handing over Li Xiaolian to draw. Slowly, we had feelings. Because we are both single, we, who are in love, quickly got together. Li Xiaolian and I made an agreement: We must be together well for the rest of our lives. So, when we get off work, we will make an appointment to my house. We cook together, chat and watch TV together, and live a life of dependence and companionship. Every month, I would hand over 3,000 yuan to Li Xiaolian and let her be responsible for our monthly meals. Sometimes, I will reimburse her if she wants to buy clothes or something.

I said to Li Xiaolan: "Men make money for women. I don't like women making money for men the most. Such men are so despicable." Li Xiaolian nodded repeatedly after hearing this, but I knew that Li Xiaolian also had something to worry about. She has a child and although she also has a job, she is thirty and has not yet gotten married. He eats, drinks, and even likes gambling every day, so he has to use Li Xiaolian's pension. I always comfort Li Xiaolian that once the child gets married, it will slowly change. We retire and let us live our own lives.

05, the daughter divorced and was assigned a house and a million property.

However, before Li Xiaolian and I could live a good life . My daughter Song Mingli divorced. My son-in-law cheated on her outside marriage and my daughter could not tolerate it, so she divorced my son-in-law. After the divorce, my daughter was given a unit of 200 square meters and a compensation of more than 3 million yuan. However, my little nephew was sentenced to the man.

Song Mingli is in her early thirties this year, and she has fair skin and beautiful appearance. Li Xiaolian and I comforted her: "Child, you are still young, you will definitely find a better one." After her daughter Song Mingli divorced, Li Xiaolian was afraid that she would be sad, so she often took her home, cooked delicious food for her, and chatted with her. I saw it and was happy in my heart. After all, as a stepmother, it is really worthy of recognition that Li Xiaolian can treat her stepdaughter like this.

06. After Xiaolian learned about it, she started to arrange a partner for my daughter.

Li Xiaolian not only comforted Song Mingli emotionally, but also arranged everything around and said that she wanted to find a good partner for Song Mingli. I told Li Xiaolian not to worry, after all, my daughter just divorced and it also takes some time to buffer. However, Li Xiaolian said, "Xiaofeng, what era is now? It is very normal for men and women to divorce and remarry. Song Mingli is so beautiful, I must find someone for her to satisfy her."

Seeing Li Xiaolian say this, I had to give up. After all, my daughter’s happy marriage is also a major event in my life. I wish she could meet a happy husband again. Even if their lives are ordinary, as long as their lives are calm, even if they are ordinary, they are the most beautiful human fireworks in Jiangcheng City.

07, but I didn't expect that she would introduce her son to my daughter.

However, what I never expected was that one day, Li Xiaolian actually brought his son to our home to visit . At the beginning, I just let my children come and have a meal because she was just asking them to come. However, after dinner, I found that she actually took Song Mingli and her son out shopping, and I was a little suspicious. I secretly followed out and found that Li Xiaolian's son and my daughter Song Mingli went to a coffee shop with them.

After several trackings, I finally found out that Li Xiaolian actually introduced her son to my daughter. I asked my daughter, but her daughter did not refute it, but said that Aunt Li asked her son to meet her, and there was no further development between them. It’s just that Aunt Li’s son is eloquent and has not been married yet, which makes her feel a little weak. I came to my daughter's house and warned her: "Child, you must not deal with him anymore. He likes to eat, drink, play, and gambling. Maybe he is only greedy for your house and your money." When she heard me say this, Song Mingli nodded and said to me, "Dad, don't worry, I have the determination, I will analyze it."

08. After learning the truth, my wife was furious and drove her out of the house.

After I learned the truth, I was very angry. When I got home, I asked loudly, "Li Xiaolian, why did you introduce your son to my daughter?" Li Xiaolian smiled when she heard this, "Xiaofeng, your daughter is thirty this year, and my son is thirty this year. Are they about the same age? Moreover, my son has not been married yet, but your daughter is divorced. They have no blood relationship, they are both single, and they are together, and your daughter is still cheap."

I shouted angrily: "Li Xiaolian, what kind of person is your son? Don't you know? He likes to eat, drink, gambling, and sweet words. You introduce him to my daughter. In fact, you want your son to get my daughter's house and three million yuan property?" Li Xiaolian was also very angry when she heard this, so we started arguing. Finally, I opened the door and said in anger: "Li Xiaolian, we have broken our grace. We will divorce tomorrow, please leave!" After , I drove Li Xiaolian out of the house.

09, conclusion.

Friends, do you think my approach is too much? Yes, remarriage is really a thorny place. The difficulty lies in the fact that two fully mature people not only bring their own temperament, thinking, habits, and family relationships, but also their children, property, outlook on life and social status... However, remarriage will really bring many problems. Moreover, the remarried children do not have direct inheritance rights. I am not afraid that Li Xiaolian's son will take away my property, but I am afraid that Li Xiaolian will take over my daughter's property after letting his son and my daughter get married. Everyone said, I drove Li Xiaolian away, I did this, right? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you everyone.

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