Men to middle-aged men, very few people don’t want to get married, they all want to have a home and feel the warmth.
But at this age, what do women want to do? If you don’t have money, it’s all for nothing…What should I do if you don’t have money? Buy a car to fill the storefront. If you have a car yourself, it is convenient to go out. Even if you park at the door and bask in the sun, it will protect your last dignity.
What does it mean to be sober in the world and not wanting to get married? In fact, it is all about your own limited ability. Money is a bastard. The more you spend, the more you can make money. As long as you are not lazy, it is all chicken soup. It is hard to make money and shit is hard to eat.
Every year when I go back to my hometown for the New Year, I will play with my peers. There are many bachelors in every village and village. They all have one common characteristic: they have to have education but not their appearance, they have to have money, they have to have some, not much, they speak stutteringly without any humor, they are very greasy, they will be nervous when they see girls, blush, and nothing.
But everyone has a car, tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of thousands of dollars, and their lives are very comfortable. They sleep until they wake up naturally every day. The parents shout to eat, and then continue playing until the sun sets, day after day.
It’s not their fault. They are not used to working when they go out, but they also depend on the boss’s face. It’s better to be comfortable and simple at home. By the same token, girls stay outside when they study, find a classmate and get married. Those who don’t study go out to work. Many men of marriageable age follow behind their butts, constantly entangled, and finally they are taken first by those who are good at speaking. Of course, they will leave with others and will not come back to the countryside.
So I sympathize with them very much. Don’t say that young and beautiful women look down on them, even those who get divorced and take care of their children are just tied to them to play. After a while, I found that I can’t get money from them, and no woman will really get emotional about them.
The old man has no knowledge, and always feels that there is a car that others can look up to. So even if their son doesn’t want to buy it, they will take out their savings to buy one, and maybe they can find a daughter-in-law to realize their wish to be grandparents.
But now there are so many cars, it is not worth it. Having a car is just the lower limit for girls to choose a spouse. It is really difficult to marry a wife in such an environment.
OK, this is the reality. When you buy a car, treat the car as your girlfriend, and maintain your last dignity. Why don’t you get married when someone asks? I can say boldly, how good is a person, why bother yourself?
When the old men and mothers in the village saw us, they wanted me to introduce them to their sons and grandchildren. They seemed to have found a life-saving straw, but they didn't know that I didn't have the resources suitable for them.
So people with a wife, don’t get divorced. You don’t take care of your partner, you are the partner whom others dream of marrying home.