received a submission from a netizen. She said:
I am 39 this year, my husband is 40, we have been married for 8 years and have a child. He was also quite powerful at that time, and I did enjoy the joy of being a woman. If I always refuse, what should I do if he cheats?
My husband has a strong demand. When he first got married, he had to do it every day, and sometimes more than once a day.
At that time, I was still young and had no trivial matters. As long as I was not feeling uncomfortable, I would cooperate with him.
But now, I am busy with work and I have to tutor my children homework when I get home, and my energy is not as good as before, so I just want to sleep in bed at night.
But my husband still remains interested in sex. Now he needs at least three or four times a week, and I feel very tired. The most annoying thing is that now he watches the World Cup and sometimes goes into the house to sleep in the middle of the night.
I was sleeping beautifully, and he insisted on waking me up and fucking me. I was really unhappy. I just wanted to sleep and didn't want to cooperate with him at all.
, and his time is not good now. I often just felt that he surrendered and couldn't experience any fun.
He vented in the middle of the night and soon fell asleep. I was so troubled by him that it took me a long time to fall asleep, and I was in a state of energy the next day.
I protested and he said this was a sign of loving me. Although he has been married for so many years, he still has sexual interest in my body. And he didn't look for women outside, he was only loyal to me.
Every time I reject him, he is unhappy and says I don’t have him in my heart. I don't want to hurt his heart either, I can only cooperate.
often see sisters saying that their husbands can’t do in bed. To be honest, I’m quite envious, so I can save myself from dealing with it. It's really tiring to meet someone like my husband.
I am really not Versailles. I am tired all day during the day and just want to have a good sleep at night.
Do you think my husband is sick? Sexual excitement or something?