My husband is the teacher who teaches children to dance Latin dance. We have been in love for a total of 3 months. On the fifth day of the third month, we got married. I am engaged in real estate sales. He was originally a colleague with me and he was responsible for the transfer

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On May 8, 2022, I got married in Wuhan.

The husband is the teacher who teaches children to dance Latin dance. We have been in love for a total of 3 months. On the fifth day of the third month, we got married. I am engaged in real estate sales. He was originally a colleague with me and he was responsible for the transfer of customers. Later, due to the bad market conditions, he opened a dance class with his friends to teach children to dance Latin dance.

I remember one time the company organized a team building. That day, because I accidentally sprained my foot, he carried me back to the hotel and bought me medicine. At that moment, I felt like I was being taken care of and protected, because I have lived in a single-parent family since I was a child. My father abandoned me and my mother when I was very young. I lacked fatherly love since I was a child and was attracted by him at that moment.

After that team building, I established a romantic relationship with him. He told me that he had no requirements for me, and even if he got married in the future, he would not ask for anything. But the only requirement is to make me kind to his mother.

He said that his mother never remarried because she was for him, and he owed her too much. He and I have the same experience, and of course I can feel deeply. After all, my mother raised me alone. When he said this, I couldn't help but feel that he and I were really the most similar couple in the world.

When he took me home, he insisted that I wipe off my lipstick before entering the door. He said that his mother doesn’t like girls who are too beautiful. He said that I was already quite eye-catching, and if I put on makeup, it would be even more eye-catching. In order to leave his mother with a simple image, I told me not to put on makeup in the future.

After listening to it, I felt a little incredible. How could such a mother do not like her son to find beautiful girls. Of course, at that time, I was just unhappy for a moment, and didn't think about it carefully, thinking that I would do whatever my boyfriend said.

That day I met his mother. His mother was dressed very delicately, with no white hair, and light makeup on her face. The lipstick is rose-red, the same color as the one I applied at that time. After his mother saw me, she looked up and down for a long time and said to her, "Since Yangyang is willing to be with you, I have no objection. I just hope you will live at home when you get married. The house is big and I will take care of you. You can save some trouble."

Before I could speak, my boyfriend Yangyang hurriedly said, "That's sure, I must live at home, I don't want to leave you." Then Yangyang naturally hugged his mother in his arms. Although I was surprised at that moment, I thought that he was a mother and son, so there should be no big problem in doing this.

That day, he told me that my mother had a good impression of me, and said that if she had decided, she would get married sooner. After hearing what he said, I felt relieved, thinking that the ugly daughter-in-law finally got the recognition of her mother-in-law.

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We went to get the certificate on May 8th. Liu Yang's mother also wanted to go with her on the day she got the certificate. When Liu Yang told me, I couldn't help but feel a little unhappy. I said getting a certificate is our business, why did your mother get involved?

After hearing this, his face suddenly became dark. He said that my mother raised me so old, and she took the initiative to ask for a marriage certificate with me. Can I refuse? He spoke righteously, and for a moment I didn't know what to say.

I will never forget the scene of getting the certificate that day. Liu Yang's mother wore a big red dress. When we were going through the procedures, she also arranged the arrangements, and kept recording videos, taking photos, and posting them to the Moments.

I really can't figure out what she wants to do this? It was obviously a happy event between me and Liu Yang, but it was like her getting married. Although I was unhappy, I didn't show it. I thought I would be fine when I got married and this time I passed.

Since my family is not in Wuhan, Liu Yang's mother said that there is no need to let my family run here. She also said that the situation in the past two years is special and that the wedding should not be held in a big feast. Her words also make sense. After all, the past two years have indeed been different from before, and it is not allowed to gather together, so I didn't care much.

But this is a major event in my life after all. My mother was still a little unhappy when she learned about it. She said that she would look up and marry a girl, but what do we say about this? My mother asked me to ask Liu Yang for a 80,000 yuan bride price, but she said the money must be in place.

When I mentioned this to Liu Yang, he said he wanted to discuss it with his mother. He also said that the family’s money was not the final word. I asked him back, "Why don't he have any money?" He told me that he had paid all the money he earned, and he also said that the names of the two houses in his family were written as fucking.

I was shocked when I heard this. I remember he told me that the house was his name and that those two houses were actually bought by him in recent years of stock trading and entrepreneurship. Why is this house now a fucking house?

Seeing me asking, he said helplessly: "My mother asked me to pass the house. She said that the house was more at ease in her hands, and said that she would come back if needed in the future." After hearing this, I couldn't help feeling cold on my back. Although I had been with him for a short time, I had already married him, but he was treating me like this and guarding me like this. I was still very disappointed to think about it.

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I told my mother about this. My mother seemed a little unhappy. She said she was very worried about me, worried that Liu Yang and his mother didn't treat me sincerely. But I do, and I'm already thirty-three. I finally found one I like, and I don't want to miss it.

I had an argument with Liu Yang over the bride price. I said he didn't care about my feelings at all, but he thought I just liked money. He and I had been in a cold war those days. When his mother saw us quarrel, she didn't persuade us. On the contrary, she was quite happy. The situation like

lasted for a few days, and Liu Yang took the initiative to look for me. He told me not to be angry, and said that he had nearly 60,000 yuan on hand. He told me not to tell his mother that he planned to transfer the money to me as a bride price. He also said that he really wanted to live with me and told me not to think too much.

Seeing that he admitted his mistake on his own initiative and was willing to pay 60,000 yuan in bride price, I also felt that I finally met a man I liked, and I received the certificate, so I can live with him with peace of mind. After learning about this, my mother also felt that Liu Yang did a good job. Although his mother did have some problems in being a human being, as long as Liu Yang is good to me, everything should be fine.

During those days, he and I were quite sweet. Every day after get off work, he would come to the company to pick me up and take me to eat various delicacies. Although he was harassed by his mother every time he was eating outside, Liu Yang still took into account my feelings every time.

I thought my happiness would continue like this, and I thought that as long as I try to contact Liu Yang's mother as little as possible, she would not affect our lives. Until one day, when Liu Yang and I finished our meal from outside, we saw his mother sitting on the sofa with a gloomy face as soon as we entered the door.

When we came back, she said angrily: "I just died at home, you don't know." Liu Yang asked nervously what was wrong? While crying, she said that when she was cooking, she accidentally cut her hand and shed a lot of blood. She also said that she was a little anemia, so she was drowsy all afternoon.

I felt relieved when I heard her say this, thinking that I just cut my hand and had a little bleeding, so I wouldn't be like this. I said, "Just post a Chuangjia, please pay attention to cutting vegetables next time." Who knew that as soon as I finished speaking, she said loudly: "You know, I'm anemia, if I lose too much blood, I will die."

I think she is really fussy, but Liu Yang doesn't think so. Liu Yang thinks his mother is injured, but I don't care at all. That day, Liu Yang kept chatting with her in his mother's room until very late when he returned to the room.

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0 A few days later, I asked Liu Yang why her mother relied on him so much. I also said that if this happens for a long time, it may affect our relationship. Liu Yang said that his mother has been like this since he remembered. At that time, his father had not left them yet. His mother has always been the kind of woman who needs other people's care.

When he was in the sixth grade, his parents divorced. Since then, his mother has been very dependent on him, and he also vowed at that time that he must treat his mother well. I said no matter how good you treat her, we can't affect our relationship because of her, right?

However, Liu Yang thought I was thinking too much and thought I couldn't tolerate his fucking. It was just that night, it was raining heavily. Suddenly in the middle of the night, I heard someone push the door in, and then I heard my mother-in-law say, "Yangyang, it's thundering, I'm scared."

At this time, Liu Yang quickly got up and said to her mother-in-law, "Or you sleep with us, or I'll go over to accompany you." After hearing this, I was almost broken. Where is this? I quickly sat up and said, "What's the fear of thunder?" But Liu Yang said coldly, "My mother is afraid. In the past, whenever it was thunder, I would sleep with my mother." After hearing this, I was speechless. Liu Yang kept with his mother that night, and I shed tears all night.

I told my best friend about this, and she said, "You are looking for a mama boy, and I found that his mother's mentality was abnormal, thinking that you snatched her son and treated you as a rival in love." My best friend's analysis made sense, but what should I do?

When he got home from get off work that day, Liu Yang helped his mother prepare the meal as usual. I felt stomach upset at that time, so I said I would not eat anymore and prepared to enter the room. Suddenly my mother-in-law got angry and she said, "What's the matter? I'm ready to wait for you to eat, but I don't eat it yet. Yangyang and I are so mean."

I explained that I feel uncomfortable and don't want to eat it, but she said I'm feeling uncomfortable because I think she feels uncomfortable. I didn't want to say anything more, so I went straight into the room. Liu Yang followed me in at this time. He asked me what was wrong, and I said I didn't know either. Just then I suddenly felt disgusted and I hurried into the bathroom.

At this time, my mother-in-law came in. She looked at me and said expressionlessly: "Have you not come to my aunt this month?" Only then did I realize that it was really time for me to have not come. She said she might be pregnant and said she was going to buy me a test strip.

Liu Yang was very happy. He said, "Mom, will Xiaoya really get pregnant?" But my mother-in-law said, "Don't be happy too early. Besides, if you are pregnant, you can't take it." I was very surprised, and I said, "Why?" As a result, she said, "You forgot, don't you cough? I bought you anti-inflammatory drugs at that time. If you are really pregnant, the child may be deformed."

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The next morning, I tested it, and there were two bars, and it should be pregnant. I asked Liu Yang what to do? He said yesterday that when his mother said this, he was also worried that the child would be deformed. I'm very sad, I said you mean, don't?

He said that this is not what he meant, and he said why don’t he ask the doctor? That day was the hospital where Liu Yang accompanied me to. The doctor said that there might be an impact, but the probability would not be very high. Of course I know that doctors won’t say things too absolutely, after all, no one dares to guarantee future events.

The mother-in-law found out and decided that there would be problems. She also said that she didn't want a grandson with a problem. She kept saying that the child in my belly had something wrong, and I was annoyed at that time. I asked her what it meant? Do you want to show off Liu Yang and I? We can't stand being together because of our children.

She immediately got angry with me after hearing this. She said why should I speak to her like this? She also said that women from small cities like me are just too sensible. First he took her son, but now he wanted to use his child to jail him.

That day, I started arguing with her and all the grievances I have suffered over the past few months. Liu Yang was very angry. He said I shouldn't treat his mother like this, and also said that I promised him to be kind to him, why did I not keep my word?

After the fight, I cleaned up some of my clothes. I couldn't stay in this house anymore. I think I am an outsider in this house, and Liu Yang and his mother are the owners of this house. When Liu Yang saw me clearing things, why bother? Where can you go?

I said I can stay in a hotel, right? Liu Yang said coldly: "Whatever you want, don't blame me for not reminding you. If you walked out of this house now, my mother would definitely not let you come back." I was also very angry at the time. If I said I wouldn't reply, I wouldn't reply. It's a big deal."

I left this home like this. It was originally my home, originally my home and my home and Liu Yang. That night, my best friend accompanied me in the hotel. She asked me what plans I had in the future? I said I had no plans, and the child might be aborted.

Best friend said at least he had to ask Liu Yang for some money, right? Otherwise, I would have suffered too much. I said I don’t want anyone anymore, so what else do I need? However, my best friend said I was stupid and wasted several months in vain.

I really don’t have much nostalgia for Liu Yang, but I really can’t bear to leave the child in my stomach, but I dare not tell my mother about this. I am worried that my mother will be sad.

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After staying in the hotel for three days, I started looking for a house outside. I planned to rent a house for a while and hand over the work at hand. I am still going to leave Wuhan and go home to accompany my mother. I don’t want to wander outside anymore, I want to go home. Of course, during this period, my mother also asked about my situation. I always said it was okay and said that it might be divorced because of my reasons, and my personality was not in line with Liu Yang.

I didn't tell my mother what happened. I really don't want her to worry about me, but even so, my mother still expressed her great concern on the phone. She said that if she really felt wronged, she would leave. During this period, I also called Liu Yang and asked him what to do next?

He said whatever I want, and said that if he wants to come back, he must coax his mother first, and said that if his mother does not agree to me coming back, then the relationship between us will be over. After hearing this, I was really angry and said I wouldn't go back. You and your mother should just live like this.

On the phone, he said that I was unreasonable and said that I didn’t know how to cherish the relationship between us. I asked him, did you cherish it? When have you ever cared about my feelings? He said he didn't want to fight with me anymore, and said that I was just unreasonable.

I asked him what to do with the child in his belly? He said coldly: "Anyway, it's a deformity, you can handle it whatever you want." I really hated at that time. I hated me for being blind and found such a cold-blooded man. I plan to do something that makes him and his fucking miserable and I let them remember this kid forever.

hang up the phone and I asked the doctor. I said I decided to abort the child, but there was a request. My heart was bleeding as I lay on the cold operating table. How I want to keep this child, but I know that once I stay, I will have to put in a lot of effort. I am not sure whether I will start another marriage in the future, so I can only give up this life.

I put the pilled embryo in a glass bottle and sent it back by express delivery. I sent a WeChat message to Liu Yang and his mother and said that this was a life, they conspired to kill the child, and they had to pay the blood debt.

Liu Yang called me, and as soon as I answered the phone, he said angrily that I would not die well, and said that I was psychopathic, why did I send this thing here? I shouted at the phone, "You mother and son are perverts, and what I send is not something, but your child, her grandson." I also said that I was forced by you by my pervert. Liu Yang threatened me that he would not let me go. I said whatever you want, just let the horse go, I will write all this into an article and post it on my social account. I think who will not let anyone go?

On October 31, Liu Yang and I went through the divorce procedures. None of us said a word to anyone. When the staff asked, I answered mine and he answered him. The other party asked if mediation was needed, and we also said no.

Fall in love for 3 months, flash marriage, marriage only lasted for 5 months, and we were completely separated. Sometimes I also wonder if this is a disaster that God has given me, so that I should have encountered Liu Yang and should have suffered this time.

Of course, I was thinking too. Perhaps from his perspective, he thought he was also hurt. I have thought a lot during this period, and I don’t blame him for many things, nor do I blame me for the fact that we shouldn’t have had intersections and shouldn’t have such a bad fate.

2022 is about to pass. Thinking about what I have experienced this year, I have a dreamlike feeling.And I plan to leave this city and this sad place, just pretending that nothing has happened.

Postscript:

There are many young people today who will experience flash marriages. Is it okay to have flash marriages? As for me personally, it is really not good to have a flash marriage. Too many people have not fully understood before marriage, which leads to many conflicts after marriage.

When you are in love, the two should still know more, whether it is their three views, living habits, and their original family. Only in this way can we avoid both parties from falling into pain due to a hasty marriage. The protagonist in the article

cares too much that he is an older woman and wants to solve his marriage problem as soon as possible. He never thought that not only did he not have the happiness he wanted, but he was also in pain. It was really not worth it!