In July 1981, Liang Nianhua graduated from Hangzhou University and was assigned to an institution in Hangzhou. After Lu Xiu, who had been in love with him for 4 years, he graduated from the regional medical school. He stayed in a small town in , Zhejiang, and worked as a nurse.
It was National Day in 1982, and Lu Xiu and Liang Nianhua got married.
Separation between the two places did not reduce their love in each other's hearts. Soon they had the crystallization of love - a lively and lovely daughter.
The beautiful wife and daughter in the family gave Liang Nianhua great relief. He let go of his hands and feet to work in Hangzhou and soon became the youngest official-level cadre in this system.
However, a family storm gradually came to Liang Nianhua. Lu Xiu was born in a family with disagreement with her parents. She has been neglected since childhood and has always hoped for a harmonious, warm and laughing family.
Liang Nianhua gave her gentle love, but the life of not being able to spend time with her makes her feel lonely. Spring goes and autumn comes.
In a feeling of regret, 4 years have passed, and the newly assigned college student Zhang Wei of Cory has finally disrupted her life.
Zhang Wei is two years younger than Lu Xiu, very burly and has a very masculine charm.
He rarely speaks, and his colleagues think he is not good at talking. However, when Zhang Wei and Lu Xiu get along alone, they almost talk about everything, and often compliments Lu Xiu intentionally or unintentionally.
At the beginning, Lu Xiu was a little uncomfortable, and after a long time, she felt particularly excited when she was with Zhang Wei.
One night after Lu Xiu and Zhang Wei met half a year ago, the two worked night shift together in the department. After the lights in the ward turned off, Lu Xiu entered the nurse's lounge and wanted to make up the bed.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Wei also stepped forward. Before Lu Xiu could recover, Zhang Wei had already hugged her tightly. At this moment, Lu Xiu's emotional defense was collapsing little by little, allowing Zhang Wei to kiss...
Since then, Zhang Wei has become a regular visitor to Lu Xiu's family. Under the nightfall, many places with few people around the city have left their memories of being in love.
Lu Xiu initially felt that she was sorry for Liang Nianhua and for her purest feelings. When she was alone in calm thoughts, she also made up her mind to break off her personal relationship with Zhang Wei many times.
But what made her herself feel terrible was that the emotional "wild horse" deep in life had broken away from the "reins" of reason. As soon as Zhang Wei appeared in front of her, she would be as if she was possessed and could not control herself.
There is no airtight wall. Soon, the mother-in-law who helped Lu Xiu take care of the children, neighbors and colleagues in the same department of the hospital had noticed the private affair between Lu Xiu and Zhang Wei.
Just as Lu Xiu was walking further and further along the road, Liang Nianhua was "successful" in his career. Just after the Spring Festival in 1987, the leader of the unit decided to send him to Beijing to study for a year!
Liang Nianhua happily took half a month off, went home to reunite with his wife and told him that he would go to Beijing to study.
His mother was anxious. The next day after Lu Xiu went to work, she revealed Lu Xiu's affairs to her son. Liang Nianhua heard it as if he suddenly heard a huge thunder in Daqing, and his mind was "blank".
That night, Liang Nianhua and Lu Xiu talked with each other heart-to-heart. Finally, he said: "You make your own decision whether to divorce or to sever your personal relationship."
Lu Xiu heard the word "divorce", ashamed, guilty, sad... all kinds of emotions surged into his heart. At this moment, Lu Xiu was facing her husband who was hurt by her, and she burst into tears of regret. She repeatedly asked her husband for forgiveness, and promised that she would no longer have an affair with Zhang Wei in the future, and would wholeheartedly manage her family and take care of her children.
Liang Nianhua is a person who values love and soft-hearted. He couldn't stand Lu Xiu's tears, nor did he want to make his daughter suffer because of the changes in his parents' marriage. He finally decided to forgive his wife.
But he issued an "ultimatum" to Lu Xiu before going to Beijing: If he finds out that she has an affair with Zhang Wei again, the two will divorce immediately.
After bidding farewell to her husband who went to Beijing, Lu Xiu vowed not to do anything to be sorry for Liang Nianhua, but unexpectedly, Zhang Wei vowed to marry Lu Xiu as his wife.
The two of them work in the same department and meet each other almost every day. Zhang Wei handed love letters to Lu Xiu in the department every few days. Many nights, when the night gets darker, Zhang Wei immediately went to Lu Xiu's door to wait for her to open the door, sometimes waiting for several hours without leaving.
Lu Xiu was afraid of being discovered by his neighbors, so he had to open the door. After a few months of such days, under Zhang Wei's tough and passionate offensive, Lu Xiu's rationality once again broke out of control...
Time passed by a year in people's respective expectations and struggles. In 1988, Liang Nianhua returned to Hangzhou. And at this time he was in a dilemma.
He once again knew that Lu Xiu’s affair with others had not been terminated, and as the key target of training for the unit, divorce was undoubtedly a "risk".
Therefore, he did not want to go to court, so he could only hope that Lu Xiu could negotiate a divorce with him.
However, when Liang Nianhua asked Lu Xiu to negotiate a divorce, Lu Xiu firmly disagreed and promised that he would never have any other affair with Zhang Wei in the future.
Liang Nianhua, in deep pain, no longer dared to believe Lu Xiu. He asked his mother to take his daughter back to his hometown, and he lived a separation with Lu Xiu.
After Liang Nianhua took this step, Lu Xiu was also a little relieved.
However, at this moment, Zhang Wei, who once loved her so much that he had a girlfriend and began to alienate her.
Zhang Wei's move gave Lu Xiu a blow! It is unacceptable to being abandoned by her husband and "lover" at the same time.
Spring Festival in 1988, Lu Xiu once again came to Liang Nianhua's residence in Hangzhou. After Liang Nianhua let her into the house, she went out if she had something to do.
bored, the phone ring suddenly rang, and Lu Xiu fought for the microphone, and a sweet voice came from it: "Is Section Chief Liang here?" Lu Xiu suddenly became jealous and said, "No!" She hung up the phone heavily.
Liang Nianhua has been out for more than 4 hours. Lu Xiu's thoughts are turning around and he is restless: Liang Nianhua is handsome and capable, and has a promising future. Once divorced, I wonder how many people will pursue him. How can such a good husband give up someone?
thought about it for a long time, and Lu Xiu had an idea.
Lu Xiu found Liang Nianhua's leader. He sued Liang Nianhua in tears - he returned from studying in Beijing and had a high status, so he didn't want her, a "wife".
does not mention any of their hidden information and mistakes. Lu Xiu's move indeed made Liang Nianhua resist for a while.
A month later, the leader decided to let Liang Nianhua go to the grassroots level to exercise for a period of time and transferred Liang Nianhua to his wife. This arrangement on the organization of
is undoubtedly a major blow to Liang Nianhua. Liang Nianhua is a man after all, and he is unwilling to give up his wife's fault to excuse himself.
After arriving at the new unit, Liang Nianhua worked hard. Usually, Liang Nianhua lives in the dormitory of the unit. Although he is very close to home, he does not want to go back.
Lu Xiuhe's home gave him an unbearable sense of shame.
Every weekend, Liang Nianhua would take a jeep to the grassroots places in each township and village to conduct a survey on the current situation of economic development and agricultural development.
Liang Nianhua worked very hard, and it was often late at night. He also held meetings with grassroots cadres to discuss the details of each work. The next morning, he got on the jeep with red eyes and rushed to another township with bumpy eyes.
The family's accident hit Liang Nianhua a big blow. When he devoted himself to work, he was also subconsciously avoiding his marriage.
lost the east corner, and won the mud. Soon, as a young cadre sent from the provincial capital, Liang Nianhua won a good reputation from all over the country, and Liang Nianhua became a member of the first echelon of cadre selection.
Lu Xiu looked at Liang Nianhua as he was close at hand, but he refused to go home, which made her feel like she was a "widow".
She took her daughter to find Liang Nianhua, but was repeatedly rejected by Liang Nianhua on the grounds that she was busy with work.
Once, Lu Xiu shed tears in front of Liang Nianhua: "Liang Nianhua, remember the night we got engaged, you once swore: Never hurt or neglect me.
Then I made up my mind to hand over this heart that was afraid of the cracks in marriage to you. We used to be so loving! Yes, later, I did something wrong, but you only know how much did you think about it for me?
Although I have always been independent, I am a woman and I also need men's comfort and comfort! Have you given me these? "
The kind-hearted Liang Nianhua looked at Lu Xiu's tears and couldn't help but wet her eyes: "Don't she want to have a harmonious home? But why did it go to such a state of trouble? "
Liang Nianhua didn't know whose fault it was, but his upset emotions made him unable to face it. He did not mention the "divorce" incident, and the family was calm on the surface.
Two years later, Liang Nianhua was transferred back to Hangzhou and promoted to deputy director.
The night before leaving, Liang Nianhua returned home. Lu Xiu was surprised and happy, and she was brisk in her hands and feet. Busy around the room.
Liang Nianhua felt a little sad. Our home should be so peaceful! Looking at Lu Xiu, Liang Nianhua's heart softened little by little. Perhaps the past should be forgotten.
That night, Liang Nianhua did not leave. When Lu Xiu was so excited that his hands trembled, a long-lost feeling surged into his heart. Liang Nianhua said tremblingly: "Lu Xiu, let's start over! "……
After the matter was finished, Lu Xiu hugged Liang Nianhua and cried with grievance and happiness. They hugged each other, and Lu Xiu slowly fell asleep.
Liang Nianhua couldn't fall asleep. With the hazy light, looking at Lu Xiu's small and delicate face, Liang Nianhua felt a little ache in his heart and was a little excited. He found that he still loved her.
Liang Nianhua couldn't help but kiss her. Lu Xiu turned over and murmured, "Zhang Wei, kiss me again! "
Blood instantly froze in Liang Nianhua's brain. He pulled Lu Xiu in his sleep, cursed the most ugly words he cursed in his life, and threw Lu Xiu heavily on the bed... The relationship that had slowly melted over the past two years was frozen again.
After returning to Hangzhou, Liang Nianhua rarely called Lu Xiu, let alone went back to see her.
Once the hospital sent Lu Xiu to Hangzhou on a business trip. After she finished her work, she bought a bunch of exquisite food and came to Liang Nianhua's residence.
Liang Nianhua watched Lu Xiu walk in and out of the kitchen in silence. It was not until she finished everything that she said, "You eat it yourself. I have social engagements, and you will go out immediately. "
Lu Xiu changed his face: "What does this mean? I have been busy with you for a whole day and I got this sentence? "
Liang Nianhua burst out in an instant: "You have only paid for me for a day, but I can't stand my neglect. But I have worked hard for so many years, just for this family, for you and your children? But what did I get? There is only betrayal and harm. Have you ever experienced my feelings? "
Liang Nianhua slammed the door and left. Lu Xiu's heart cooled down a little. He returned to the hospital dormitory compound in a daze, and walked towards him a loving couple. When he thought of his husband, Lu Xiu was very sad.
When she approached, she saw clearly that it was Zhang Wei and his newlywed wife! Zhang Wei stared at his beautiful wife with the affectionate eyes that had once watched Lu Xiu, and did not pay attention to Lu Xiu who passed by.
Lu Xiu's heart felt like a knife cut.
His heart had created a "accidental" of working on night shift together several times, Zhang Wei, who was already in love, got inseparable from her. Come. One night in May 1991, Liang Nianhua got off the car on his way back to Hangzhou. When he opened the door, the scene in front of him made him angry. His wife was sleeping with Zhang Wei!
Liang Nianhua couldn't help but call Zhang Wei's wife... The hidden feelings between Lu Xiu and Zhang Wei were exposed in front of everyone.
people had all the evidence. Liang Nianhua, who could not bear it, immediately wrote a divorce complaint and handed it to the court, which also washed away the "crime" of being tired of the new and old.
10 years of marriage came to an end, and the court sentenced his daughter to Liang Nianhua.
My daughter looked at her father packing her clothes for her with horror. When she left the house, she ran back and hugged Lu Xiu: "Mom, I want dad, I want you too, don't separate, okay? Please!"
As if seeing her childhood self, Lu Xiu couldn't help crying and kissing her daughter's tearful little face: "Yuanyuan, mom can't bear to part with you!" Lu Xiu's true feelings for her daughter torn apart Liang Nianhua's heart...
Finally, they reached an agreement to let the 8-year-old daughter stay with her mother for a while, and then go to Hangzhou to live with her father in two years.
Lu Xiu cleaned up his chaotic state of mind for the first time and took good care of his daughter. During her weekly call with Liang Nianhua, she carefully described every small change in her daughter.
Once, Liang Nianhua went to Guangzhou for half a month on a business trip. As soon as he came back, he heard from his colleagues that Lu Xiu had already made seven or eight calls in a hurry. His daughter had a cold and turned into acute pneumonia, and she almost became dangerous due to delayed treatment.
Liang Nianhua hurriedly asked for leave. In the ward, Lu Xiu took care of her daughter for several days and her hair was messy. When she saw Liang Nianhua, she couldn't help but shed tears: "If Yuanyuan had any good things, I really couldn't live!" Liang Nianhua was quite moved by her efforts. He comforted Lu Xiu and accompanied her daughter for several days.
daughter brought the two closer together. After the divorce, Liang Nianhua lost the burden of her heart. She dated Lu Xiu calmly, giving her a friend-like care and sincerity.
Even after the divorce, the hospital where Lu Xiu was originally going to deal with her, but Liang Nianhua immediately found the hospital leader and begged to give Lu Xiu a chance.
Liang Nianhua's "performance" made Lu Xiu, who was lonely and sad, move his heart. She felt that Liang Nianhua still had feelings for her, and in this world, he was the one who really cared for and loved her.
From then on, Lu Xiu gradually had the idea of "remarrying", and this wish became increasingly strong. She was very calm when she came into contact with Liang Nianhua on the surface, and had no other expressions or requirements except to express some concern to him in life.
Every time Liang Nianhua comes to visit her daughter, Lu Xiu always looks for excuses to let Liang Nianhua stay and take care of her daughter. She either lives in the hospital or goes to a friend’s house.
1994, she went to other places several times for travel, and always asked Liang Nianhua to take leave to take care of her daughter and let her eat and live in her house.
and Liang Nian Huawei takes care of her daughter, and under the premise of living in the same room as Lu Xiu, he also agreed to Lu Xiu. Moreover, Liang Nianhua is also pleased that she and Lu Xiu can still treat each other sincerely after divorce.
Lu Xiu and Liang Nianhua lived together peacefully for three years. Until October 1995, his daughter, who had lived in Hangzhou, wrote a letter to Lu Xiu.
letter says: Dad and an aunt are preparing to get married.
Lu Xiu was shocked. The next day, she boarded the train to Hangzhou. At this time, Liang Nianhua had already divided a new house. After receiving a call from Lu Xiu's daughter, he was afraid that she would not be able to find her, so he agreed with his girlfriend to pick her up together.
However, Liang Nianhua's kind behavior made Lu Xiu jealous and even more confused.
When she saw Liang Nianhua pick her up with her beautiful young girlfriend, she felt that Liang Nianhua was "demonstrating" to her and lost her demeanor. When she arrived at Liang Nianhua's new house, she threw out the so-called fact that Liang Nianhua had been living with her after the divorce.
Liang Nianhua's girlfriend was stunned when she heard this, and then she burst into tears with sadness. At this time, Liang Nianhua was so angry that she trembled all over and slapped Lu Xiu in the face in anger.
Liang Nianhua took action, and Lu Xiu became even more unwilling to accept it. He asked Liang Nianhua to make a choice within one week. If she did not agree to "remarry", she would go to the head of the unit and her superiors to sue him for "illegal cohabitation".
Liang Nianhua flatly refused. Lu Xiu was not surprised by this. She knew that there was only one way to make Liang Nianhua turn back, that was to bet on his "work".
Lu Xiu wrote a document about her continued living together after her divorce from Liang Nianhua, and copied many copies and sent them to Liang Nianhua's unit and the leaders at the next level respectively.
After this material was brought to these leaders, it did put huge pressure on Liang Nianhua. He is the target of training and use in the organization. Such unknown problems are fatal to him.
But at this time, Liang Nianhua could no longer bear it, and he resolutely married his girlfriend.
Things have developed to this point, and the battle between Liang Nianhua and Lu Xiu is far from over.
Lu Xiu came to Liang Nianhua's house and unit many times in the next year, asking Liang Nianhua to divorce and remarry him. Gradually, the unit and people around him understood the truth of the matter and sneered at Lu Xiu.
After being treated unfairly by Lu Xiu, he stabbed Liang Nianhua in the heart at around 6 pm on August 15, 1997.
Not long after, Lu Xiu walked onto the execution ground, while Liang Nianhua's wife raised Yuanyuan alone with a big belly...
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extramarital affair is like a poppy blooming in the dark night, beautiful and charming but strongly toxic.
It is like a plague. Once it breaks out, it will be a devastating disaster. No man, woman, lover, or family can escape this disaster.
Because of the dullness of marriage, both parties or one party are eager to break out of the siege to feel the fresh world outside, but because of the ties of responsibility, there are still many feelings that cannot be lost.
For example, children, parents and other family affection have nowhere to be stored, and they cannot give up the couple's love for many years.
So the person who cannot get out of the marriage siege can only find a little stimulation of extramarital affairs, so that his anxious heart can relax a little and find some sustenance for his lonely heart.
However, "extramarital affair" is a road of no return. On the road of "extramarital affair", the more stubborn you move forward, the more serious the crisis will accumulate, and the less relaxed each other will be.
Think about it, the two of them originally wanted to find a kind of relief outside the siege, but they walked into another more painful abyss; they originally wanted to seek spiritual comfort, but they put heavy shackles on themselves.
So, when the temptation of extramarital marriage comes, don’t be confused. Learn to think, be calm, and make rational judgments about what you “want” and “what you can get”.
Otherwise, in the end, all the pain can only be paid by yourself.
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