has been working hard in Shanghai for so many years. As long as I have the opportunity to come into contact with industry leaders and people with extremely high emotional intelligence, I will explore some of their social skills from them, and then record it in my mobile phone memo to remind myself at all times. After so many years, I have remembered my notes. Today I want to share my own learning achievements with you without reservation. I hope that after reading them carefully, I can also play a role in your career and social initiation.
First point: bragging with strangers and crying with acquaintances.
Many people are actually doing it the other way around. When you first meet someone, exaggerating your strength can win more trust. After all, everyone loves to be friends with people who are stronger than you. Crying poor in front of an acquaintance is to avoid the other party's jealousy, stabbing the knife in the back and becoming the target of public criticism in the circle.
The second point is to exchange for a 3,000-yuan meal for a 300-yuan meal for a 300-yuan meal for a 10-yuan meal.
Because you don’t necessarily remember who you have ever invited you to a meal, but you will definitely remember who is always treating you to a meal. If you want to get something done, it is not just throwing it out at once, but meeting it at the easiest time every time. I am here to increase my intimacy and make polite and restrained, and the social gatherings become a good nature to make friends.
Fourth point: When you visit someone else's house, you must bring gifts.
brings red wine at dinner, brings aromatherapy when moving in the house, celebrates giving birth to a baby and sends the mother to her own things to her while being very popular. The fifth point is to give benefits before asking someone to do things.
didn't give anything, just open your mouth first and have to help, the probability of being rejected will be very high. Whether he can do something depends on whether he has the benefits you give. When the other party asks for it directly, the whole nature and price will change.
The sixth point is technical problems. Never take the initiative to guide you before others ask you for advice.
Because no one likes to passively accept other people's fingers and don't let your value become worthless.
The seventh point does not hide the light of the boss.
Don’t look smarter than your boss in public. Remember, leaders like sensible and smart employees, always ranked first.
The eighth point does not bargain with the underlying workers, and do not bargain if you don’t ask for a price all over the place. Just like a decoration worker and a cleaning aunt, if you make hard money or have less profit, then the amount of money you earn will definitely be given to you and will be dug back in terms of technology.
: ninth point, don’t complain about the bad things of the former boss during the interview. Otherwise, the examiner will have a sharp decline in his favorability towards you.
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The tenth point, don’t participate in the dinner toast with the boss. Just look at the boss's eyes and toast. Don't make any decisions, because you don't know who is the boss's mortal enemy, so be careful to hit the gun.
The eleventh point is that this set is only suitable for men. If you don’t smoke, you must bring a pack of cigarettes on your body.
Because when you encounter a difficult security guard or business in your life, it is actually just a matter of issuing a cigarette to make it convenient.
At the twelfth point, I said anger and counted silently for three seconds before speaking.
can avoid many disasters that come from the mouth. This is the rule before countless big guys speak.
The thirteenth point is three steps away, without wealth, without showing your figure or wealth.
Social three-tube, keep your mouth, look, and emotions. At the 14th point, if the other party does not agree readily, it is equivalent to refusal.
Don’t ask him repeatedly, don’t let the other party think you are having a hard time. Keep your personal favor and use it next time. On the fifteenth point, never complain about your family affairs and work in your circle of friends.
Don’t be caught by competitors in your little braid. If you don’t believe it, go and see it. My circle of friends can hardly see any of his emotions on his circle of friends.
Point 16: When meeting different people at work, respect the other party and the other party’s views when discussing the deadlock. End the topic quickly and don’t make things difficult for yourself in your career.
On the seventeenth point, do not eat the last piece of dish on the plate when having a dinner out. This is the most basic way to respect the elders present.
The 18th point, never joke about other people’s flaws. The other party’s self-deprecating does not mean that he agrees to say it out of your mouth. 19: If you want to invite people who are more sensitive to the industry to have dinner and do business, such as in the industry that refuses to give gifts and choose a place in the public industry, try to ask the other party what he means first and don’t choose it yourself, because the trick here is too deep, and the designated restaurant is the chain of interests of others.
Point 20: When you pay the bill, don’t be surprised when you see the bill. Why is it so expensive? Remember, the more expensive it is, the greater the chance of things being done. The second is a dinner party that you encounter by chance. No matter how others invite you, don’t go to it. If the other party really wants to invite you, you will never wait until this time. Don’t take politeness as sincere, otherwise you will be the only one who is embarrassed. The 21st minute, if you are accustomed to a meal today, you will invite someone you are not familiar with. Be sure to pay in advance without silence and do not call the waiter to the table. This is the most basic politeness to the people present. The above 21 items are the practical things I have compiled after using them for several years. I have a lot of knowledge points in this issue. I will slowly absorb them. After reading them every day, we will make progress together.
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