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Sister Lu Jin: I didn’t expect that one day I would also type these words and tell you.
My husband and I were in our early 30s. In 2012, I met him during a summer vacation with my roommate. My roommate was his cousin. I married him after graduation, and my daughter is 7 years old. He is basically in charge of all things at home, and I mainly take care of the children.
Before 2018, we all had their own jobs in the county town. They earned a lot, and I could use it myself. In 2017, I went to the city to buy a house (he and his parents took money, but I didn’t have any deposits). My name was on the property certificate, , 1.1 million , , , and , , mortgage loan is less than two years away .
In the second half of 18, the family of three moved to the city. In the past four years, I have changed several jobs, but they haven’t worked for a long time. I always feel that there is a way out and want to spend more time with my children. Finally, I help my husband manage the online store at home, and he is in charge of the money. The problem of
was exposed this month, and in retrospect, there were already signs in July.
In July, his cousin was the roommate who brought his children to my house for a week. After returning, the two of them frequently contacted each other. They had never had it before. I also heard a lot of contacts. She and her husband were in debt of hundreds of thousands of yuan to sell their house for divorce. They came to ask him at all details, occasionally complaining about her marriage life to me, and even asking me what I thought. She also said that after her divorce, she had no relatives and friends to move back to the city here.
Starting from October, large packages were sent to my house one after another. I took it for granted that I thought she put the things in my house first, and then rented a house and moved out. More than a dozen bags were sent in front and behind.
He told me from time to time that he would ask her to help manage the online store. I just listen to it. She said that she is such a strong person, and it seems impossible to pay her a lot of salary.
Until the end of October, she brought her daughter to my house as soon as she came. I started doing things the next day, and I was like a fool, kept in the dark. He said that if you have someone to help you, you won’t be so tired. You will do whatever you want, otherwise you can’t go anywhere you want. I listened too. It's so easy to cheat.
day by day, the words and behaviors of the two people have made me think too much. When he served her leftover food and ate it without any scruples, I was angry for the first time.
At that time, I just felt that he had no sense of boundaries, but I didn’t know that the two of them had already been incest. I actually hope that I will accept such a relationship.
When I knew all this clearly, I cried bitterly, hysterically, and trembled when I spoke, in the face of my questioning, he was more silent. She looked righteous and said that it was for his own good, and said that he didn't want me to leave, and told her not to leave. Oh, it's a new height.
Now she still lives in my house with peace of mind. The two of them are like nothing happened, chatting and doing things, ignoring my existence.
I thought about exposing their relatives to see them betrayal.
I want to hear your opinions and readers’ scoldings, and I also want to get some rational guidance. How to divorce this marriage?
I read several of your yellow mailboxes, "The hostess is not a paper": If you don't have the ability to deal with storms but have a clean obsession with marriage, you will really die. Although the big-breasted girl in the countryside cannot be underestimated, she is so overwhelmed by her chatting and laughing with her husband in your living room. You are too failure.
Letter from a failed woman
Sister Lu Zhishen · Reply
Everyone knows that I am more grateful for human nature, but the behavior of your husband and his cousin cannot be forgiven. They are just a couple of dogs and women who have committed many taboos in the world, such as friends and husbands, try not to play; within three generations, you can't mess around. The most serious thing is to treat your wife as stupid as possible. This is to scatter and pee on your head.
I want to go to your house to lift the table.
But now you have to change your mind, so there is no need to make noise or make trouble. Treat yourself as a goddess of vengeance, an investigative reporter, and collect evidence of the behavior of dogs and men.
After going to court, the judge will ask: What about the evidence if you say they have an affair?
You can prepare evidence now, including but not limited to the WeChat and telephone contact between them. Their behavior at your home can be photographed by your mobile phone. As for how to shoot to avoid attracting their attention, I think there is a flame of revenge in your heart, and you will be extremely intelligent.
Evidence of WeChat communication depends on peeking and seduction. A proud person would not have looked at his partner's phone. A friend of mine has endured this kind of pride for several years. Such a noble person could not help it later. When the other party was drunk, he looked at his phone and found out everything. She just lets herself recognize the facts, but you have to use it for lawsuits.
All phones have passwords, right? I'll tell you a trick I've heard. First create an atmosphere of thinking without noise or quarrel, so that they think you may accept it. You must also make people feel that it is easy to bully, otherwise how could someone do this? Then just calm down.
When you and your husband are at home, it is best if he sits on the sofa and watch TV. You can find an excuse to send him a WeChat message, such as what to eat at night, or when she leaves.
Then sit on the sofa, don't have to be too close, turn on the shooting and take a picture of his unlocked password. ——Not to say that you can’t do it, you can learn from it and find opportunities.
Then, pretending to be in pain, pull him out to drink, and get him drunk. Then, he flipped through his cell phone, took the evidence, and forwarded it to himself, double insurance.
Then you can "talk heart" with the woman, tell her pain, be puzzled, and curse her, and record her phone on. When she says it's "for your good" again, this can also be used as evidence.
do all this mainly so that you can continue to live in this house. It means that you are sympathetic to you, otherwise, you should not buy the house, so you should leave the house with nothing.
The house has your name and was bought during marriage. It is a real joint property of the couple. The money and mortgage are half the money and mortgage. The key is who leaves the house. The money for opening an online store is all his place. It is very difficult for you to ask him for money. Your goal is to custody the child and let him leave the house. The money earned is bet against the money he gives to him, and he will give to you, and he will not give to you or you.
In addition, find a way to get the transfer records between them. If there is a company, check the company's account. If there is no company, find a way to check the husband's account. What should I do according to your family's situation? All the money he gave to the woman infringes on your wife's rights and interests and can be brought back in court.
In court, the judges have seen many marriages, but there should not be many people who come to their homes with mistresses. You have already felt sympathy and don’t speak. In this case, the table must be turned on in the end. However, it takes strength to turn over the table, so you have to make some compensation for yourself.
I have said many times that our country's laws lack protection for full-time housewives. You are not full-time housewives, but you always feel that you have a support, and you probably don't care about your work after changing it.
Dogs and men just think you don’t have the power to fight back!
all over the body, goal: house, child! Defeat them with a mood of living to death!
Author: Lu Jin Radio host/columnist
Cover image Author: Alice Lindstrom
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