people will only become more and more affectionate. has gradually become more and more lively because of vicissitudes. People will gradually become more and more stingy when they live. has seen through the various aspects of the world, so they no longer meddled in other people's business.
When it comes to being affectionate and stingy, many people may be disdainful and think that this approach is narrow. But in fact, when a person reaches a certain age, he will eventually have to do with indifference and stinginess.
A bad guy is very generous, and there may not be any good results. Honest people are also quite generous, but who knew that they were treated as an ATM and ended up losing both their money and losing money.
is just like the farmer in "The Farmer and the Snake". He kindly saved the snake's life and accepted it "gracefully". Who knew that the snake bit the back and killed the farmer.
people's hearts are even more terrifying than snakes. As long as we are a little careless and blind and generous, it is easy to get a bargain for ungrateful wolves who don’t know how to be grateful, and ungrateful wolves will also destroy bridges and will not do anything good to us.
" I will be looking to the bright moon , but the bright moon shines on the ditches" is the reason. When people get old, they may live a little better for themselves and to get rid of the entanglement of greedy villains.
If people are generous, they will cause trouble. If you are stingy with these people after the age of fifty, it means that you are more mature than ordinary people.
1. Spicy towards the people who " morally kidnapped ".
In recent years, there has been a word that has been frequently flooding the screen, that is "moral kidnapping" .
Your relative asks you to borrow money to help him, you have a little hesitation. Who knows that he kidnapped you with family affection or some great principles, and you are afraid that this relationship will be affected, so you accepted their "family kidnapped" .
A friend of yours comes to ask for your help, you are not happy. What you didn't expect was that he was selling miserable to you and told you that something was bad and where it was difficult. If you don't help, you would be unkind. So you still surrender to them.
has been living in the world for many years and has seen the villain who is used to "moral kidnapping", so he can see through the truth: All moral kidnappers who like to sing high-profile are mostly hypocrites who are hypocritical.
For hypocrites, smart people have only one way to do it, that is, "reject cruelly" . What he said is his business, and what we do is our business, and we don’t have to pay attention to the words of these people at all.
people's generosity and generosity can be left to the relatives who love us, but they must not be left to the villain who is morally kidnapped.
2. Spicy towards people who "do not know how to be grateful".
When I was a child, my elders always told us that those who are grateful for their kindness are worth dating with it.
At that time, I didn’t understand why others know how to be grateful and it is worth dating with it? Could it be that this "gratitude" is really a scarce quality?
Later, after seeing the world, I suddenly realized what "It is hard to find someone who is grateful, but it is easy to find someone who is unfaithful" . It is rare for people who know how to be grateful. But the unfaithful man is basically everywhere.
We have given feelings to some relatives and friends, but we never thought that it would be disappointed by others; we helped some relatives, but who knew that these relatives would not pay back the money and even hated us.
Thank you, I don’t know when it started to become something even scarier than gold. Perhaps, it is not that gratitude is scarce, but that there are many people who don’t know how to be grateful, so we live numb.
The most obvious feature of mature people is that "if you need to break, you will break". You do not hesitate to those who are unfaithful, but stay away from them cruelly and abandon the so-called false feelings.
3. Spicy towards people who are "shameful".
There is a pair of brothers in a certain family. The eldest brother is relatively rich, while the younger brother has no money. Therefore, my younger brother often asks for help from my elder brother. However, when my elder brother helped him, he still complained secretly, why did my elder brother be so rich but I don’t have money? Unfair.
With this idea, The younger brother was not very happy when he heard that his elder brother was doing well. When he heard that there was something wrong with his elder brother's business, he was very happy and even more excited than he made money.
Slowly, his mental state changed from "envious" to "resentment".
Big brother also discovered something wrong with his younger brother. After several battles, the two of them stopped interacting, and their brothers eventually became strangers who were particularly disgusted.
The closer a person is, the more likely he is to develop a "shameful" mentality. This shameful mentality is actually closely related to the "comparative nature" in human nature. People, without comparison, will not hurt each other.
No matter how kind you are, you should be stingy with these "shameful" people. Your goodness will become the root cause of others targeting you.
4. Stingy towards people who are "filled with all their mouths".
There will be no real people in the world, but there will definitely be no people who are "filled with their mouths".
Some people are particularly good at talking and fooling people. The purpose of their fooling people is to gain the trust of others and to earn their benefits.
This is particularly common in the business field. Some people talk to others everywhere in order to sell their products or to promote their projects, and they talk endlessly, hoping that it is convincing.
If you encounter a smart and sophisticated old world, and others can see through their tricks at a glance, their purpose will be lost. And if they meet people who are unreasonable, they will achieve their goal.
For example, if someone comes to you and fools you into investing in a certain project, he also states that the proportion of returns is particularly high, which makes people excited. In this way, do you believe it or don’t?
In fact, does not have free lunch at the end of the day. Others’ deceptions and deceptions are just to seek their own money. For these people, you should not be generous, you can only be stingy.
text/Shushan Youlu
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