Introduction
Love is a beautiful thing. If you insist on doing things that you insist on regardless of your family’s opposition, you may pay a heavy price for your own insistence in the future.
What this article will tell of is also what happened around me, and once again interprets that the outside world is not wonderful, and the people you see may not be consistent with reality.
You must have a deep relationship for a period of time when looking for a partner. The process of interaction is a process of choosing between the two parties, and there is a person who truly suits you. Only by being able to interact in the long term. It is not possible to suffer huge losses when you get it.
Liu Ting took over the black son-in-law, but was rejected by the Liu family
Liu Qiang and I are friends who grew up since childhood. There is also an older sister on top of Liu Qiang, which is today's protagonist. Her name is Liu Ting, who is three years older than Liu Qiang.
Liu Qiang and I have been dating since childhood until now. The relationship has always been good, and Liu Qiang is willing to tell me everything. After all, after so many years of friendship, we all know the situation at both families.
In 2004, Liu Qiang's sister Liu Ting dropped out of school before she finished high school. It was very simple to be willing, but the family couldn't afford it and her sister's tuition was already paid. She wanted to leave the opportunity to go to school to her younger brother.
After Liu Ting dropped out of school, she went directly to Guangdong to work. In that era, it was still very popular to enter an electronics factory. In this way, Liu Ting used the money from her work to support her younger brother Liu Qiang to school.
Until Liu Qiang graduated from university, his sister was already 25 years old after Liu Qiang graduated from university. If a 25-year-old woman in the countryside did not get married, she would be laughed at by others. His family also started to find a partner to get married for Liu Ting.
didn't expect that when Liu Ting was working, she already had a boyfriend, but she didn't tell her family that she was introducing her boyfriend to Liu Ting, but Liu Ting disagreed. Say it's your own business, you'll do it yourself.
His home. I didn't participate too much in this matter, and felt that my daughter had grown up and I had to make a decision on such things. During the Spring Festival in 2011, Liu Ting returned from Guangdong.
came back this time and brought a boyfriend, but this boyfriend is not the same as everyone else, and everyone else has yellow skin. When Liu Ting brought back this boyfriend's dark skin, she also caused a sensation in the whole village.
After all, in the rural areas at that time, black people were rarely seen. The family also entertained this black African son-in-law as usual. When talking about the final marriage, the Liu family didn't agree.
On the one hand, I think Africa is very far away and I don’t want my daughter to marry so far away. On the other hand, I don’t know much about the family conditions of the black son-in-law. It’s still a matter of good fortune or misfortune.
Of course, Liu Ting showed that she liked this black man very much. He told his parents that Asa, the black man, had very good conditions in Africa and had a mine at home. They were all famous local rich people in their local area.
Assa also affirmed what Liu Ting said, saying that in their local area, his family’s financial conditions are very good. If Liu Ting gives him it, don’t worry and swear that he will be kind to Liu Ting in his life.
After repeated persuasion from his daughter, the Liu family still disagreed with such a marriage, because at that time, few people could marry so far away, and more were reluctant to part with their daughter.
At this time, Liu Ting told her parents about the shocking explosion, that is, she is now pregnant with the black Asa's child, and after the New Year, she will go to Africa to live. The explosion of
suddenly made the Liu family at a loss. The other people in the village were all showing the appearance of the melon-eating crowd at this time. After all, this is the first time such a thing has happened in our village.
The Liu family has not had a good year this year, just because they are worried about their daughter's marriage.At that time, Liu Qiang also told me, let me gather a few people to get this black man together and let the black man leave his sister as soon as possible.
I also brought a few people to find trouble back then, but Liu Qiang's sister has always been next to the black people, so there really is no chance. After the second day of the Lunar New Year, the two set off for Guangdong together.
Before leaving, the black man gave the Liu family 20,000 yuan, saying that he would take Liu Ting back to his country and go and have a look. Then I invite you to their country together. After saying that, he left. I don't care about my parents' opposition.
Liu Ting went to Africa to get married and have children
This time, it was also the last time Liu Ting met her family. After leaving home, she took the train to Guangdong first, and then took the plane from Guangdong to Africa.
After going to Africa, Liu Ting called her home crying and said she regretted it. The family members had no choice but to ask their daughter where she was in Africa and where she could not say.
After that, Liu Ting's life in Africa can be described as pitiful. Shortly after he went to Africa, the child was born. It can be seen from the photos he took back.
is a very poor place where my daughter lives. The houses are built in thatched huts. Usually, they can only lie on the door panel to sleep. Every time it rains, most places inside the house are leaking. If you eat, you will not have the last meal after eating. It is common for you to go hungry. After Asa returned to Africa, she hid all her IDs, and she didn't know where she was.
Assa is unwilling to go out to work and is lazy all day long. He did nothing. At that time, he said that there was a mine at home, but in fact, there were indeed a pile of stones behind his home.
Every time Liu Ting wants to come back, she can’t find her ID. In addition, he has no money on him, so he can’t go out even if he wants to go out. The Liu family also wanted to send money to their daughter, but they had no way to send money. No specified card number.
What's more serious is that after Asa married Liu Ting for a year, Asa found a second black wife again, and the second wife was already pregnant. Liu Ting had no choice but to take care of her children while taking care of the black woman.
Moreover, in Liu Ting's opinion, this black woman is not a good thing. After I knew that Liu Ting was a foreigner, she put pressure on Liu Ting everywhere in life, cooking and washing clothes. All the work of raising children was handed over to Liu Ting.
Life is very hard. My friend Liu Qiang also wants to go to Africa to rescue his sister, but he doesn’t know the specific address. When he calls, he turns off the phone many times.
But sometimes, sometimes, I can make a call, and after saying a few words, I will hang up the phone directly. Maybe I am secretly calling, afraid that someone will find out.
Every time Liu Ting calls her home for a very short time. Her family asks where they are in Africa and are planning to bring you back. Every time Liu Ting is unwilling to say that you don’t come, as it will be in vain if you come.
Liu Qiang can be initially determined by the time his sister called, and now she is in a certain country in West Africa . Because once when his sister called, she said she had just gotten up. Early in the morning,
based on this clue, and then checked the time difference problem online. The final result of the query was that my sister was in West Africa. I don’t know which country is the specific one, it is very likely that it is Niger .
How is Liu Ting doing now? Are you back?
Liu Ting has not come back now. It has been 10 years since she married in Africa. Now the number of calls back is getting fewer and fewer. Last year, she made a call.
After 10 years of knowing, Liu Ting gave birth to 6 children and died 2 children. Now I have raised a total of 4 children of my own, and three children of that black woman.It means that Liu Ting raised 7 children alone.
Liu Ting told his parents, "You forgot me, and I'm very likely to be unable to go back in this life. It's been more than a year since then, and I haven't called home."
family dare not tell others about Liu Ting's experience. When others asked, they were their daughters living well in Africa so as not to be laughed at by others.
I am a friend of Liu Qiang who has been playing with since childhood. These are all told to me by Liu Qiang. He thinks that there is a high probability that his sister has already entered the nationality of others and her ID is not around him.
also called quietly, for fear that others would know. His sister did not say the details of the details. The family just knew that her sister was very unhappy in Africa. Often worry about food and clothing.
In fact, his sister may know that he is in a specific place in Africa, but he just didn't tell his family. He was worried that after his family found there, his personal safety would be greatly threatened.
can basically be judged from the tone of his sister's phone call many times that the place where she is now in is very poor in all aspects of public security. People are relatively barbaric, mainly because of safety issues.
to the end
I want to say that marriage is beautiful, if you blindly ignore your parents' opposition. If you insist on marrying a foreigner, you may very likely pay for your impulse. Some countries can still come back after marrying, while others can't come back directly after marrying.
Here is a reminder for those who are in love that to get married, you must have a good understanding of the other party. Being honest and character is very important. Never do things that regret for the rest of your life for a moment of impulse. You said yes!
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