The current marriage is full of dangers. It is not that marriage has become a rebellious horse, but that no one has found a unique way of controlling marriage in this special era.
A marriage of free love is broken as we walk. This is a kind of sadness, and it is even more incredible.
So, how to resolve this kind of marriage tragedy?
There is an example in life that gave me a lot of inspiration -
Many years ago, I was deceived by my best friend to Yulin City in Yan'an to conduct a pyramid scheme. At that time, I had no doubt that my friends would attack me. When I arrived in Yulin City, my friend happily came to the train station to pick me up. When I arrived at my friend’s residence, a heartwarming scene was so shocking that I would never forget, and I still remember it today. What's going on with
? At that time, the driver of the car stopped the car and a group of men and women came up with a spring breeze on their faces. As soon as I got off the car, they rushed to shake hands and greet me, just like a scene of a senior leader coming from afar. What shocked me the most at that time was that when they saw me, they kept calling me before they could speak. After staying up, I found that every day we were together, we were greeted by brothers, brothers, sisters, etc., and that scene made you feel as if the family was really gathering together.
Later, I had no interest in pyramid schemes and insisted on leaving. On the eve of leaving, many senior leaders in the organization made a special trip to try their best to keep me friendly. Finally, when I saw that I was determined to leave, I basically asked me to tell me about my feelings about this long trip. Facing every leader, I have no concealedly praised the family-friendly atmosphere they created in the organization, and I also expressed that I will bring this warm, harmonious, friendly and friendly organizational culture to every work scene I will enter in the future. This may be the greatest encouragement and comfort I have given them. On the occasion of farewell, everyone still called me like I was like when I came and wished me peace.
This time I was deceived by my friends. Although I experienced the pain of running around and the feeling of fear, I also personally experienced the influence of harmonious, warm, peaceful and beautiful souls and spiritual baptism in interpersonal communication. Although my friend continued to apologize to me later on, not only did I not blame him at all, but I had a deep understanding of gains and losses deep in my heart.
Think about it, a pyramid scheme organization can create the relationship between members who are not acquainted from east, west, south and north so friendly and live in harmony. Then why do a couple who made a promise to each other, had a lifelong life, had a deep affection and bondage to run a beautiful marriage more and more fragmented? This is a question worthy of reflection on every couple of men and women in our marriage, and it is also a matter worthy of profound review by men and women who do not cherish their marital status.
In fact, as long as a man and a woman come from a pure and beautiful love, there is no reason to transform marriage into the grave of love.
Dear boys and girls, how should we run a wonderful marriage?
is very easy to say and is quite simple to do - as long as you can develop a habit.
1, change the name of your lover to: Dear.
2. Every night, you must say good night to each other; the first sentence you wake up in the morning must be good morning.
3. Every day, no matter who goes to work first, hello must say hello before going out. Then, those who do not go out must quickly come with a farewell hug gift; no matter who comes in late and returns home, hello must say hello, and then those who go home first quickly come over to come with a welcoming hug gift.
As long as these three things are done, I firmly believe that any civilized, elegant, quiet, and gentle things between husband and wife will naturally come one after another.
A couple, as long as these three things are done, it means that good qualities such as love, respect, care, care, friendship, pity, appreciation, encouragement, promotion, complementarity, etc. will be produced according to the situation.
A couple, if they can be polite and respect each other every day, and can always keep loving and cherish each other, even if they have differences in opinions for daily trivial matters, can the couple still have conflicts and quarrels? If the couple can really give greetings and hugs every day, no matter what is tangled, the couple will still feel resentful. Do you remember to take revenge?
As long as couples really treat greetings and hugs every day as daily homework, how can marriage not last forever?
To be honest, a man and a woman who truly love each other basically show a polite attitude of respecting each other at the beginning. If this etiquette in love can be continued, carried forward, developed a good habit, and brought this habit directly into marriage, carrying the marriage forward, then the marriage will be flawless, bright and long-lasting.
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