For a woman, marriage is equivalent to a second reincarnation. Most of the unfortunate women are because they have an unreliable husband. However, many women may choose to endure for their children, and live a life of fear and no fun.

Introduction: Can

people have a happy life? It depends largely on your partner. A good marriage is like a tiger with wings, while an unfortunate marriage is like a "limited favor".

For a woman, marriage is equivalent to a second reincarnation. Most of the unfortunate women are because they have an unreliable husband.

The most unfortunate thing for a woman is that I think it is not that her husband has an affair, but that it is "domestic violence". However, many women may choose to endure for their children, and live a life of fear and no fun.

Conveyor: 35-year-old Ms. Liu

5 years ago, I accidentally found that he and a woman were chatting in the middle of the night on my ex-husband's phone. The next day, I quietly checked his phone. They flirted with each other. The unsightly content made me feel disgusted. I never thought that my ex-husband would talk to me sweetly every day, saying that he loved me, but he had an ambiguous relationship with other women on his phone.

I am a person who can't tolerate sand in my eyes. I posted the evidence I took to his mobile phone. He quickly admitted that fortunately, we didn't have children at that time, so I simply divorced.

2 years later, I met Liu Dong, who runs a small shop through someone's introduction. His skin is very dark and looks very honest. Although he has divorced twice, as long as I stare at him for a few more seconds, he will even blush.

The first time we met, he stammered to me: "I don't smoke, nor do I like going out for social events. I am not very good at talking, I only know how to work, I don't understand romance, but I am a more realistic person. If you are willing to marry me, I will never treat you badly."

I was moved by his sincerity. He dressed very simply and was not the same type as my ex-husband. I just wanted to find a man who makes me feel safe for the rest of my life.

I did not refuse his confession.

A week later, we officially confirmed our relationship. He was gentle and considerate to me, and spoke softly. No matter how late he was, as long as it was something I wanted to eat, he was willing to get up from the bed and help me buy it outside.

When we were dating for 3 months, one day my friend said to me, "I heard that your boyfriend has divorced twice. There must be problems with such a man. I asked you for some reason. He seems to be domestic violence."

I disagreed with it and said, "Impossible. Liu Dong is a good person and speaks softly. There are several times when I acted like a man, and he coaxed me patiently."

6 months later, Liu Dong and I got a marriage certificate.

3 months after getting married, I felt that Liu Dong seemed to have changed and started to yell at me. When I came back from get off work, I would also pick on my various problems, such as not washing my clothes, not being delicious in the fried food, etc.

I didn't care about him either, until one day, I was completely confused when I was beaten for the first time.

That day, I went to buy groceries and saw a male classmate. We stood together and talked without saying anything. Liu Dong happened to see him. He walked over with a stern face and said: You go back quickly, I'm hungry.

didn't even say hello to my colleague. I thought he was too rude. When I went back, I said a few words to him, but unexpectedly, he suddenly slapped me in the face.

Don’t you know what’s different between men and women? It is so shameless to be a married woman and a man talking and laughing on the street.

I covered my hot face and cried, "Why are you such a person? Let's get divorced!" I walked into the room and packed my luggage. At this time, he knelt in front of me again, slapped himself constantly, saying that he just cared about me too much. He felt uncomfortable when he saw me being with other men. He believed that I had nothing to do with my male classmates.

I am also a person who loves face. Not long after I got married, I got married, and I had no face to go back to my parents' home. This time, I chose to forgive him.

After we had a fight, Liu Dong's attitude towards me was much more relaxed and he took the initiative to help me share the housework. I proposed to go to work outside, but he did not object, saying that I was alone at home, and he felt very distressed, so he only made a request to give him a child as soon as possible.

I also sincerely want to live a good life with him.

Later, life in Liu Dong's store became worse and worse. He came back all day and sighed, and would get angry at me if he didn't feel good. Sometimes when I retort him a few words, he would get angry at me. I always forgave him again and again, because afterwards, he would always apologize to me, saying that he was under great pressure and would be fine after a while.

I trusted him again and again, but what I got was his worsening. Being beaten and scolded has become commonplace. I am just a bun, and I suffer from face. Every time I go back to my parents' home, I force myself to smile, not wanting everyone to worry, nor do I want them to see me in a mess.

Once, at night, my electric car broke down. My male colleague happened to go with me. He said he would take me for a ride, but I didn't think much about it. When I arrived at the door downstairs of my house, I was seen by Liu Dong. As soon as I entered, he pulled my hair and hit the wall, forcing me to tell me when I got along with my male colleague.

I explained that it was a way, and the two had nothing to do with each other, but he didn't listen and tied me to a chair, not letting me sleep for one night, and the next day, I was not allowed to go to work, and I had to quit my job.

I didn't agree, so he tortured me in different ways until I compromised. At that time, I was already discouraged by him. When he met me at night, I felt uncomfortable all over. I didn’t want to be intimate with him. He also said that I was a man with good looks outside, so I was so cold to him.

The colder I am and unwilling to cooperate with him, the more angry he is, and never cares about my feelings. Before I married him, I was cheerful and could take it and let it go. I don’t know why, after I followed him, I became so cowardly. I wanted to change the status quo and end this marriage, but I lost the courage. I didn’t want others to laugh at me. I was already a second marriage and I had nowhere to go after the divorce.

That day, he asked me to go out with him to buy things, but because I was wearing a slim skirt, he said, "You go back and change it quickly, it's not suitable for you. I don't want others to keep staring at you. Women dress so beautifully outside, just to attract other men, and their thinking is wrong.

I have been arguing for a few days, and everyone has a love for beauty.

didn't listen to him, and he suddenly became angry and pulled my hair in front of everyone. My head hit the electric pole on the side of the road. I used to be beaten at home, but I didn't give me any face outside. That day, I completely collapsed and fought with him. As a result, I was beaten to the point of being blue and swollen, and my teeth were knocked off by him.

It was the saddest and most desperate time for me. I made up my mind to divorce him. He still begged me for forgiveness like before, and sweared to promise that I would never get mad at me again. However, this time I was completely dead.

He refused to divorce me, and I would not let him have a good life. On that day, while he was away, I called my ex-husband to his home, rekindled his old love, took the video of his ex-husband entering my room, and asked others to post it to his mobile phone.

After doing this, I packed my luggage and ran away from home, and the phone hung up. This time, even if I paid the price of my life, I would have to break it off with him, and I would not drag it on.

I hid in a small hotel for 15 days and only contacted my parents. My mother told me that Liu Dong was going crazy in order to find me. He knelt in front of my parents for a day and a night, saying that he was sorry for me. He did not blame me for my ex-husband and I, as long as I and him continue to live a good life.

My parents actually advised me to divorce, but I was always ruthless.

A month later, I went home, I just wanted him to taste this uncomfortable feeling. He thought I would be as soft-hearted as before, and I was determined to divorce, and I didn't want to see him for a minute. At this time, I don't want any face. As long as I can get rid of him, I feel that my life still has hope. If I continue to live like this, I will only live in the darkness in this life. After I awaken, I am extremely awake.

Liu Dong was unwilling to divorce me and said that I was his third wife. He really loved me. Seeing him crying so sadly, I felt a sense of pleasure after revenge.

Before, he caught my weakness. Because I loved face, I didn’t want to make ends meet, and wanted to make do with it, so I treated me unscrupulously.

In order to change my mind, Liu Dong even traumatized himself and used a knife to cut his hand to prove his determination. In fact, even if he died for me, I would not shed a single tear or look at him.

Silence is greater than death. When a woman’s heart is cold, she will no longer be able to cover herself.

Conclusion:

domestic violence only has zero and countless times. Many women always wishfully think that as long as they are good enough, they will be able to change that man sooner or later, but this opportunity is very slim.

If there is no child, you should stop the loss in time. Don’t care about face, people have to live for themselves.

If there are children, some women will choose to endure, which will only make their hearts stronger and invulnerable.

In fact, why many women are unwilling to divorce is that they are not confident enough in themselves, have no confidence in their lives after divorce, do not want to make trouble, be content with the status quo, and choose to accept their fate. In the article, Ms. Liu finally woke up after experiencing despair again and again. In fact, taking this step is not as difficult as imagined.

hurts your loved ones, once unintentional, twice intentional, and the third time is shameless; tolerant to the person you love, once generous, twice tolerant, and the third time is ignorance.

Marriage is equivalent to a woman's second reincarnation. Whether a person is happy or not often depends on his partner. Whether it is a first marriage or a remarriage, men with domestic violence must not marry.