What does it feel like if you are not married at the age of thirty?
I am busy with life every day. If I weren’t urging myself to get married or seeing someone in my circle of friends “showing my children”, I really thought I had just graduated.
It was not until someone said to me in surprise:
" You are almost thirty, "
made me truly realize that I was no longer young.
Indeed, thirty years old seems to be a watershed for most people.
And I haven't gotten married at the age of thirty. In the eyes of the previous generation, really seems difficult to understand.
You will gradually discover that many people around you are urging you to "explain"
Maybe I have been accustomed to "only person" for a long time and think that watching movies alone and eating alone is also a good thing.
I have watched a drama before, and there is a sentence in it that touched me a lot:
"I will never settle for love"
I have always believed that a truly happy marriage must be 's three views that match and meet like-minded colleagues with .
is not simple just to make do with it, or to give someone an explanation.
I have talked more or less about several partners over the years, but in the end I was unable to enter the palace of marriage.
My parents also started to get anxious. In recent years, I have arranged several blind dates for me, big and small.
Every time I go home, my parents will ask me about it.
The sentence I fear most is that
is so big, can’t you just put it in a moment?
But the trial and error cost of marriage is obviously so expensive, is it really good to just put it in a moment?
Which one is more terrifying if you don’t get married or not be happy after getting married?
I use a passage I have seen recently to explain it
Marriage is not 1+1=2, but 0.5+0.5=1
Marriage is two imperfect lonely humans, based on the spiritual level of knowing each other and falling in love, so I am willing to rely on each other and dedicate each other in the common secular life.
Miss Xiaojia is in her thirties this year. Her parents are urging her to get married very tightly. Recently, she called and chatted and asked her how good she was recently.
Xiaojia smiled and said, "It's so good." She found that since she came here at the age of 30, his parents, aunts and other things have not urged her much."
She now has a small family and a small car, and lives a very "bashi"
Yes, living alone and two people are different living conditions, and they are also a choice.
I also saw a truth from my relatives and friends around me. people who get married for the sake of getting married are almost all unhappy .
So it’s really nothing to get married at the age of 30. Choosing to get married is really different from choosing who to get married.
In Zhang Ailing , it means
Some people enter your life and will make you feel that the world is worthy and will become your light; while some people will extinguish your light. Therefore, people can be unhappy, but they must be sober in the world.
After all, love is the touchstone of marriage. Only by spending a certain amount of time on it, two people understand each other and understand each other enough, from strangers to knowing the roots, can they finally enter a happy marriage
Maybe one day in the future, I will also hold another person's hand and enter the palace of marriage together.
I hope it must also be done, not because others think it is time, but because I really think it is time.
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