Yang Zi has been a little annoyed these two days because her boyfriend must call her every time he calls her. Once, Yang Zi and his colleague were having lunch outside, and their boyfriend called him. The boyfriend on the other end of the video has not yet gotten up. This scene made the colleague standing next to Yang Zi see it, which makes it very embarrassing.
Afterwards, Yang Zi told her boyfriend that if you have something, just say it on the phone, don’t always call videos if you have something to do. But my boyfriend said that he wanted to watch her videos to see where she is. Besides, playing videos is like meeting her. What's wrong with it? After hearing this, Yang Zi sneered and said to her boyfriend, "You just want to see who I am with, right?"
It turned out that her boyfriend has always been uneasy about Yang Zi because his girlfriend is so outstanding. The youngest person is already the vice president of the company. In addition, Yang Zi also works as a self-media by himself and has many fans online. Once, some fans blocked Yang Zi at the door of the house just to give her a birthday gift. After Yang Zi’s boyfriend learned about it, he felt very unhappy, but it was not easy to have an attack, so he had to endure it.
Look at my boyfriend again, he is just an employee of an Internet company. His workload is not too large, and he is not very motivated. He felt that the gap between him and Yang Zi was getting bigger and bigger, and he was worried that Yang Zi would be taken away by others, so he sometimes wanted to call Yang Zi for video. With so many such situations, Yang Zi began to get annoyed. She once complained in her circle of friends that she had found a 502 boyfriend who was stuck to her every day and couldn't even get rid of her.
The conflict between the two was due to video calls. Yang Zi was holding a business meeting that day, and her boyfriend's video call came. Yang Zi quickly hung up the phone, but the other party called reluctantly. Yang Zi was about to turn off the phone, but the boss said, maybe there was something urgent, so it would be better to take it, otherwise Yang Zi would be uneasy to start this business.
So Yang Zi had to answer the phone. Unexpectedly, as soon as the phone was answered, her boyfriend asked her where she had been, why didn’t she answer the phone for a long time? On the end of the phone, she lowered her head and said that she was in a meeting. Her boyfriend didn't seem to listen. She kept asking her on the phone when she would be back? Yang Zi hung up the phone in embarrassment. After going back, he had a big fight with his boyfriend, packed up his things, and moved out.
Afterwards, my boyfriend went to find Yang Zi several times, but Yang Zi said that he really didn't want to continue dating him anymore. This kind of life makes me feel that I am being monitored by others all the time and have no sense of happiness at all. Yang Zi also said that in fact, his heart has always been on his boyfriend and he has no other thoughts. But her boyfriend's actions made her feel very heartbroken and she never believed in everything she had given.
In Yang Zi's opinion, love should not be like this. Love should be tolerant, considerate, and mutual tolerance. But the love her boyfriend gave her made her unable to feel happiness, but she came from her heart's boredom. Such love may not be love, but possession. She said the most unacceptable thing is why her boyfriend didn’t just talk about the matter, but harassed her on video calls from time to time.
Now the two are still in the cold war between and because of the video. Yang Zi is determined to break up, but her boyfriend asks her to give her a chance. Yang Zi said that he planned to deal with it coldly now, and what will happen in the future will be left to time!
In life, there are actually many people like Yang Zi’s boyfriend. Whether it is a man or a woman, when facing a lover who is better than you, you will always feel less confident in your heart. So they hope that the other party can pay attention to them at all times and report their whereabouts. When making a phone call, you must have a video, so that you can feel at ease.
However, in fact, such an approach will really hurt the other party’s heart. You don’t believe it everywhere and think that the other party has a ghost, but in fact the other party has no ghost, but you have a ghost yourself. If you always have this knot in your heart and always feel that doing this is right, then no matter who you are with, you are destined to be unhappy.
Everyone is an independent individual in this world. No matter how deeply you love each other, he and you are always two separate individuals.Those who try to turn the other person into one are fundamentally wrong. I have heard that the most helpless invention now is that everyone has a smartphone.
You can learn everything through your phone, and you even want to master everything about the other person. You are eager to know what the other party is doing? He (she) on the other end of the video is very disgusted with such behavior. Even if the other party answers the video, you know everything you want to know, so what can you do? A temporary peace of mind represents a lifetime of peace of mind. Your videos from time to time can only show that you have no confidence in love and love too humbly.
Here we suggest that all lovers and couples in the world should talk about things when they have something to do, don’t keep videos, and don’t think that they don’t know your little thoughts. Your actions have actually betrayed you.