Some people say that if you love someone, you must accept everything, treat it with love and tolerance, and only by committing your own dedication can you gain perfect love. Some people also say that lovers can only love seven points, and leaving three points is self-esteem. If you don’t leave any way out for yourself, you will eventually lose and lose.
But many people have forgotten a key point, which is whether they are self-disciplined or keep their own points, ultimately, they have to start with whether the other party is worth it.
A woman from Henan posted a video on the Internet for help, hoping that many people could give themselves an answer. She clearly didn't feel the mistake, so why did she bear the final consequences themselves?
It is reported that this woman had a boyfriend before. Because she liked him very much, she tried her best to meet any requests for her ex-boyfriend, and she would almost always be asked and answered questions. But no one can say anything like fate. Even though the woman showed her love humbly, the two of them ended up breaking up.
Later, the woman and her current boyfriend met successfully. However, during a time when they only belonged to the two, the current boyfriend saw that there was a smoke scar on the front of the woman's chest. Especially when she clearly learned from the woman's mouth that the smoke scar was burned by her ex-boyfriend, her current boyfriend instantly fell silent and said nothing.
Seeing her current boyfriend mind so much, and seeing her current boyfriend reacted so much, the woman was also annoyed and angry, saying that she didn't know whether to comfort her current boyfriend or comfort herself at that time, it was not her fault, so why did she react like this? You are obviously burned, shouldn’t you feel sorry for yourself?
Then, the sad woman turned around and prepared to leave, but her boyfriend did not try to keep her too much, and allowed the woman to walk out of the house alone, wearing thin pajamas and walking on the street with light rain.
Although the cold rainy night made the woman feel cold, the chill on her body seemed a little insignificant compared to the disappointment and anger in her heart. As the saying goes, "There is no greater sorrow than death in her heart", the reaction of her boyfriend is the root of the coldest heart for the woman.
In this era of free love, everyone has a past, these pasts are either joy or sorrow, good or bad, and write an unforgettable past with ups and downs, and make a deep memory with colorful colors.
No one knows what will happen next. Living in the present is the best way. Because of this, people will devote themselves to a relationship without caring about the consequences and never considering the future.
Speaking of which, the woman's anger seems to be a bit inappropriate. No matter what, this result has nothing to do with her current boyfriend. Accepting or not accepting is the right to her current boyfriend. If she feels hurt just because her current boyfriend is silent, isn't this a kind of "the evil person complains first" behavior?
Let’s imagine, under what circumstances can a woman let her boyfriend burn smoke on her body? What kind of woman can accept such behavior? The answer is obvious. This woman was definitely the humblest one in the previous relationship.
If a woman who shows her love and compromise does not get a good result, she will not accept anyone completely in the future. This behavior of the former committing evil and the latter taking responsibility is really unfair.
In fact, what the woman was angry about was not the reaction of her boyfriend, but the use of anger to cover up the uneasiness and helplessness in her heart. After all, on the other hand, if a man has the name of his ex-girlfriend tattooed on his body, I am afraid no woman can face it calmly. In such a situation, the other party is angry and silenced, which is the manifestation of a normal person. If you don’t care, if you always say that you feel distressed, then needless to say, all of this is a manifestation of not loving enough.
After all, if a person who doesn’t plan to marry you, how can he care about what kind of past you have?
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