A colleague of mine used to have a girl because her first child was a girl, and her husband-in-law insisted that she would not have to take care of her after giving birth, nor would she have to pay for it. Her mother-in-law and father-in-law also paid all the expenses for the chi

A colleague of mine used to have a girl because her first child was a girl, and her husband-in-law insisted that she would not have to take care of her after giving birth, nor would she have to pay for it. Her mother-in-law and father-in-law also paid all the expenses for the child. After the maternity leave was over, she would go to work if she wanted to go to work and her mother-in-law and father-in-law showed it.

Someone shows the children, and some people pay to raise children. If it were me, I would probably be shaken. After all, there are indeed a little fewer children.

So my colleague agreed after being persuaded by my mother-in-law, and the second child gave birth to another girl.

My mother-in-law and father-in-law knew that they had given birth to another girl, and then said that they were not in good health recently and were afraid that they would not be able to serve during the confinement period, so in the end they were taken care of by their colleague's mother.

In a blink of an eye, the maternity leave is about to end. During this period, my mother-in-law and father-in-law not only didn’t give a penny, but also kept silent about the matter of showing the child. This time, my colleague was anxious and thought that the old couple had almost rested, and there should be no health problems, so she asked her husband to call the old couple. What's the result?

People don’t say it and don’t show it. People say they can’t see it, their health is not good, and they can’t bear it. The medicine has not stopped recently. In fact, they are all health supplements! People just think that they have given birth to another girl and don’t want to show it to you anymore!

In this way, my colleague had to resign. And because there was a big one, he was so busy that he hit the back of his head every day. This caused the relationship between the couple to break down and they almost got divorced. In the end, they didn't get divorced for the sake of their children, but they also quarreled every day!

So when it comes to having a baby, you must seriously consider it and don’t pin your hopes on other people’s promises.

Think clearly even if there is no other person’s promise, will I want it myself? If you want it without other people's promises, then you want it. If you want it because of other people's promises, then consider it again. What if other people's promises are not fulfilled?

can only treat other people’s promises as “icing on the cake”. The promises can be done better, and you can still do it if you can’t do it!

What do you think?