Today, Douyin came to an sister from Anhui who worked hard to sell sesame cakes for 12 years and bought a house and a car for her younger brother. At the age of 33, he still didn't care about getting married, and devoted himself to his younger brother. He even transferred the sto

Today, Douyin came to an old sister in Anhui who worked hard to sell sesame cakes for 12 years and bought a house and a car for her younger brother. At the age of 33, he still didn't care about getting married, and devoted himself to his younger brother. He even transferred the stores he worked hard to get into his younger brother's name. He said bluntly that he had to wait until his younger brother got married and started a career before he could consider his own happiness. The comments below are criticized and praised. Most of them called her the ceiling of "Vodemort", and only a few people praised her for being filial to her parents. As an Anhui native, I just feel sad and distressed! Everyone's growth environment and education are different, and their cognition will also be different. People who have never experienced it will never understand other people's lives. The souls that are shackled by layers of shackles may be sleeping people that others cannot wake up all their lives.

I was born in the rural area of ​​ North Anhui . Not to mention now, at least the late 1980s I was born was a generation that highly favored boys over girls. Boys are born precious, and all the resources in the family are tilted down one side; girls are born humble, and when they are young, they have to wash clothes and cook for their brothers; when they grow up, they work and make money to build houses for their brothers; when they get married, they have to marry a generous dowry for them to marry their wives; after getting married, they have to keep in mind to help their brothers in their parents' career; when they are middle-aged, they have to help their brothers share the responsibility of supporting their parents; when they die, they have to wait for their brothers to come and prepare their title before they can be buried. From the beginning of my memory, I have been instilled with the idea that "my mother's family is the root of a girl". Brothers are the backers of a girl, and they should devote themselves to their efforts to die for her. But this kind of education is very standard. If you need to contribute, you say "the mother's family is the root of your daughter." When your daughter asks for help, it will immediately become "the water splashed by the married daughter." So most of the girls here have a feeling: "Girls will have no home when they grow up." In fact, they have never been there. It's just that when they were young, they didn't understand the world, they had never been exposed to the outside world, and they have always lived in the ideological cage given by their parents. So to be cruel, it might be better if a girl never leaves that world in her life. Unfortunately, many girls go out to work and come into contact with the outside world and see other girls' different lives. The collision between brainwashed and brain-washed thoughts and self-consciousness awakening is really painful. Because they will suddenly realize that they have never been truly loved and were just born as a "tool".

My family has 3 brothers and sisters in the family, and two brothers above. The two brothers and a pair of poor students were sent to the city for study through their relationship. Only this little sister who studied in the township had excellent grades and was trained by the school as the high school entrance examination ace. Before the high school entrance examination, the school attached great importance to it and specially visited homes, hoping that parents could relax. As a result, she backfired and her sister was forced to drop out of school and eventually failed to have the opportunity to take the college entrance examination. The principal and the head teacher could not understand it, so they came to persuade each other again and again, indicating that if it was a funding issue, the school could help. The clan uncle found a lot of reasons to shirk it. When I grew up, I realized that there was no reason, it was just excuses. The only reason is, what should I do if I get into a key high school? Read or not? If you read, the three children in the family are under great pressure to study, so why should a girl waste money? The most important thing is that when she is studying, who will support her two sons to study? If you don’t study, you will be so good at the exam. What if someone in the village has a good thing pokes the backbone of and ? The most important thing is that I will lose my words from my daughter in the future. It’s better not to agree to the exam at all, so there will be no trouble later.

My girl went out to work at the age of 16 and entered the factory at a young age. I have a salary of several hundred yuan a month, but I have left dozens of yuan to buy daily necessities, and I have all the rest to my parents. At that time, only my family had a landline phone number, so I could always hear about some things about the tribe girls every week. The most common thing my aunt nagged is not to be lazy, to be quick-witted...or how much money did so much money this month, why did you have less than her... I remember one time, the clan girl called at around 10 o'clock in the evening. At that time, people slept early, and my father had already fallen asleep. Seeing that she called so late, she was afraid that something would happen, so she quickly urged me to call her parents. We were worried around the phone, and we heard the sister crying so hard that she was so tired that she couldn't stand it anymore.It was the peak season, the factory had a lot of orders, and I worked overtime until midnight every day, so I was too tired... After talking for a long time, I saw that my mother didn't respond, and my voice gradually became desperate, and I began to beg my parents to go home. My aunt looked like she was so angry that she was so angry that she was lazy and could not suffer... In the end, my father couldn't listen anymore and interrupted their conversation. Another time, during the Chinese New Year, my aunt heard that someone in the village had a high salary in the electronics factory, so she insisted that the clan girl follow her after the New Year. But after working for a while, the clan girl heard from people who came to the factory that their electronics factory was toxic and that girls would affect their future childbirth. The clan girl called back and cried, and her aunt coaxed her, and she insisted for a while, and then talked about it at the end of the year, otherwise the wages she bet would be gone...

The clan girl married at the age of 27, for 11 years. The two brothers have her help in the two-story building in the rural area, the commercial housing in the city has her help, the dowry for marriage has her help, and the baby has her help... There are 4 houses in the family, but there is no room for her. When getting married, the bride price plus three golds is equivalent to 140,000 yuan. The clan girl and her aunt said that she would take the money back to her in-laws' house. The family was quarreling for this matter, and the two sisters-in-law scolded their sister as bad as pigs and dogs. The final result was that the clan girl brought back 80,000 yuan, and each of the two brothers was 30,000 yuan. For this reason, she offended the entire family and became the "obscene wolf" in the whole family. After returning to the door for three days, even her 7-year-old nephew drove her out. She loved her so much. She chose the new clothes she wore. After eating that meal in her eyes, she returned to her husband's house crying. She didn't understand why she had been a cow and horse for her family for so many years and wanted to stand up straight at her husband's house, so why did she become selfish?

You see, there are many places in this world that are full of malicious intentions towards girls. Don't use your moral standards to demand them, you don't know what she has experienced behind her. After all, you can't understand that places without street lights are all ghosts. Now we are much better here, at least we have fewer children. Although the resources are still tilted to our son and the property is left to our son, love is willing to be distributed to our daughter. I believe it will get better and better.