Today's blind date is a 63-year-old man Li and a 53-year-old beautiful woman Yan. Both of them had a good first impression when they met. After the two sat down and communicated seriously, Yan asked the man to have a stable income, a car, and a house as soon as he spoke. He also asked the man to pay a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift if the blind date was successful. These conditions were indispensable. Li couldn't accept it, and the blind date of the two ended in failure.
Yan is 52 years old and divorced. He currently works in an insurance company. His economic income is 3,000 yuan per month and he has a small house.
Chapter 0 Yan is still quite up to the trend of the times. Although he is 52 years old, his clothes are similar to those of a little girl in his early 20s. However, Yan had a bad marriage, and the two divorced due to a discord in love.
As for the request for a partner, Yan also said straight to the matchmaker: The standard for finding a partner is that the other party must have a fixed income, and a car and a house are the basic conditions. After all, everyone is at this age. It's a bit unreasonable to have no car and house. No need for eye contact, height, fat and thin are acceptable. After the matchmaker learned about Yan's request.
Then she introduced Li, who is 63 years old this year. He said that Li's pension is 4,000 yuan and has a house. My wife passed away a few years ago. He has never planned to find a wife, but now he is retired to help his son see his child at home. He is still a little bored, so he just looks for his thoughts to find a wife. The two chatted together. Spend the rest of your life happily together.
Li's requirements for choosing a spouse; first, you must pass the eye, and second, the two must have a common topic.
Soon the matchmaker arranged for the two to meet. Yan also dressed up carefully for this blind date. They wear a short skirt and a pair of black sunglasses, which is obvious that they follow the trend of the times. The two of them just met and have a good impression of each other.
Since you have a good feeling for each other, don’t rush to leave. What if happiness comes and knocks on the door and the two successfully hold hands?
Then the two sat down to communicate. The two began to introduce themselves. After learning about each other's situation, we will look at the main conditions.
Yan lived a very clear life, saying that she only lived with money when looking for a partner. He was tall, short, fat and thin, and old age were not her criterion for choosing a partner. The only criterion was that everything had to be looked at by money.
Yan: The standard for finding a partner is to have a fixed income, but the other party must have a car, a house. If the two of them succeed in a blind date, the man will have to pay me a 100,000 yuan gift.
last time he was brutally refused because of his age. This time, Li was once again in trouble because of his bride price.
Li: I can't accept it, I have no money.
Yan: You must have a car. I have been following this standard for so many years. If there is nothing, I would rather live it myself.
As the saying goes, “The fetus must be thrown right, and the thighs must be hugged right.” Although this is the case, you still have to look in the mirror to see what your conditions are? Can you say that you will always be 18 years old with a bow on your head?
Li: How much do you want for the bride price? Yan: The bride price is 100,000 yuan. Yan was straight to the point, Li was absent-minded, and these two were not dragging on the slut at all.
At this moment, Li could only rub his hands to relieve his inner embarrassment. By the way, the knowledgeable people of the times are the heroes. Li began to remain silent and was ready to go home to cook for his grandson at any time.
In a word, it is impossible for Yan to give a 100,000 yuan gift. Li's attitude directly made the atmosphere of this blind date awkward. In order to regain face, Yan began to fight back against his attitude.
Yan; if you don’t meet the first condition, no matter how outstanding you are in all aspects, you meet the standards in all aspects, I will definitely not get along with you.
Li remained silent, and the blind date between the two ended in failure.
After this blind date, Li finally realized the reality. It is better to spend the rest of his life single after all. If such a big person has a worse condition, it is understandable.But Yan's requirements were too high, so not only did Li not accept it, but many people might find it difficult to accept it. Li decided to focus on his children and take care of them more.
Yan said that he was still very popular, but they did not meet my standards, so I will never settle for it. I am such a person, and I must have a high-end life. However, I believe that some people like Yan's request for a spouse, and suggest that Yan persist for another two years, what if the dream comes true.
In short, when you meet the right person, treat each other more sincerely. Too high requirements can actually be reduced. In this way, the chance of success of the blind date will be much higher, and you will not miss the other party, and it is easy to grasp happiness. What do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.
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