If the phone is broken, you can change it to a new model. When the sun sets, there will be a moon to replace it. Even if I walk on the road at night, I can sing loudly to boost my courage. Others think that I live a free and easy life, but why do I think of you every late at night? Why can't this kind of longing stop once it starts?
There was an answer on Zhihu about my ex's marriage, which made me sad:
"It's great. The things that have tortured me for so many years can finally end. Don't disturb my dream again. I can never marry someone who wants to marry sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen, twenty, and twenty. Forget it, letting go of you is just reconciliation with yourself, that's it."
Falling in love with someone is as easy as others say, you can forget it.
Your last quarrel, the last figure he left to your back, you smelled his last perfume, these little memories are like an invisible spider web.
may be negligible for others, but only you will know how difficult it is.
Especially in the quiet night, the quieter it becomes, the tighter it will entangle until it locks all your thoughts and pulls away all your sleep, from dusk to dawn.
For those who have loved with their hearts, forgetting is more difficult than being together.
But even if it is difficult to let go, most people still choose to force themselves to let go, because we all understand that the most taboo thing in love is to make nostalgia longer than the process.
My friend told me:
After breaking up, I walked for several hours without any direction or goal, and I walked seven or eight kilometers in one breath.
was shocked by myself when I recovered. I had no idea why I came here, nor could I remember which intersection I passed, nor did I even remember whether I had passed the red light.
The feeling was very similar to Tinnitus . The harsh beeping sounds isolated myself from the world from beginning to end, and everything was so unreal.
But who doesn’t want to redeem himself?
That night, I suddenly slapped myself in the mirror and asked myself loudly. Why can’t you just let go? What are you still praying for? Is the lessons from the past not hurt enough, or is your future not desperate enough?
Look how ridiculous I am. I understand the truth, but I just can't get out of it.
Sometimes, there is really no excuse for the indifference of love.
Maybe it was a sudden decision, and that person might never look back.
I think this is the ultimate obsession for most people.
What’s ridiculous is that you and I are still looking at everything about ourselves and looking for our own problems.
even begged others to tell us how bad it is. However, so many years have passed, we still have not found a reason for him to leave. After all, the fault is not on you, so how can we find it?
Later, someone else appeared beside that person.
From then on, we understood what it feels like to be heartache.
It turns out that "heartache" is not just an adjective, but a real and heart-wrenching noun. You will pant heavily, your palms and forehead are covered with cold sweat, you will hurt so much that your hands tremble, and your heart seems to be pinched tightly.
It was from that moment that we will understand that the stories we heard in the past were all true. Love will really hurt people, and if it hurts deeply, it may really kill people.
But what can I do? , When love becomes unrecognizable, only breaking up will become the only relief.
Xue Zhiqian sang in " Actually ": "No excuse is needed, let go if you love is faded."
Coincidentally, friends will also say this, if you want to be strong, no one can do without anyone else, there is no need to hold it in your hands when love fades.
But there is really no empathy in this world. After all, you have loved a unique person. What’s more cruel is that you may still be the only person you have loved in your life.
But you and I will follow the lines:
"I'm fine, I forgot long ago", especially about you mentioned by them, we can always pretend to be an understatement.
Look, you and I are very proud, and I am very careless and very irrelevant, but only in my own heart will know that sadness is a stubbornness that I can never say easily.
Maybe it's time to come to an end, maybe it's time to reconcile with yourself. After all, so many years have not only made others worry, but also too sorry for yourself.
There is no good medicine in this world that can heal the wounds of your heart. You and I can only endure all the reluctance, reluctance, loss, and disappointment and continue to live alone.
Although those sadness is just not saying it, it is not unpainful.
But since you are leaving, I will endure the pain and give you the life you want.
At least in this relationship, I can pretend to be a bad person you have lost, and pretend that I have never loved you.
Of course, I also know that people who have loved hard are always extremely difficult when they say goodbye, but no matter how sad they are, remember to give yourself a deadline, because only by letting go can you have a new beginning.
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