After a man and a woman hold hands for a while, the woman proposes to "break up". The man is intangible and always asks for an explanation from the woman, and in the end he often makes jokes.
A woman is unwilling to follow you, either the reason lies in her. She falls in love with others, or despises you. She has moral flaws, but she is unwilling to follow you. If you try to keep her, it will only annoy her and will often make herself bored in the end. Or the reason lies in you, you make the woman feel cold and completely give up. The woman feels that she can’t see any signs of getting better when she comes to the mud with you, and she has no hope for your common life, so she says to you, "You walk on your Yangguan Road, I walk on my single-plank bridge."
For the first reason, it is difficult for you to force women to change themselves, so it is better to let go earlier.
You should reflect on the second reason. If it is difficult to collect the water, you should be more awakened. Don’t be too stupid. There is a reason why women leave you: do you understand that if you don’t plant spring or harvest autumn?
1. You did not fulfill your promise and disappointed the woman.
You ask women to give you a chance, and you ask women to give you a chance to correct your mistakes. What have you done long ago?
The woman was disappointed when you promised a woman that she did not do what she promised; the woman pointed out that she hoped that you could fulfill her promise, but you still did not take her opinions seriously. At this time, the woman would feel cold.
Don’t blame women for being too scrupulous, see if you really break your promise to women, don’t give women hope and promise to women, and then make excuses that they have poor memory and forget it. Just ask women to understand and trust themselves.
The reason why some women get tired of men after marriage and ask for breakup with men is not that they make unreasonable trouble, but that men fail to fulfill their pre-marital promises. If you don’t want to see such a result, you must understand that it is necessary to make women confident in themselves and fulfill their promises as soon as possible.
2. You are not mature enough, making it difficult for women to trust.
In life, a man is immature in his work and does not do things firmly. He always fails to do what a man should do well, and he always finds reasons for himself afterwards.
Just like some men always can’t twist it out when interacting with women, often protecting other women, speaking for other women, and ignoring their own women’s feelings; if such things happen more often, women will naturally find it difficult for them to believe that men really like themselves.
Some men always like to talk to women when they get along with women, treat women as fools, repeatedly underestimate women's wisdom and judgment, and use new lies to cover up old lies. Even if women give men a chance to explain to men, men still think that women are easy to fool. If such things happen more often, how can men win the trust of women? When a woman feels that such a man is difficult to trust, she doesn't want to entrust herself to this man.
3. You are not tolerant enough, and women feel tired.
When a man gets along with a woman, he is too narrow-minded, too calculating, too self-righteous, too domine himself, always ignores the woman's feelings, and loves to impose his narrow ideas on women. If the woman does not follow her, she will be petty with the woman.
Man is always self-righteous and thinks that women should abide by the ancient saying of " Three Obediences and Four Virtues " and obey themselves, and take themselves as the main line. If a woman's words and actions make him dissatisfied, he will focus on himself, not listen to the woman's opinions, and use both soft and hard to the woman, trying to strengthen her husband's principles.
Women live with such a man, they will truly feel that such a man is too narrow-minded, impatient with him, and lack tolerance. Not only does he have no hope of living with him, he is also very tired and tormented, and in the end he is unwilling to maintain this relationship.